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1. The Romantic Guy
He believes in classic romance. He is constantly bringing her flowers and chocolate and lighting candles during dinner. He calls her often to let her know he is thinking about her and looks into her eyes and tells her how he feels.
Why he is so irresistible: A woman loves to feel appreciated, and the romantic guy makes this happen. He uses romantic gestures to show her he is thinking about her. As an added bonus, she feels free to reciprocate and act on her own romantic tendencies.
2. The Confident Guy
He is totally secure and sure of himself. He is assertive in public and gives off an aura of power and control (within reason of course, as the "cocky guy" is not on this list). In a relationship, he doesn't get jealous of other men; he doesn't feel threatened by his girlfriend's male friends or coworkers.
Why he is so irresistible: Women are attracted to confident men. Consider this: If you think you are great, she will probably be influenced to think the same. The confident man doesn't seek approval from women, and this makes them want him even more.
3. The Artistic Guy
The artistic guy is spontaneous and lives for the moment. Often, he will use his creativity to woo her, such as with a song he has written about her or a painting he has made for her.
Why he is so irresistible: Every woman wants to feel unique and special. There is no better way to make her feel this way than to use her as your muse or your source of inspiration. She is intrigued by the artistic guy's creative mind and especially by the way he incorporates her into his art.
4. The Foreign Guy
He comes from a faraway exotic country; he might have a cute accent or a unique way of seeing the world. His social customs and everyday behavior can be a little quirky, but he always manages to come off as uniquely charming. Note that you don't have to actually be foreign to fit into this category. If you are well-traveled or speak many languages, you might be able to pull off the charm as well as any sweet-talking foreigner.
Why he is so irresistible: Charisma, charisma and charisma. There's not much more I can say about this one; it's just that mysterious je ne sais quoi that is so alluring. Women often choose this kind of guy if they are curious about the world, but most of the appeal comes down to a fascination with dating someone from another culture.
5. The Free Spirit Guy (aka the Bad Boy)
The free spirit guy goes where the wind takes him -- and the wind usually takes him on some kind of wacky adventure. He might ride a motorcycle, or he might skip work to take her on a last-minute road trip, but this guy doesn't worry too much about the consequences; he just sees where his own devices take him.
Why he is so irresistible: Every woman wants a bit of a rebel (within reason, of course). She loves his carefree attitude and hopes that it will rub off on her too. The bad boy spirit adds an element of youthfulness to the relationship and she loves to try taming him -- although she knows she'll never actually succeed.
6. The Intelligent/Witty Guy
He instigates conversations that are intellectually stimulating and listens to what she has to say in response. He makes her laugh with his clever sense of humor and has an uncanny ability to make politics interesting. He can shoot the breeze with her for hours and it will never get boring.
Why he is so irresistible: As time goes on, your hairline may recede and your buff body may soften, but if you can keep her interested, you've won half the battle. An intellectual connection is a big part of what sustains a relationship and if you can show her that you've got that, she'll be hooked pretty quickly.
7. The Considerate Guy
He holds open her car door and pulls out her chair. He foots the bill for dinner and makes sure to offer her dessert. He always asks her out with reasonable notice and picks her up at her door. He is generally sensitive to how she is feeling and when she is ready to go home.
Why he is so irresistible: Surprised? You probably think that nice, considerate guys never get the woman, but consider this: Once a woman has gone through her share of the bad guy, the rude guy and the not-calling-her-back guy, she will likely reevaluate her priorities. It takes a bit of maturity on her part to realize this, but eventually most girls come around and realize that they want a guy who will treat them well in the long run.
a word of caution
Don't take any of these character types to the extreme or try to be someone you're not -- it will be way too obvious.
