Dr Evil grin??
I don't try to impress them, and girls here do not approach guys, that's a 1 in a million. IF looks really help, they're not helping me. But from what I see all the time, looks DO NOT matter.
I've been told by numerous people that know me that I don't show the girl that I want her... and when I try to do that, I give the impression that I'm desperate. Then when I'm too relaxed with them, it's only friendly.
(banging my head against the wall!!)
Well having lump on your head from banging it, will not help you in the looks department.
Look sunshine you have no problem on here talking to women. Very woman here will agree you are a sweetie.
You need to relax, Stop the trying so hard. I bet you are so shy or invading their personal space.
Now body language, don't stand full on to the girl you are an impressive man, turn alittle to the side its more friendly. Relax your shoulders have you hands down.
Golden rule personal space. Everyone has a personal space, normally its a 3 foot circle around them. You stand more that 3 foot away you are going to look disinterested. within the 3 foot if you stand about a 1 and 1/2 away it gives the impression that you want to be close, but not over powering. Any closer you become a stalker. This allows the girl to chose to move closer to you or away from you.
Its just logic stand closer to people we like, move away from people we don't like.
If she shows she doesn't want your attention then back off.
There is no such thing as I will make them want me.
If you are friendly, polite I don't see the problem. You are in NEW YORK, Millions of People.
Theres a saying make a woman laugh and you are half way there. Just think about then when chatting to girls.