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What Do You Think Of Pre-Marital Intimacy And/Or Touching?
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 28, 2008, 01:01:15 AM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on May 28, 2008, 12:56:38 AM ---
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 27, 2008, 11:39:23 PM ---
--- Quote from: DownwithIslam on May 27, 2008, 10:23:13 PM ---But Yacov, lets say you meet a nice jewish girl, and you get to know her and like her, will the fact that she is not a virgin make you turn her away even after getting to know her.
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Yes. Every Jewish man who is a virgin deserves to marry and sleep with a virgin on his wedding night. I have stayed a virgin and I expect the same of a woman.
That is why I don't want to get close to women who are not virgins. Once I get attached to her, finding out she is not a virgin and having to dump her would be devastating.
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i know some non religious virgins who prefer a man with experience for they feel its not good for the blind to lead the blind. just a thought
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Then those are self-hating women.
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um, no they're not....
Some prefer the same innocence they have and others prefer a man with experience...the latter are not self hating women, yaacov..think before you speak!
Tzvi Ben Roshel1:
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on May 28, 2008, 08:52:27 PM ---
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 28, 2008, 01:01:15 AM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on May 28, 2008, 12:56:38 AM ---
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 27, 2008, 11:39:23 PM ---
--- Quote from: DownwithIslam on May 27, 2008, 10:23:13 PM ---But Yacov, lets say you meet a nice jewish girl, and you get to know her and like her, will the fact that she is not a virgin make you turn her away even after getting to know her.
--- End quote ---
Yes. Every Jewish man who is a virgin deserves to marry and sleep with a virgin on his wedding night. I have stayed a virgin and I expect the same of a woman.
That is why I don't want to get close to women who are not virgins. Once I get attached to her, finding out she is not a virgin and having to dump her would be devastating.
--- End quote ---
i know some non religious virgins who prefer a man with experience for they feel its not good for the blind to lead the blind. just a thought
--- End quote ---
Then those are self-hating women.
--- End quote ---
um, no they're not....
Some prefer the same innocence they have and others prefer a man with experience...the latter are not self hating women, yaacov..think before you speak!
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For Jews- A women who respects herself and keeps herself from sin, should not settle for a guy who sinned by sleeping around with other women, unless he did serious Tishuva (Real Tishuva, not only the loosly way it is said many times). Also vica versa, but I would think that even with that it would definitly be much harder for a guy to go for a girl who slepped with even 1 other guy.
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Tzvi Ben Roshel on May 28, 2008, 09:12:03 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on May 28, 2008, 08:52:27 PM ---
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 28, 2008, 01:01:15 AM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on May 28, 2008, 12:56:38 AM ---
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 27, 2008, 11:39:23 PM ---
--- Quote from: DownwithIslam on May 27, 2008, 10:23:13 PM ---But Yacov, lets say you meet a nice jewish girl, and you get to know her and like her, will the fact that she is not a virgin make you turn her away even after getting to know her.
--- End quote ---
Yes. Every Jewish man who is a virgin deserves to marry and sleep with a virgin on his wedding night. I have stayed a virgin and I expect the same of a woman.
That is why I don't want to get close to women who are not virgins. Once I get attached to her, finding out she is not a virgin and having to dump her would be devastating.
--- End quote ---
i know some non religious virgins who prefer a man with experience for they feel its not good for the blind to lead the blind. just a thought
--- End quote ---
Then those are self-hating women.
--- End quote ---
um, no they're not....
Some prefer the same innocence they have and others prefer a man with experience...the latter are not self hating women, yaacov..think before you speak!
--- End quote ---
For Jews- A women who respects herself and keeps herself from sin, should not settle for a guy who sinned by sleeping around with other women, unless he did serious Tishuva (Real Tishuva, not only the loosly way it is said many times). Also vica versa, but I would think that even with that it would definitly be much harder for a guy to go for a girl who slepped with even 1 other guy.
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Well said...
Katie:
well isnt it already banned by the torrah? or is it not? i mean if it is then isnt it banned already? but i dont think it should be, people can do whatever they want lol not my or ur place to tell them what to do
shimon:
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on June 05, 2008, 08:28:30 PM ---Yes, it is banned by The Torah. Jews should not touch a member of the opposite sex unless it is their parent, sibling, son/daughter, or spouse.
It is not banned for Gentiles since it is not a violation of The Noahide Laws.
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can you where in the torah it says this.
im sorry to say but it doesn't it just was another fence made by the rabbis to prevent immoral sexual behavior.
The whole concept of shomer negiah today is also misunderstood. Some people say "i will only shake a women's hand if it is for buisness and she puts her hand out"for me this is rather silly because even if you offer your hand is this considered sexual?
Does shaking a women's hand make you aroused?
For the vast majority of men it in fact does not. So i dont think we should go so crazy about pre marital touching.
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