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Tina Greco - Melbourne:
--- Quote from: Vito on March 11, 2008, 12:47:31 AM ---Well I can talk to women on here easily, we're just friendly. Approaching a girl my age in person, with a more than friendly intention is very difficult to do.
When I do build the guts to approach a girl, smile and say "hi".. it's a simple hi back, name exchange.. and then it's an interview. I ask all the questions, she doesn't ask me anything. I try to show I'm relaxed but that's never the case. I would love to blame it on the girls, but nice guys do have girlfriends, and it can't be EVERY girl that I meet is an idiot..
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Everyone goes through that. Guys are always the ones that ask all the questions. Why should you be any different?
And yes most people are idiots, and you keep going until for find someone thats not.
I talk to and meet a lot people in my day, I go through days when I think the world is full of dropkicks.
But you just go ok and move on. You should look for a friend first then once you get to know a person then maybe a relationship. Going out looking for a partner first up, you will strike out all the time.
You must be happy with your life, because how do you expect anyone else to like you if first you don't really like yourself.
Vito:
--- Quote from: Skippy on March 11, 2008, 12:58:41 AM ---
--- Quote from: Vito on March 11, 2008, 12:47:31 AM ---Well I can talk to women on here easily, we're just friendly. Approaching a girl my age in person, with a more than friendly intention is very difficult to do.
When I do build the guts to approach a girl, smile and say "hi".. it's a simple hi back, name exchange.. and then it's an interview. I ask all the questions, she doesn't ask me anything. I try to show I'm relaxed but that's never the case. I would love to blame it on the girls, but nice guys do have girlfriends, and it can't be EVERY girl that I meet is an idiot..
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Everyone goes through that. Guys are always the ones that ask all the questions. Why should you be any different?
And yes most people are idiots, and you keep going until for find someone thats not.
I talk to and meet a lot people in my day, I go through days when I think the world is full of dropkicks.
But you just go ok and move on. You should look for a friend first then once you get to know a person then maybe a relationship. Going out looking for a partner first up, you will strike out all the time.
You must be happy with your life, because how do you expect anyone else to like you if first you don't really like yourself.
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Well about three years ago I was happy, pretty confident and just approached girls with the best of intentions. After constantly being rejected for about 3-4 years, it really hurts. Not looking for pity, just saying that that will affect my outlook on life and how other people see me. And I can't just cheer up out of no where...
Tina Greco - Melbourne:
--- Quote from: Vito on March 11, 2008, 01:09:46 AM ---
Well about three years ago I was happy, pretty confident and just approached girls with the best of intentions. After constantly being rejected for about 3-4 years, it really hurts. Not looking for pity, just saying that that will affect my outlook on life and how other people see me. And I can't just cheer up out of no where...
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I know it hurts, I have been down that road many a time. Come for a holiday :)
The break will do you good. You are just like my son, he used to say the same stuff to me all the time.
::)
Vito:
Your son is 20, I'm going to be 24..
Tina Greco - Melbourne:
--- Quote from: Vito on March 11, 2008, 01:22:56 AM ---Your son is 20, I'm going to be 24..
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I also have another son who is older than you.
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