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« Reply #1 on: December 22, 2009, 10:24:09 AM » |
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I'm all of them (though am foreign only to girls from the Galut)
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« Reply #2 on: December 22, 2009, 10:43:22 AM » |
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I'm all of them (though am foreign only to girls from the Galut)
What is girls from the Galut? |
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« Reply #3 on: December 22, 2009, 10:45:10 AM » |
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I'm all of them (though am foreign only to girls from the Galut)
What is girls from the Galut? Girls from the Exile (any place which is not the Land of Israel), who live or were living there |
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« Reply #4 on: December 22, 2009, 10:52:59 AM » |
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Oh, I tried to Google it but all I got was basketball & sexy girls.
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« Reply #5 on: December 22, 2009, 10:56:25 AM » |
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בס"ד Oh, I tried to Google it but all I got was basketball & sexy girls.
Well these things happen a lot in the Galut |
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« Reply #6 on: December 22, 2009, 11:07:04 AM » |
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« Reply #7 on: December 22, 2009, 04:19:46 PM » |
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So what's the best example of Chaim from the listed above, girls (JEW GIRLS ONLY)?
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« Reply #8 on: December 22, 2009, 04:23:31 PM » |
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Since this is the righteous gentile singles section, you might not get much of a response. You realize you are in the righteous gentile singles section, correct?
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« Reply #9 on: December 22, 2009, 04:24:28 PM » |
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בס"ד Since this is the righteous gentile singles section, you might not get much of a response. You realize you are in the righteous gentile singles section, correct?
Well the number of Jew posters in the other thread is equal to the Gentile posters' |
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« Reply #10 on: December 23, 2009, 07:10:44 AM » |
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I just made them unequal.
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« Reply #11 on: December 23, 2009, 07:12:24 AM » |
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So which one matches Chaim the best?
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« Reply #12 on: December 23, 2009, 08:40:09 AM » |
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« Reply #13 on: December 23, 2009, 09:04:04 AM » |
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« Last Edit: December 23, 2009, 10:45:56 AM by Ron Of Judah »
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« Reply #14 on: December 23, 2009, 05:19:08 PM » |
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So which one matches Chaim the best?
I don't know him personally to make that choice. |
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« Reply #15 on: December 23, 2009, 05:41:24 PM » |
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So which one matches Chaim the best?
I don't know him personally to make that choice.  |
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« Reply #16 on: December 23, 2009, 06:00:24 PM » |
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So which one matches Chaim the best?
I don't know him personally to make that choice. What's so funny? |
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« Reply #17 on: December 23, 2009, 07:45:42 PM » |
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If I make aliyah before getting married, I will be the "foreign guy."   |
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« Reply #18 on: December 23, 2009, 10:11:54 PM » |
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If I make aliyah before getting married, I will be the "foreign guy." Explain aliyah. |
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« Reply #19 on: December 23, 2009, 10:24:13 PM » |
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If I make aliyah before getting married, I will be the "foreign guy." Explain aliyah. moving to Israel |
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« Reply #20 on: December 24, 2009, 07:23:09 AM » |
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בס"ד If I make aliyah before getting married, I will be the "foreign guy." You talk Hebrew with a funny accent? |
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« Reply #21 on: December 24, 2009, 01:55:09 PM » |
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בס"ד If I make aliyah before getting married, I will be the "foreign guy." You talk Hebrew with a funny accent? I sound like this guy when talking in Hebrew. |
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« Reply #22 on: December 24, 2009, 10:04:20 PM » |
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בס"ד בס"ד If I make aliyah before getting married, I will be the "foreign guy." You talk Hebrew with a funny accent? I sound like this guy when talking in Hebrew. You'd do great not sure how I would when I'd be in US in about a couple of months |
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« Reply #23 on: December 27, 2009, 02:05:29 PM » |
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בס"ד בס"ד If I make aliyah before getting married, I will be the "foreign guy." You talk Hebrew with a funny accent? I sound like this guy when talking in Hebrew. You'd do great [ not sure how I would when I'd be in US in about a couple of months[/b] RUN..........run for your life's. |
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« Reply #24 on: December 27, 2009, 02:07:39 PM » |
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What do you mean?!@#!#
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