http://www.jpost.com/Magazine/Features/Article.aspx?id=178028It is a bit of a read. It shows more of both sides of the issue. I am of the tendency to believe there is truth being told on both sides, and the ultimate truth lies in the middle. I am interested in watching this little part of the world, mostly in hearing from parents.
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While I see myself more comfortable outside of a strict European Jew way of life and school of learning, I respect and understand the need for parents to raise their children as they see fit and the deep desire to keep their way of life, their legacy, alive.
If I was a parent and I was told I had to send my kids to a school that taught the Reform and Reconstructionalist ideas of Judaism I would be militantly against it. -- How many of us would feel the same way?
I am not biased against Ashkenazi culture, but I always seem to find myself drawn more to Sephardic customs, food, history, and I like women of the Sephardic look more naturally. God willing, when I make Aliyah I hope to find the wife who is
right for me, and I have the tendency to think she will be a Sephardic girl, although I try not to commit myself to prerequisites before I am even there. But I would hate to make any Jew, even [or especially] a curmudgeonly Ashkenazic Haredi who might never want to speak a word to me, bow down to how I think Judaism should be, and force them to give up their culture.