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Pre-Marital sex. What is your take??
Dr. Dan:
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--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on June 30, 2008, 12:14:48 PM ---
--- Quote from: Gruzinit on June 29, 2008, 02:10:49 PM ---First, I'm not from Israel. Second, I never accused you of being a chauvenist Dr. Dan. I just think it's good for women to pursue a career outside the home, especially it's impossible to live on one income these days.
Many women in my community who married when they were teens have now gone back to school, and many girls I know from high school that got married and had kids while still continuing their education could do so because they had IMMENSE help from their families, because being a student, spouse and parent is quite a juggling act.
Also, many of my mother's friends, women who got married and had a child before the turned 20, realize the importance of an education for their daughters, because the era they lived in is over, and they have no need to see their daughter's become teenage brides. Morning sickness followed by finals isn't great either...
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All of these women you describe sound like good people from good families. So it can work out for sure...but it's not for everyone who doesn't have the means as you describe
And i know you didnt' call me a chauvenist...but i felt like one writing what i wrote.
and for some reason i thought you were israeli...
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Supportive families is an understatement. And I take your assumption that I was Israeli as a compliment.
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its the way chaim pronounces gruzinit
nopeaceforland:
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on June 30, 2008, 12:15:33 PM ---
--- Quote from: nopeaceforland on June 29, 2008, 02:23:08 PM ---My take on this is: When I marry a lady (notice I said LADY and not woman) I'd like to know that I'm marrying someone who is pure and not a skank who would bang anyone at a pin-drop. Also, I'm going to want to have kids. I don't want a woman who has a disease farm growing in her pants.
btw: I'm no hypocrite, I am what I preach! I'm almost 26, and I'm still waiting for MY lady, and I'm not ashamed in the least.
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Why are you waiting? Go look for her!
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I would love to believe me! Right now, I am extremely pre-occupied trying to get what seems like a non-existing job. I have a master's (so my education's finished IMO) but with the economy, every job I apply for has 2,000 applicants. :'( So, unfortunately this is my main concern, but finding a girlfriend/wife is definitely number 2! O0
Dr. Dan:
--- Quote from: nopeaceforland on July 03, 2008, 12:48:02 AM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on June 30, 2008, 12:15:33 PM ---
--- Quote from: nopeaceforland on June 29, 2008, 02:23:08 PM ---My take on this is: When I marry a lady (notice I said LADY and not woman) I'd like to know that I'm marrying someone who is pure and not a skank who would bang anyone at a pin-drop. Also, I'm going to want to have kids. I don't want a woman who has a disease farm growing in her pants.
btw: I'm no hypocrite, I am what I preach! I'm almost 26, and I'm still waiting for MY lady, and I'm not ashamed in the least.
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Why are you waiting? Go look for her!
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I would love to believe me! Right now, I am extremely pre-occupied trying to get what seems like a non-existing job. I have a master's (so my education's finished IMO) but with the economy, every job I apply for has 2,000 applicants. :'( So, unfortunately this is my main concern, but finding a girlfriend/wife is definitely number 2! O0
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well, you're young also...and you have the right priority...Build your house before you put your wife inside of it. Freezing cold and poor is no way to live
MassuhDGoodName:
I heard Garrison Keilor's show last week.
They said that if the two people having the sex don't plan on getting married, then it can't be "pre-marital" sex! :::D O0 8;)
Karen:
I am for pre-marital sex only if in a serious relationship. No one night stands, floozy encounters, summer date kind of crap. I wouldn't want to marry someone without knowing if we....work in bed. I am against having children out of wedlock though. That's just bad for the children. I think of marriage as an institution that protects children, and if you aren't having any children, you're using safe sex, with someone you love and are serious with, how can it hurt?
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