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What Do You Think Of Pre-Marital Intimacy And/Or Touching?
Archie:
--- Quote from: shimon on June 05, 2008, 09:13:17 PM ---Does shaking a women's hand make you aroused?
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--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on June 05, 2008, 08:59:17 PM ---Yes, it does make a man aroused if the woman is attractive.
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--- Quote from: shimon on June 05, 2008, 08:49:05 PM ---Yes but seeing an attractive can also makes a man aroused. So should we require all women to stay in private?
No one can honestly tell you that in today's world a handshake will lead to sexual activity.
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I don't believe that either.
shimon:
--- Quote from: Archie on June 05, 2008, 09:21:28 PM ---
--- Quote from: shimon on June 05, 2008, 09:13:17 PM ---Does shaking a women's hand make you aroused?
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--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on June 05, 2008, 08:59:17 PM ---Yes, it does make a man aroused if the woman is attractive.
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--- Quote from: shimon on June 05, 2008, 08:49:05 PM ---Yes but seeing an attractive can also makes a man aroused. So should we require all women to stay in private?
No one can honestly tell you that in today's world a handshake will lead to sexual activity.
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I don't believe that either.
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Don't believe what
Archie:
--- Quote from: shimon on June 05, 2008, 09:22:31 PM ---
--- Quote from: Archie on June 05, 2008, 09:21:28 PM ---
--- Quote from: shimon on June 05, 2008, 09:13:17 PM ---Does shaking a women's hand make you aroused?
--- End quote ---
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on June 05, 2008, 08:59:17 PM ---Yes, it does make a man aroused if the woman is attractive.
--- End quote ---
--- Quote from: shimon on June 05, 2008, 08:49:05 PM ---Yes but seeing an attractive can also makes a man aroused. So should we require all women to stay in private?
No one can honestly tell you that in today's world a handshake will lead to sexual activity.
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I don't believe that either.
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Don't believe what
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That a handshake automatically lead to sexual activity / immorality.
q_q_:
you would get more of a sexual feeling if you avoid it completely, and then your hand brushes a girl's hand by accident.
Even if man was to wear a blindfold and learn to navigate with sound waves, like a bat, he would still find a way to identify women, their proportions, and get a "sexual feeling". And that's without touching. You can't avoid it completely. You can try to minimise it, but if doing that, then it would require far deeper techniques than avoiding touching their hand. Hand touch is minor compared to what can go through the mind when you dream. Or for that matter, when you are awake and alone and have a "lapse". If you are aiming at minimising sexual feelings, then you should focus on that.
I knew a crazy guy that wanted to take te medication they give to pedophiles - to suppress his sex drive - so that he could concentrate on his work.
There may be something in jewish law about not touching anywheer e.g. her hand. But I can see why. It is to avoid sexual contact of that kind. It is unnecessary. Easily avoided.
It's not to avoid or minimise sexual feelings though.. that wouldn't make sense, as mentioned. If I was to guess at the logic. I would say that it's just to avoid one of the causes, because it's an obvious one.
I wouldn't shake hands with a woman in or near a shul.. 'cos it's probably against jewish law.. not the place to be flippant and go out of your way to sin.
Archie:
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on June 06, 2008, 02:32:42 AM ---
--- Quote from: Archie on June 05, 2008, 09:24:28 PM ---
--- Quote from: shimon on June 05, 2008, 09:22:31 PM ---
--- Quote from: Archie on June 05, 2008, 09:21:28 PM ---
--- Quote from: shimon on June 05, 2008, 09:13:17 PM ---Does shaking a women's hand make you aroused?
--- End quote ---
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on June 05, 2008, 08:59:17 PM ---Yes, it does make a man aroused if the woman is attractive.
--- End quote ---
--- Quote from: shimon on June 05, 2008, 08:49:05 PM ---Yes but seeing an attractive can also makes a man aroused. So should we require all women to stay in private?
No one can honestly tell you that in today's world a handshake will lead to sexual activity.
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I don't believe that either.
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Don't believe what
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That a handshake automatically lead to sexual activity / immorality.
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I never said it does. I said it leads to a sexual feeling in your body just like when the woman hairdresser washes your hair.
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I hope you find and marry your wife real soon, because it must be very hard for you to live under such restrictions / sensorial deprivation, especially at your age...
I could never make it. Hats off to you Yacov.
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