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What Do You Think Of Pre-Marital Intimacy And/Or Touching?
Zelhar:
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 23, 2008, 07:48:38 AM ---
--- Quote from: zelhar on May 23, 2008, 07:08:55 AM ---Judaism actually allows sex without marriage, it is permissible for a man to have a Pilegesh, and it is permissible for a woman to be a man's pilegesh.
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But a modern day girlfriend is not a pilegesh.
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It's true. However Jews that are in the process of teshuva, or just can't stop themselves and yet fear of sinful behaviour could implement the pilegesh solution which is better than a hasty marriage.
DownwithIslam:
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 23, 2008, 08:16:29 AM ---
--- Quote from: DownwithIslam on May 23, 2008, 07:56:18 AM ---Yacov, it will be pretty hard to find jewish girls that have no been immoral. Even many religious ones are involved in promiscuity. This is not only a male problem but a female one as well. In todays world, you are thinking about a perfect situation which doesnt happen often. I am sure you are right that it would be better if people were more moral.
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I don't care what she did as long as she's a virgin. I've kissed girls on the cheek in the past too and I've hugged and slow danced with them so I'm not perfect either but now I refrain from that. But never did I have sex and I expect that from a wife too. I've never kissed a girl on the lips but I'm willing to marry a woman who has kissed a man on the lips in the past.
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Yacov, I am pretty certain that by todays standards, you are pretty much perfect as your life has been very moral till now. As far as finding a girl like that, you will need to go to a chasidic home to find it. Most women cant be qualified as such past the age of 15. Even in the religious world, it will be hard to find what you are looking for. You may want to lower the standard as it is hard to find perfection.
DownwithIslam:
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 23, 2008, 08:32:57 AM ---There are Modern Orthodox Machmir women that are also Shomrot Negiah. All I want in a woman is that she be religious, a virgin, attractive, no multiple piercings (One earring in each ear only.), and no tattoos. I prefer a woman with brown hair and blue or green eyes but it's not required but only extra. I'm not going to reject a woman because she has brown eyes. My girlfriend when I was 13 had blonde hair but now I don't want a blonde wife.
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Yacov, you are setting your standards too high for any regular person. What you are asking for is basically perfection. Most girls that are attractive will not be virgins. I am being honest with you.
White Israelite:
--- Quote from: DownwithIslam on May 23, 2008, 08:50:16 AM ---
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 23, 2008, 08:32:57 AM ---There are Modern Orthodox Machmir women that are also Shomrot Negiah. All I want in a woman is that she be religious, a virgin, attractive, no multiple piercings (One earring in each ear only.), and no tattoos. I prefer a woman with brown hair and blue or green eyes but it's not required but only extra. I'm not going to reject a woman because she has brown eyes. My girlfriend when I was 13 had blonde hair but now I don't want a blonde wife.
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Yacov, you are setting your standards too high for any regular person. What you are asking for is basically perfection. Most girls that are attractive will not be virgins. I am being honest with you.
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Won't disagree with that.
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 23, 2008, 08:32:57 AM ---There are Modern Orthodox Machmir women that are also Shomrot Negiah. All I want in a woman is that she be religious, a virgin, attractive, no multiple piercings (One earring in each ear only.), and no tattoos. I prefer a woman with brown hair and blue or green eyes but it's not required but only extra. I'm not going to reject a woman because she has brown eyes. My girlfriend when I was 13 had blonde hair but now I don't want a blonde wife.
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yaacov, i pray for you and wish you all the luck to find that perfect match...bless you!
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