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Is it a good idea to have sex ed?
Just Erica:
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on February 01, 2008, 12:37:28 PM ---
--- Quote from: Just Erica on January 29, 2008, 10:12:10 PM ---
--- Quote from: newman on January 29, 2008, 10:06:28 PM ---
--- Quote from: Just Erica on January 29, 2008, 10:02:15 PM ---
--- Quote from: newman on January 29, 2008, 08:14:47 PM ---Sex education was only introduced in schools around 40 years years ago.
Are there MORE or LESS abortions and bastard babies now days?
I rest my case.
--- End quote ---
You haven't proven that sex education is the reason for abortions or the increase of out of wedlock babies are born. The LACK of the service and the LACK of the parents talking openly about sex to their children is the reason all of this is happening, newman. Rest your case on that.
--- End quote ---
I didn't say sex ed was the reason. But it hasn't improved anything either. You've just stated what most opponents of sex ed say. 'it's up to parents'.
--- End quote ---
Who else is it supposed to be up to, Newman? THe reason why Sex ed was thought of in the first place is because a rash of teenaged girls and boys started having sex and children at early ages; because their parents weren't talking to them. It IS up to the parents to teach their children about sex. Now how are the teens supposed to learn about sex, newman? By osmosis? What? They're supposed to just get older and all of a sudden "DING" they've gotten the idea? Also, remember...schools have something to lose when they have more pregnant students. THat means more drop outs. That leads to the school being closed down.
If you had children and they were 6 or even 7 years old and asked you about sex, what would you tell them?
--- End quote ---
At the age of 6 or 7, I would say that kissing on the lips makes babies...and then when they are older I will change the story around.
--- End quote ---
So you'd lie to them? And when the time comes to "Change the story around" what will you say then?
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Just Erica on February 01, 2008, 12:43:05 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on February 01, 2008, 12:37:28 PM ---
--- Quote from: Just Erica on January 29, 2008, 10:12:10 PM ---
--- Quote from: newman on January 29, 2008, 10:06:28 PM ---
--- Quote from: Just Erica on January 29, 2008, 10:02:15 PM ---
--- Quote from: newman on January 29, 2008, 08:14:47 PM ---Sex education was only introduced in schools around 40 years years ago.
Are there MORE or LESS abortions and bastard babies now days?
I rest my case.
--- End quote ---
You haven't proven that sex education is the reason for abortions or the increase of out of wedlock babies are born. The LACK of the service and the LACK of the parents talking openly about sex to their children is the reason all of this is happening, newman. Rest your case on that.
--- End quote ---
I didn't say sex ed was the reason. But it hasn't improved anything either. You've just stated what most opponents of sex ed say. 'it's up to parents'.
--- End quote ---
Who else is it supposed to be up to, Newman? THe reason why Sex ed was thought of in the first place is because a rash of teenaged girls and boys started having sex and children at early ages; because their parents weren't talking to them. It IS up to the parents to teach their children about sex. Now how are the teens supposed to learn about sex, newman? By osmosis? What? They're supposed to just get older and all of a sudden "DING" they've gotten the idea? Also, remember...schools have something to lose when they have more pregnant students. THat means more drop outs. That leads to the school being closed down.
If you had children and they were 6 or even 7 years old and asked you about sex, what would you tell them?
--- End quote ---
At the age of 6 or 7, I would say that kissing on the lips makes babies...and then when they are older I will change the story around.
--- End quote ---
So you'd lie to them? And when the time comes to "Change the story around" what will you say then?
--- End quote ---
I knew what the male and female anatomy looked like when i was 3-4 years old. However I would have never understood how it really worked in a sexual way. I had always been under the impression that women became pregnant by open mouth kissing. And in sex education in 5th grade i learned about the internal anatomies and the changing of the woman's and the man's body. In 7th grade I learned that a certain rubbing had to take place but not how. And then 12 and a half I came across a porno and finally put one and one together.
I would rather my kids have a curiosity but have an innocence about them. Young children aren't ready to hear the real way sex takes place...they don't need to be told about sperms and eggs. They shoudl be kept away from any kind of pornographic images until they are the right age to come across it accidentally. By the time they are teenagers and in their reproductive mode, certainly I will give them a nice lesson on how it's done and how they should deal with it morally and with love.
but little kids dont' need to know the details...I'll just tell them the stork story...until they are mature enough to hear the real one later on.
Ambiorix:
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on February 01, 2008, 12:58:05 PM ---
--- Quote from: Just Erica on February 01, 2008, 12:43:05 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on February 01, 2008, 12:37:28 PM ---
--- Quote from: Just Erica on January 29, 2008, 10:12:10 PM ---
--- Quote from: newman on January 29, 2008, 10:06:28 PM ---
--- Quote from: Just Erica on January 29, 2008, 10:02:15 PM ---
--- Quote from: newman on January 29, 2008, 08:14:47 PM ---Sex education was only introduced in schools around 40 years years ago.
