If all the video game time i wasted was spent learning things, I'd be a lot more useful.
You'd be surprised as well as non-gamers out there to know the benefits to this hobby. This is coming from someone who has been gaming since the Atari days when my old man used to operate arcade machines in the shop. We were never religious either.
I often heard common stereotypes about video games saying it is childish, for kids, a waste of time.
Let's start with the genres of video games to disprove all this nonsense.
Horror: find clues, investigate your mission, defeat enemies. These are usually atmospheric with scare pop ups. Titles include Silent Hill, Resident Evil, Condemned, F.E.A.R, Fatal Frame, there are also movie based horrors like Friday the 13th that came out in the 80s.
I played the sequel to Fatal Frame, that gave me goosebumps from Japan...
Puzzle: solve puzzles and often look for clues.
I recommend a puzzle game called Antichamber. It is a unique atmosphere with a thought out presentation.
Role play games: known as RPG, it is a genre for story buffs and take the role of a character. Titles are Dreamfall, Skies of Arcadia, Kingdom Hearts, Zelda, Final Fantasy.
I recommend this genre to women. There are plenty female characters to get to know their stories with families and relatives to share their motives.
This genre also requires a sufficient amount of time for each play time though because you are familiarizing with new people in the game.
Fitness exercise games: This genre has come a long way. You need a motion sensor (Wii or ps3 or kinect) for this to control your body movement and do basic exercises with an instructor guiding you on the screen and accomplish the obstacles.
Senior homes have used this device on old people to get in shape
Now there's the hardcore gaming side relying on intense high accuracy and twitch hand to eye coordination which I will just list the genres First Person Shooters and Fighting games
All this might seem I'm defending this hobby, my point is there is something for everyone in this diverse hobby even for Orthodox Jews in this site and for all ages with benefiting results. Religious gaming, now that's a colliding genre.