Can a Promiscuous Woman be Reformed?

[Kiwi]

Once a women experiences what its like to be promiscuous, can she truly change her state of mind?
Why would she have been so in the first place if she had not thought it was ok?

Somen women change, some don't.

Yes they can Sarah, I have seen many promiscuous women settle down to one man, and raise families and be good people.

I really depends on why they are like that. Some because they need to feel wanted even for a short time, others because they want the world and everything that goes along with it.

And some are seen as promiscuous when they are really not.

To jump and label a woman without knowing who they really are is a sin as much as anything else. To judge one without all the facts is plain wrong, and never wise.

To assume a state without an informed choice is showing the base level of the person as one of very low brain activity. 

Or as I like to use the label ATAPS ( as thick as pig shite)

Brilliant!....................................................................Fantastic!

Now I understand: promiscuous women have their reasons to be sluts!

How didn’t I get it before?!?! This should have been so obvious to me!

The Infidel is right – according to her religion it is a sin to judge such women.

Well, in my religion, it is sin to marry such serpents.

Unfortunately, I have a rich experience of running into such “innocent sinners”, who claimed to have made a mistake and swore of repenting. But as soon as they saw a slightest sign of understanding and forgiveness, they would little by little find justifications to their evil behavior and little by little try to prove you that you are wrong in judging her, and that your morals are wrong and not hers.

And thus, if you have self-respect, honor, and morals, don’t buy this crap!

Yes women are bad EVIL EVIL 

Women? Don't generalize by putting yourself in the same category with others. Women are not evil, but some are, including those whom you are defending here, and I have a strong feeling, are being a part of.

Women are the blood in our vessels. Promiscuous women are a cancer.

Oh so you think I am an evil slut?

I don't want to judge you. I am sure, you have your reasons to be whatever you are. But don't defend them here. Wrong venue.

What do you mean I am not allowed an opinion now!

Is my opinion different to yours so I can't state it.

Or is that how you treat women in general only say what I want to hear and believe.

I will defend whom I choose, and if you don't like it thats too bad.

[Wayne Jude]

And Bullcat why defend Erika to the death and approve of something no child should see .

[nessuno]

It is nice if people can be reformed.    I'm sure some can.
I don't think anyone should ever count on their partner changing.
It is the wrong attitude to have when entering a relationship.
If you can't accept someone as they are - forget it!
What is that saying - A leopard can't change it's spots.

[nessuno]

And Bullcat why defend Erika to the death and approve of something no child should see .

What are you talking about?

[Wayne Jude]

I would not let my child see such a  bunch of garbage no matter who  who wrote it.

[nessuno]

I asked you a question.
What are you talking about 

[Kiwi]

It is nice if people can be reformed.    I'm sure some can.
I don't think anyone should ever count on their partner changing.
It is the wrong attitude to have when entering a relationship.
If you can't accept someone as they are - forget it!
What is that saying - A leopard can't change it's spots.

Thats right, people need to get along with each other who you choose as an individual partner is no ones business than their own.

To find someone you love and want to stay with for the rest of your life is special, when you really love another all your heart and soul, nothing that another says will ever change it.

This looking soley on the surface of a person is all to do with lust not love. And I think few here really know the meaning of what love really is.

[Wayne Jude]

NOt funny Bull cat!

[Zvulun Ben Moshe]

It is nice if people can be reformed.    I'm sure some can.
I don't think anyone should ever count on their partner changing.
It is the wrong attitude to have when entering a relationship.
If you can't accept someone as they are - forget it!
What is that saying - A leopard can't change it's spots.

It would be wonderful if people wanted to sincerely repent.

However very often, it is only you who wants to see them repent.

And they see that and they say that they do, but they don't.

Major sins are made out of an enourmous egoism and no egoist will think that he or she is a wrongdoer.

They twist you into believing that you can always find justifications, to anything.

And if you are succesful in finding justification to whatever you want to do, you will soon find that others do the same, and then you can trust no one, just like in a jungle.

