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Pre-Marital sex. What is your take??
q_q_:
--- Quote from: Tzvi Ben Roshel on June 15, 2008, 09:13:26 PM ---because the girls on their are probably not for me (Im guessing they are mostly Askenazi)
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european looking girls don't float your boat?
rabbi's orders to pick a sephardi?
parents' orders?
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Tzvi Ben Roshel on June 15, 2008, 09:13:26 PM ---
I never go to club, bars, and silly places like that. I don't even like those places and they just play loud trash music there.
Are Frumster and Orthodate good places to meet a woman? If I get a job in The Summer, I will money to spend so I will be able to afford to be a paid member there. I was only a paid member on Frumster once but the only girl that answered me didn't want to wait until I was done college and I still had a long way to go then. Now I will graduated in December and the only thing standing in the way is having enough money to get married but I will able to work full time since I'll be out of college.
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I know that, I also dont go, but I wouldn't say that if their was no Torah law agains't it that I wouldn't. I went a few times when I was verry young, and to tell you the truth at first I liked it, because I was the shiite because I knew how to dance and stuff. Also I loved the music (trance, club music) and was into that. It wasn't even to pick up a girl, but it was just the atmosphere- the music and friends that attracted me, as well as others. Then I just stopped going after talking to a Rabbi, and seeing the shiite that was going on their, where before I would go if a friend invited for their birthday, I just then said naa sorry its not the place for me.
I do not know about Frumster and the other site, but I guess trying wont hurt. I personaly would not and will not go on them, because the girls on their are probably not for me (Im guessing they are mostly Askenazi) but if you see one that you like why not? Also if I were you I would definitly get myself realy trying by now, because you already need to be married, and you shouldn't wait to first completly finish college to then start dating and then find your match and then finaly get married at like 40 (G-d forbid). Go fishing now, and see what you will catch, also pray to Hashem and dont settle below your reasonable standards (dont make society think you are not "normal" or better yett doing the right thing in wanting simple things like a girl who respects her body, respecting G-d's laws of not having xxx before marriage, and respecting her future husband.) All the luck to you, may Hashem send you your Zivuk Gilgul and may she be a modest, rightious lady who keeps the laws properly.
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how old are you tzvi? I thought you were 18 or 19 years old?
q_q_:
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on June 15, 2008, 09:39:55 PM ---
how old are you tzvi? I thought you were 18 or 19 years old?
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teenagers still have a concept of when they were "very young".
Even 10 year olds can talk of when they were very young, like when they were 9 !
BTW, 19 years old isn't that young.. people can be quite mature by 19, and can have had quite a history, from the age of say 14, partying. It is a long time, especially if you pack alot into it. And alot happens in those years - relatively speaking, so the time goes slower.
Tzvi Ben Roshel1:
--- Quote from: q_q_ on June 15, 2008, 09:36:43 PM ---
--- Quote from: Tzvi Ben Roshel on June 15, 2008, 09:13:26 PM ---because the girls on their are probably not for me (Im guessing they are mostly Askenazi)
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european looking girls don't float your boat?
rabbi's orders to pick a Sefaradi?
parents' orders?
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Personal preference, my most likly way of going. Its just big cultural differences between us.
Rabbi's actualy say not to discriminate (like Rabbi Mizrachi was saying- "what's it her fault if she is Hungarian") but I just personaly feel closer to people who think like me, come from similar background, etc. Also I have a rich culture, and wouldn't want to have a conflict of interest of having which type of culture in the house. Also their would probably be a bigger change of me going for a Sefardi girl in general, not only Bukharian, but most likly with G-d's help the blood in my family will stay purly Bukh. :D
Parents orders- :::D , wouldn't listin anyway (and do not have to since, it involves a mitzva and we dont have to listin to them, but anyway they dont tell me anything).
To Dan- no im 21. But anyway when I meant young, I was referring to like 13 and 14.
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Tzvi Ben Roshel on June 15, 2008, 09:49:40 PM ---
--- Quote from: q_q_ on June 15, 2008, 09:36:43 PM ---
--- Quote from: Tzvi Ben Roshel on June 15, 2008, 09:13:26 PM ---because the girls on their are probably not for me (Im guessing they are mostly Askenazi)
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european looking girls don't float your boat?
rabbi's orders to pick a Sefaradi?
parents' orders?
--- End quote ---
Personal preference, my most likly way of going. Its just big cultural differences between us.
Rabbi's actualy say not to discriminate (like Rabbi Mizrachi was saying- "what's it her fault if she is Hungarian") but I just personaly feel closer to people who think like me, come from similar background, etc. Also I have a rich culture, and wouldn't want to have a conflict of interest of having which type of culture in the house. Also their would probably be a bigger change of me going for a Sefaradi girl in general, not only Bukharian, but most likly with G-d's help the blood in my family will stay purly Bukh. :D
Parents orders- :::D , wouldn't listin anyway (and do not have to since, it involves a mitzva and we dont have to listin to them, but anyway they dont tell me anything).
To Dan- no im 21. But anyway when I meant young, I was referring to like 13 and 14.
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how the heck did you get into any clubs and bars at the age of 13 or 14? lol
As far as marrying only a Bukharian...generally, Sefardi jews tend to have that strong connection with people of their own culture. Being Persian, I know what you mean.
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