Why are women in general so self-hating?
They are just naive and they work more with their emotions, thus some donkey-hole can trick them in doing what they want. (not all women, but in general terms). Also in Israel mohammed goes to a club and calls himself "Moshe", blends in, plays with some girls emotions, gets her "hooked", marries her, and then shows his true colors when many times its too late (its never too late, but they are in the hole by then).
Parents should control their children, especially girls. Don't let them be out there on the streets/clubs and other such places.