I agree with everything you said EXCEPT what you said about most Americans not agreeing with this sentence. Most Americans don't understand YET that "civilians" in the Muslim world are involved with sheltering, aiding, abetting, supporting, and praising Muslim Nazi terrorist murderers and that those, yes, men, women and children are equally and fully responsible for whatever acts that the Muslim Nazi terrorists commit and deserve the same fate of the people who directly carry out attacks themselves. I guarantee you that the majority of Americans agree, even though they might know that the family including the daughters sheltered and supported terrorists, that what the soldiers did was utterly reprehensible and that they deserve to spend long jail sentences. Most Americans still don't understand that in order to defeat terrorist infrastructure which includes their emotional, financial, and moral support, we must destroy the people who support terror as well as the people who carry out acts of terror.
I do think that every act against a Muslim supporter of terror, whether it be rape, murder, and torching of their bodies, is fully justified and is how we need to carry out our campaign against the Muslim savages. If I were calling the shots, soldiers who murder supporters of terrorists would be given medals.