What am I? I don't believe in wearing Keepah because Moses didn't wear it, neither did Abraham, or even the Jews of the Roman Empire. What I believe is that you just need to be a good person, don't murder, don't steal, don't be a bad person, and G-D will love you. I remember some Rabbis were caught selling Ecstasy (they were Heredis) in the 90s. I'd rather be a good person overall then a guy who spends all of his time doing rituals. I wasn't raised very religious because of Soviet influence on my family but I was always told that there is a G-D watching me and what I do.
I do know that I'm not living true Judaism though. I do fast on Yom Kippur, I go to the synagouge and pray on Yom Kippur, and I was Bar Mitzvahed.
That knowledge greatly separates you from a Reform Jew, because it means you have the capacity to strive towards being a better Jew. Reform Jews, on the other hand, believe that their type of Judaism is suprior to Orthodoxy, and thus never have any reason to change their ways.
As for a Kippa, yes Jews did wear it in Roman times, and it is in the Talmud, but I can understand your sentiments.
As for just needing to be "a good person", this is simply not true. What you stated were a few Noachide laws, which all humans are bound to. Jews being the Chosen People, have much more intense and much more numerous obligations, and this includes rituals and codes of behaviour.
I find it interesting that you are aware that your family's religion was destroyed by the Soviets, yet you don't seem to want to compensate for what they did by returning tothe ways of your forefathers. You should not let the despicable Soviet authorities continue to harm your sense of Judaism in the year 2009.