May I put my two cents in here now?
I only heard today about the terrible experience that Iasmina had. I have a few things to say in reaction. I will address all of this to Iasmina, although of course everybody is free to read it.
First, something not directly related to what happened to you. I want to apologize on behalf of all Americans to your Serbian people for taking the wrong side in the war between your people and the Bosnians. Perhaps former President BJ Clinton was too busy not having sexual relations with that woman, Monica Lewinsky, to realize what a terrible mistake he made in siding with the Bosnians over your Serbian people. The Bosnians are not only largely islamofascists, not only are the source of many PLO/Hamas Arab Moslem Nazis, but openly supported and fought for adolf shitler and the nazis during the Second World War. In contrast, your Serbian people did more than any other Eastern European people to help save as many Jews as they could. Your former leader, Slovodan Milosovic, was absolutely right in fighting the Bosnian islamofascists. He was not a monster, but a hero.
Second, let me tell you about my father's experiences, because they sound similar to your own. My father was born in and grew up in a small little Jewish village in Poland, where he spent his childhood getting beaten up by the Polish Catholics there. Then one day, he had had enough, took his sled, and smashed them over their empty heads. They never bothered him again after that.
When he was nineteen years old, he was forced to run away from adolf shitler and the nazis. After quite a long trip across Asia, finally settling in Shanghai, China, he eventually made it over to Canada and then to America. When he first got here, which took time because he came here through legal channels, he was taking an ESL class to learn English for the first time. His teacher apparently did not like Blacks, and my father, in his broken English, used to openly criticize the teacher for being a racist.
Later, when he moved from Chicago to Omaha, Nebraska to finally Los Angeles, he had a liquor store in a largely Hispanic neighborhood. He used to bend over backward for his customers, especially to Blacks, extending endless credit to them and doing all he could to be nice to them. And what was his reward for his honesty, integrity, hard work, and kindness? Well, in 25 years of being there, he was held up at gunpoint 50 times. 47 of those times were by Blacks. Blacks shot him in his head, lungs, and beat him up. By the end, he had very reluctantly changed his mind about Blacks. To his dying day, he could not understand why anybody would attack somebody who never did anybody any harm.
This, sadly, is the nature of many Black people. Obviously, there are some very fine Blacks; most of them, perhaps not coincidentally, seem to be Republicans, such as Clarence Thomas, Thomas Sowell, Walter Williams, and Denzel Washington. But the vast majority of Blacks are not Republicans; they vote Democrat more than any other group of people. A large portion of them are very angry people, angry at whitey, demonize whitey, jealous of whitey, and consider it a victory if they can ruin whitey's life in any way they can, such as demanding handouts from whitey in various forms such as welfare and slave reparations. Another way is for their black men to rape white women; perhaps the slightly less fierce ones are the kind you encountered, who scare the living daylights out of you, attacking you for no reason whatsoever, other than the fact that you are a white woman. The way it works is, if a white person says even the slightest anti-black statement, such as what Don Imus did, or Jimmy the Greek and Al Campanis before him, their lives and careers are ruined; but Blacks can say and do whatever they want, can express the worst anti-white racism imaginable; and nobody better dare object, or else they will be labeled as racists.
As unfair as all this is, the practical truth is that as a woman by yourself, you cannot fight the system. All you can try to do is avoid trouble as much as possible. Part of that means not talking in public the way I am talking here among friends, and part of that means avoiding Blacks as much as you possible can. There is, in fact, a website you can go on, that shows the American census, which it takes every 5-10 years. Once you get into the system, you can look up any zip code or city name, and it will show you what percentage of that area consists of Blacks and some other minorities. The goal would be to move to a neighborhood that has the highest percentage of White people, and the lowest percentage of Black people. I am lucky in that I live in an area of Los Angeles that is 85% White with relatively few Blacks, but there are not many areas of Los Angeles that are like that.
Anyway, I know this letter is a long one, but I hope you read and absorbed it all, and have found it of positive value.