Of course my heart goes out to them. I'm not going to go into any details but there have been phases of my life where I wasn't that far from that in fact.
However, I still think that most sane people can distinguish a family on hard times from Queen Laquisha (or Socorro) and her litter and absentee, deadbeat husband (or current shackjob honey) milking Uncle Sam for the majority of their reproductive lives. Some of the Laquisha welfare queens actually have jobs of some sort, jobs that a more deserving poor person should get but didn't because of racial preferences, and are on welfare anyway because they don't earn nearly enough at them to feed their seven mouths and bum boyfriends.