[Wayne Jude]

This thread is going no where.Bye

[jdl4ever]

Z'vulin, are you aware that Joshua's wife was an ex prostitute who sincerely repented and converted to Judaisim according to the Talmud.

[nessuno]

For the most part...this forum and the people on it are wonderful.

I don't defend Erica - I defend her right to be a member of this forum.
I'm not afraid of her or her opinions.  I always knew where she stood.
This thread is not the appropriate place for this discussion CWN.name.

If you were offended I apologize

[Kiwi]

Z'vulin, are you aware that Joshua's wife was an ex prostitute who sincerely repented and converted to Judaisim according to the Talmud.

He is clearly not aware of a lot of things.

[Zvulun Ben Moshe]

It is nice if people can be reformed.    I'm sure some can.
I don't think anyone should ever count on their partner changing.
It is the wrong attitude to have when entering a relationship.
If you can't accept someone as they are - forget it!
What is that saying - A leopard can't change it's spots.

Thats right, people need to get along with each other who you choose as an individual partner is no ones business than their own.

To find someone you love and want to stay with for the rest of your life is special, when you really love another all your heart and soul, nothing that another says will ever change it.

This looking soley on the surface of a person is all to do with lust not love. And I think few here really know the meaning of what love really is.

The woman who a minute ago was showing off how she was always the one who left her men is now talking about love?

What a self-contradiction, which is usually called hypocricy.

[Zvulun Ben Moshe]

Z'vulin, are you aware that Joshua's wife was an ex prostitute who sincerely repented and converted to Judaisim according to the Talmud.

JDL, you are clearly avoiding answering my question. Do you want to be in place of Joshua or Hosea or whoever else?

[jdl4ever]

I said that I would currently avoid such a woman with a ten foot pole.  But if I was 40 years old and could not find anyone suitable to marry and I get along with such a person, then if she was currently righteous then I would consider her. 

[nessuno]

It is nice if people can be reformed.    I'm sure some can.
I don't think anyone should ever count on their partner changing.
It is the wrong attitude to have when entering a relationship.
If you can't accept someone as they are - forget it!
What is that saying - A leopard can't change it's spots.

Thats right, people need to get along with each other who you choose as an individual partner is no ones business than their own.

To find someone you love and want to stay with for the rest of your life is special, when you really love another all your heart and soul, nothing that another says will ever change it.

This looking soley on the surface of a person is all to do with lust not love. And I think few here really know the meaning of what love really is.

I'm surprised that you would say that few here really know the meaning of what love really is.
I think just the opposite.  
I would not feel very comfortable being involved with a man who had a very promiscuous past.
Does that mean I don't really know the meaning of love or that I know what is right for me?

[Kiwi]

It is nice if people can be reformed.    I'm sure some can.
I don't think anyone should ever count on their partner changing.
It is the wrong attitude to have when entering a relationship.
If you can't accept someone as they are - forget it!
What is that saying - A leopard can't change it's spots.

Thats right, people need to get along with each other who you choose as an individual partner is no ones business than their own.

To find someone you love and want to stay with for the rest of your life is special, when you really love another all your heart and soul, nothing that another says will ever change it.

This looking soley on the surface of a person is all to do with lust not love. And I think few here really know the meaning of what love really is.

The woman who a minute ago was showing off how she was always the one who left her men is now talking about love?

What a self-contradiction, which is usually called hypocricy.

No 

Its what I said all the time, you need to find love and be happy in relationships, not stuck in an abusive one. All women are the same, just how men see them.

SO thats your problem is it finally, you don't like women leaving relationships.

Does it matter who leaves, if the relationship is so broken it will just destroy the people in it.

You are very bitter man, I now understand why.

Good day.

[Zvulun Ben Moshe]

No??? 

Now you understand? Good for you!

Hope you also understand that your deseptive self-contradictive tactics here has failed miserably.

