Why don't you ask Chaim in the ask JTF thread about Bible verses you find troubling? I think he can answer those very well.
I guess I accept that sometimes religious texts are misinterpreted. I know I have seen people do that with the Talmud online so because I have seen that done to my group, I am inclined to believe it happens to other people as well.
I know that I did go to the Talmud many times, and I found that all of the things anti-semites say about that book are lies--outright lies. One passage the anti-semites are always going on about is about it being permissable to have sex with a 3 year old. That is pure anti-semitic filth. What that passage really says and I can thank Ronen Nachman, may he rest in peace, for pointing this out is that the punishment for rape, not the permissability of it, but the punishment for it is what is discussed in the Talmud.
My point is that if someone can impune my religion, I am not surprised if they do it to another religion