Are there MORE or LESS abortions and bastard babies now days?
I rest my case.
--- End quote ---
You haven't proven that sex education is the reason for abortions or the increase of out of wedlock babies are born. The LACK of the service and the LACK of the parents talking openly about sex to their children is the reason all of this is happening, newman. Rest your case on that.
--- End quote ---
I didn't say sex ed was the reason. But it hasn't improved anything either. You've just stated what most opponents of sex ed say. 'it's up to parents'.
--- End quote ---
Who else is it supposed to be up to, Newman? THe reason why Sex ed was thought of in the first place is because a rash of teenaged girls and boys started having sex and children at early ages; because their parents weren't talking to them. It IS up to the parents to teach their children about sex. Now how are the teens supposed to learn about sex, newman? By osmosis? What? They're supposed to just get older and all of a sudden "DING" they've gotten the idea? Also, remember...schools have something to lose when they have more pregnant students. THat means more drop outs. That leads to the school being closed down.
If you had children and they were 6 or even 7 years old and asked you about sex, what would you tell them?
--- End quote ---
At the age of 6 or 7, I would say that kissing on the lips makes babies...and then when they are older I will change the story around.
--- End quote ---
So you'd lie to them? And when the time comes to "Change the story around" what will you say then?
--- End quote ---
I knew what the male and female anatomy looked like when i was 3-4 years old. However I would have never understood how it really worked in a sexual way. I had always been under the impression that women became pregnant by open mouth kissing. And in sex education in 5th grade i learned about the internal anatomies and the changing of the woman's and the man's body. In 7th grade I learned that a certain rubbing had to take place but not how. And then 12 and a half I came across a porno and finally put one and one together.
I would rather my kids have a curiosity but have an innocence about them. Young children aren't ready to hear the real way sex takes place...they don't need to be told about sperms and eggs. They shoudl be kept away from any kind of pornographic images until they are the right age to come across it accidentally. By the time they are teenagers and in their reproductive mode, certainly I will give them a nice lesson on how it's done and how they should deal with it morally and with love.
but little kids dont' need to know the details...I'll just tell them the stork story...until they are mature enough to hear the real one later on.
--- End quote ---
Of course Dr.Dan. That's the way people taught their children for generations.
Children on farms, saw what the animals did.
But it was out of the question to talk openly about sex, with young children.
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Ambiorix on February 01, 2008, 01:01:38 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on February 01, 2008, 12:58:05 PM ---
--- Quote from: Just Erica on February 01, 2008, 12:43:05 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on February 01, 2008, 12:37:28 PM ---
--- Quote from: Just Erica on January 29, 2008, 10:12:10 PM ---
--- Quote from: newman on January 29, 2008, 10:06:28 PM ---
--- Quote from: Just Erica on January 29, 2008, 10:02:15 PM ---
--- Quote from: newman on January 29, 2008, 08:14:47 PM ---Sex education was only introduced in schools around 40 years years ago.
Are there MORE or LESS abortions and bastard babies now days?
I rest my case.
--- End quote ---
You haven't proven that sex education is the reason for abortions or the increase of out of wedlock babies are born. The LACK of the service and the LACK of the parents talking openly about sex to their children is the reason all of this is happening, newman. Rest your case on that.
--- End quote ---
I didn't say sex ed was the reason. But it hasn't improved anything either. You've just stated what most opponents of sex ed say. 'it's up to parents'.
--- End quote ---
Who else is it supposed to be up to, Newman? THe reason why Sex ed was thought of in the first place is because a rash of teenaged girls and boys started having sex and children at early ages; because their parents weren't talking to them. It IS up to the parents to teach their children about sex. Now how are the teens supposed to learn about sex, newman? By osmosis? What? They're supposed to just get older and all of a sudden "DING" they've gotten the idea? Also, remember...schools have something to lose when they have more pregnant students. THat means more drop outs. That leads to the school being closed down.
If you had children and they were 6 or even 7 years old and asked you about sex, what would you tell them?
--- End quote ---
At the age of 6 or 7, I would say that kissing on the lips makes babies...and then when they are older I will change the story around.
--- End quote ---
So you'd lie to them? And when the time comes to "Change the story around" what will you say then?
--- End quote ---
I knew what the male and female anatomy looked like when i was 3-4 years old. However I would have never understood how it really worked in a sexual way. I had always been under the impression that women became pregnant by open mouth kissing. And in sex education in 5th grade i learned about the internal anatomies and the changing of the woman's and the man's body. In 7th grade I learned that a certain rubbing had to take place but not how. And then 12 and a half I came across a porno and finally put one and one together.