[Kiwi]

It is nice if people can be reformed.    I'm sure some can.
I don't think anyone should ever count on their partner changing.
It is the wrong attitude to have when entering a relationship.
If you can't accept someone as they are - forget it!
What is that saying - A leopard can't change it's spots.

Thats right, people need to get along with each other who you choose as an individual partner is no ones business than their own.

To find someone you love and want to stay with for the rest of your life is special, when you really love another all your heart and soul, nothing that another says will ever change it.

This looking soley on the surface of a person is all to do with lust not love. And I think few here really know the meaning of what love really is.

I'm surprised that you would say that few here really know the meaning of what love really is.
I think just the opposite. 
I would not feel very comfortable being involved with a man who had a very promiscuous past.
Does that mean I don't really know the meaning of love or that I know what is right for me?

About the love is simple, many here are single, or never had a relationship.

Everyone here that has or is in one knows that the idea of love, and having a relationship is too different things.

I defend the promiscuous woman because age plays a role in all our choices.

As we get older our wants and needs change, sex plays little role in real relationships, yes its  apart but its far from being every thing. A good mother, carer, wife, daughter, friend has to do with who you really are.

Not what the past has been.

I seen many people killed sinners and saints and they all bleed the same blood.

[Zvulun Ben Moshe]

Coffee? chocolate? men? In that order?

That indeed sounds like love, doesn't it?

Hold on, when you left those men, in which order did you leave them?

Let me guess: Men, chocolate, coffee?

[Kiwi]

No??? 

Now you understand? Good for you!

Hope you also understand that your deseptive self-contradictive tactics here has failed miserably.

Yes I will think about that when in I am my husbands arms, of course you are the only one I think of at that time 

[Zvulun Ben Moshe]

No??? 

Now you understand? Good for you!

Hope you also understand that your deseptive self-contradictive tactics here has failed miserably.

Yes I will think about that when in I am my husbands arms, of course you are the only one I think of at that time 

... and chocolate.

[Wayne Jude]

Now I know why most chat rooms are filled with men.

[Kiwi]

It is nice if people can be reformed.    I'm sure some can.
I don't think anyone should ever count on their partner changing.
It is the wrong attitude to have when entering a relationship.
If you can't accept someone as they are - forget it!
What is that saying - A leopard can't change it's spots.

Thats right, people need to get along with each other who you choose as an individual partner is no ones business than their own.

To find someone you love and want to stay with for the rest of your life is special, when you really love another all your heart and soul, nothing that another says will ever change it.

This looking soley on the surface of a person is all to do with lust not love. And I think few here really know the meaning of what love really is.

The woman who a minute ago was showing off how she was always the one who left her men is now talking about love?

What a self-contradiction, which is usually called hypocricy.

No 

Its what I said all the time, you need to find love and be happy in relationships, not stuck in an abusive one. All women are the same, just how men see them.

SO thats your problem is it finally, you don't like women leaving relationships.

Does it matter who leaves, if the relationship is so broken it will just destroy the people in it.

You are very bitter man, I now understand why.

Good day.

Infidel, I would like you to define what the word "happy" means as it relates to a relationship. While you are at it, you might as well also define "love."

LOL for me love and being happy are the close to the same thing. Happiness for me is to be with my man, a closeness of having another near you that you would die for in a split second, one that just looks at you and you need no words to know you are the only one they desire and wish to have in their lives always.

Happiness is unspoken words, when you turn around some thing small has been done for you, a sharing of a life together. Such as when you wake you have the feeling of being protected beyond anything in this world that can harm you. A small kiss or touch means the more than all the gold and gems in the world.

Looking apon the face of your partner and seeing a little age and remembering when you knew the face was younger, and thinking yes my emotions and feelings will never change.

Unconditional support of the partner, and being their haven their comfort.

100% Trust 100% loyality 100% of wanting every breath in you life to be taken when you are with them, not apart.

That is happiness and love for me, with love there is also one more thing. Love to me is something that grows day by day, week by week, year by year. Not something that can be created in a mere wink of an eye.