Lisa I have to wonder if that child's mother felt the same way. Anyway I hate that "We are the World" stuff too.
I didn't forget about that sickening song either:
It has to be one of the most retarded songs ever made.
Most of "the World" is made up of savage people with no culture who will stay that way if left to their own devices for millenia into the future, or more. Giving them help does very little to change anything, as you point out.
I'm not against sending aid entirely, but it should be private charities only who do these things. The U.S. government and other Western nations have no right to steal from their citizens to give it to citizens of other nations when their own citizens are still cold and hungry.
Think of all the elderly, disabled, or otherwise needy or poor people right here in the West who could benefit from this money. If it has to be given to someone, give it to them, not to Africans all the way on the other side of the world!