I would rather my kids have a curiosity but have an innocence about them. Young children aren't ready to hear the real way sex takes place...they don't need to be told about sperms and eggs. They shoudl be kept away from any kind of pornographic images until they are the right age to come across it accidentally. By the time they are teenagers and in their reproductive mode, certainly I will give them a nice lesson on how it's done and how they should deal with it morally and with love.
but little kids dont' need to know the details...I'll just tell them the stork story...until they are mature enough to hear the real one later on.
--- End quote ---
Of course Dr.Dan. That's the way people taught their children for generations.
Children on farms, saw what the animals did.
But it was out of the question to talk openly about sex, with young children.
--- End quote ---
i didn't grow up on a farm...I'm just saying this is what worked for with me...every parent will have his/her own way to teach their child about sex. For me, sex is something that shoudl be kept very private and modest...but every one of my children will different and my wife will be my help...so it will be between the both of us on how we will decide on how to talk to our kids.
Just Erica:
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on February 01, 2008, 01:06:10 PM ---
--- Quote from: Ambiorix on February 01, 2008, 01:01:38 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on February 01, 2008, 12:58:05 PM ---
--- Quote from: Just Erica on February 01, 2008, 12:43:05 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on February 01, 2008, 12:37:28 PM ---
--- Quote from: Just Erica on January 29, 2008, 10:12:10 PM ---
--- Quote from: newman on January 29, 2008, 10:06:28 PM ---
--- Quote from: Just Erica on January 29, 2008, 10:02:15 PM ---
--- Quote from: newman on January 29, 2008, 08:14:47 PM ---Sex education was only introduced in schools around 40 years years ago.
Are there MORE or LESS abortions and bastard babies now days?
I rest my case.
--- End quote ---
You haven't proven that sex education is the reason for abortions or the increase of out of wedlock babies are born. The LACK of the service and the LACK of the parents talking openly about sex to their children is the reason all of this is happening, newman. Rest your case on that.
--- End quote ---
I didn't say sex ed was the reason. But it hasn't improved anything either. You've just stated what most opponents of sex ed say. 'it's up to parents'.
--- End quote ---
Who else is it supposed to be up to, Newman? THe reason why Sex ed was thought of in the first place is because a rash of teenaged girls and boys started having sex and children at early ages; because their parents weren't talking to them. It IS up to the parents to teach their children about sex. Now how are the teens supposed to learn about sex, newman? By osmosis? What? They're supposed to just get older and all of a sudden "DING" they've gotten the idea? Also, remember...schools have something to lose when they have more pregnant students. THat means more drop outs. That leads to the school being closed down.
If you had children and they were 6 or even 7 years old and asked you about sex, what would you tell them?
--- End quote ---
At the age of 6 or 7, I would say that kissing on the lips makes babies...and then when they are older I will change the story around.
--- End quote ---
So you'd lie to them? And when the time comes to "Change the story around" what will you say then?
--- End quote ---
I knew what the male and female anatomy looked like when i was 3-4 years old. However I would have never understood how it really worked in a sexual way. I had always been under the impression that women became pregnant by open mouth kissing. And in sex education in 5th grade i learned about the internal anatomies and the changing of the woman's and the man's body. In 7th grade I learned that a certain rubbing had to take place but not how. And then 12 and a half I came across a porno and finally put one and one together.
I would rather my kids have a curiosity but have an innocence about them. Young children aren't ready to hear the real way sex takes place...they don't need to be told about sperms and eggs. They shoudl be kept away from any kind of pornographic images until they are the right age to come across it accidentally. By the time they are teenagers and in their reproductive mode, certainly I will give them a nice lesson on how it's done and how they should deal with it morally and with love.
but little kids dont' need to know the details...I'll just tell them the stork story...until they are mature enough to hear the real one later on.
--- End quote ---
Of course Dr.Dan. That's the way people taught their children for generations.
Children on farms, saw what the animals did.
But it was out of the question to talk openly about sex, with young children.
--- End quote ---
i didn't grow up on a farm...I'm just saying this is what worked for with me...every parent will have his/her own way to teach their child about sex. For me, sex is something that shoudl be kept very private and modest...but every one of my children will different and my wife will be my help...so it will be between the both of us on how we will decide on how to talk to our kids.
--- End quote ---
I can respect that.
I can't do it that way though because by the time kids are 13 nowadays it's too late to break out the truth (or semi-truth). I found this out with my stepdaughter who was 13 when she came to live with us in NY. She took me to the side and asked me about sex because her mom still hadn't told her about it. When she asked her mom,she told her that she got pregnant from kissing. Then she told her that a baby comes from gushy stuff in the stomach. I'm still shivering from that response. My 13 year old stepdaughter didn't now what sex was at all. I didn't want her going throughout life thinking that way so I broke it down for her. I drew pictures, explained in detail how the reproductive system works but more importantly that she should save herself. She is now going to be 17, and she's still a virgin. After seeing how telling her half-truths affected her outlook on sex, I knew from there how I wanted to tackle the subject with my biological kids when its time for them to learn.
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