Greetings Chaim,
I know similar questions and issues have arisen on the forum recently, but nonetheless I still seek your advice and sage wisdom, and I apologize for the length of the question.
It is very important to me to marry a Jewish woman, raise a Jewish household, and of course continue the Jewish bloodline. I am extremely conscious of the fact that intermarriage is decreasing the Jewish population, including unfortunately here in the United States. I, of course have no interest in contributing to this problem, however sometimes I just feel utterly without hope.
I did a study abroad at the University of Tel Aviv my junior year of college (not too many years ago), and was in Israel for a total of 6 months. There were Jewish women there from all across the United States, from California to New York and everywhere in between. There were even Latino Jews studying abroad there, from Argentina, Brazil, etc.
I was extremely saddened to find while I was there (and believe me, I was actively looking for the possibility of dating one of these Jewish women), that 99% of the girls that I'd met were extremely superficial, materialistic, selfish, and worst of all, EXTREME liberals (not to mention they enjoyed things like gangster rap, and were heavily influenced by the Afro-American "culture". I recall my roommate and I at the time were in a propaganda class with these animals, and we would be the only two people in the entire class preaching Kahanism, and taking right-wing stances on Israel political issues at the time. Everyone else in the class, particularly the women (all Jewish), were crying about how extreme we were, how we must treat the Arabs nicely and we must give them a Palestinian state, and all of the other drek that these self-hating liberal Kikes spew.
It hit hard Chaim when I was in Israel surrounded by this type of Jewish female. Furthermore, I would even go out and try to talk to Israeli women, thinking they might prove to be a better lot than the American type. Unfortunately once again, (and of course this could be situational), my hopes were crushed. I'd attempted to talk to multiple Israeli women, and my hebrew wasn't nearly as good as it is now, and as a result half of them wouldn't even talk to me just because I would speak to them in English or broken-Hebrew. The other half, shrugged me off as a disinteresting American and didn't even give me the time of day. To my defense, I am a good-looking guy and not without charm, which is why it crushes me that the majority of the women whom I meet and who take a large interest in me, are Shiksas.
As I've said, I want nothing more than to meet and marry a good Jewish woman, with strong Jewish values, and who supports Kahane, and the JTF, and the right, but it seems even harder than finding a needle in a haystack. I'm at a loss at this point in my life, as I've really lost a lot of hope in EVER finding a good Jewish woman, unlike the women I met in Israel (both from Israel, AND the US). It crushes me to think that the women that were on my study abroad trip in Israel, are a representation of the female Jewish population across America. What a sad event!
I wonder if you have any suggestions or ideas on WHERE one like myself might meet this "ideal" Jewish woman that we are talking about, and if you have any words of advice or encouragement regarding the fact that any of them actually exist! I've sadly come to a point where I have little faith regarding this issue.
Also, what is your opinion on this issue, and what is it that is making the decline of the Jewish population in American particularly, so strong? Do you blame it more on societal influences, or does the fault lie in the parents for not stressing the importance of marrying Jewish, remaining Jewish, and raising Jewish children in a Jewish house? As ever, thank you Chaim, and God bless you and the JTF for all of the righteous work you do. Sincerely,
DavidBenZion (pronounced Dahveed, Ben Tsion - the Israeli way).
Topic: Ask JTF for Sunday, June 6, 2010 (Read 12086 times)