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Pre-Marital sex. What is your take??
nopeaceforland:
My take on this is: When I marry a lady (notice I said LADY and not woman) I'd like to know that I'm marrying someone who is pure and not a skank who would bang anyone at a pin-drop. Also, I'm going to want to have kids. I don't want a woman who has a disease farm growing in her pants.
btw: I'm no hypocrite, I am what I preach! I'm almost 26, and I'm still waiting for MY lady, and I'm not ashamed in the least.
Dan:
--- Quote from: nopeaceforland on June 29, 2008, 02:23:08 PM ---
btw: I'm no hypocrite, I am what I preach! I'm almost 26, and I'm still waiting for MY lady, and I'm not ashamed in the least.
--- End quote ---
O0!
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: Gruzinit on June 29, 2008, 02:10:49 PM ---First, I'm not from Israel. Second, I never accused you of being a chauvenist Dr. Dan. I just think it's good for women to pursue a career outside the home, especially it's impossible to live on one income these days.
Many women in my community who married when they were teens have now gone back to school, and many girls I know from high school that got married and had kids while still continuing their education could do so because they had IMMENSE help from their families, because being a student, spouse and parent is quite a juggling act.
Also, many of my mother's friends, women who got married and had a child before the turned 20, realize the importance of an education for their daughters, because the era they lived in is over, and they have no need to see their daughter's become teenage brides. Morning sickness followed by finals isn't great either...
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All of these women you describe sound like good people from good families. So it can work out for sure...but it's not for everyone who doesn't have the means as you describe
And i know you didnt' call me a chauvenist...but i felt like one writing what i wrote.
and for some reason i thought you were israeli...
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: nopeaceforland on June 29, 2008, 02:23:08 PM ---My take on this is: When I marry a lady (notice I said LADY and not woman) I'd like to know that I'm marrying someone who is pure and not a skank who would bang anyone at a pin-drop. Also, I'm going to want to have kids. I don't want a woman who has a disease farm growing in her pants.
btw: I'm no hypocrite, I am what I preach! I'm almost 26, and I'm still waiting for MY lady, and I'm not ashamed in the least.
--- End quote ---
Why are you waiting? Go look for her!
Gruzinit:
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on June 30, 2008, 12:14:48 PM ---
--- Quote from: Gruzinit on June 29, 2008, 02:10:49 PM ---First, I'm not from Israel. Second, I never accused you of being a chauvenist Dr. Dan. I just think it's good for women to pursue a career outside the home, especially it's impossible to live on one income these days.
Many women in my community who married when they were teens have now gone back to school, and many girls I know from high school that got married and had kids while still continuing their education could do so because they had IMMENSE help from their families, because being a student, spouse and parent is quite a juggling act.
Also, many of my mother's friends, women who got married and had a child before the turned 20, realize the importance of an education for their daughters, because the era they lived in is over, and they have no need to see their daughter's become teenage brides. Morning sickness followed by finals isn't great either...
--- End quote ---
All of these women you describe sound like good people from good families. So it can work out for sure...but it's not for everyone who doesn't have the means as you describe
And i know you didnt' call me a chauvenist...but i felt like one writing what i wrote.
and for some reason i thought you were israeli...
--- End quote ---
Supportive families is an understatement. And I take your assumption that I was Israeli as a compliment.
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