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i have faced adversity my entire life in new jersey, my school mates can only be described as abusive and hate-full. for example almost every day someone takes my yamacha and plays "keep away" with it, guys harrasment with names like 'jewbagel' or 'jewrat'. they make fun of the holocaust, a class mate of mine told me the funniest day of his life was visiting the holocaust memorial in washington D.C people cut me in line almost every day, and claim the back is "israel" help i need help sugestions advice something that will keep me from flipping out one day.
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Sounds like if the school doesn't crack down fast, you have an awfully big civil-rights lawsuit on your hands. Do you wanna get rich?  ;)

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Sounds like if the school doesn't crack down fast, you have an awfully big civil-rights lawsuit on your hands. Do you wanna get rich?  ;)
:::D i know how bad this sounds but i want revenge. i have been taunted my whole life, ask any of my true friends (coincedently jewish too) even a lunch room aid when this weasel said i wonder if he should be sent to a camp where he could concentrate. my school sucks :'(
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Sounds like if the school doesn't crack down fast, you have an awfully big civil-rights lawsuit on your hands. Do you wanna get rich?  ;)

C F !!! You took the words right out of my mouth .....  O0

P.S. Zionest, you need to file a police report stat and go to the principal for a formal complaint.
Get your evidence together so you can take C F 's advise if this harassment does not stop.

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Sounds like if the school doesn't crack down fast, you have an awfully big civil-rights lawsuit on your hands. Do you wanna get rich?  ;)

C F !!! You took the words right out of my mouth .....  O0

P.S. Zionest, you need to file a police report stat and go to the principal for a formal complaint.
Get your evidence together so you can take C F 's advise if this harassment does not stop.

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ok i have lots of evidence, the worst part i let it slide sometimes because they claim to be my friends but it really really bothers me,  :-[ no i doesnt bother me i hate it, i cant live with it anymore  :(
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Sounds like if the school doesn't crack down fast, you have an awfully big civil-rights lawsuit on your hands. Do you wanna get rich?  ;)

C F !!! You took the words right out of my mouth .....  O0

P.S. Zionest, you need to file a police report stat and go to the principal for a formal complaint.
Get your evidence together so you can take C F 's advise if this harassment does not stop.

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ok i have lots of evidence, the worst part i let it slide sometimes because they claim to be my friends but it really really bothers me,  :-[ no i doesnt bother me i hate it, i cant live with it anymore  :(

Then you can and will do something about this. You have only 2 choices, give up and be a victim or fight this legally. Good Luck.

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Oh, I'm sorry this happens to you.
Keep your chin up and try not let them get you down- or at least let it show that they're upsetting you.
If they see you're really upset, this makes them worse. That's what they want.
Maybe you and your Jewish friends could all go around everywhere in a group?
I would certainly report this to the authorities at school. Most schools have a policy now against bullying.
They are so cruel for making fun of the holcaust.
Good luck.
« Last Edit: August 26, 2008, 11:58:37 PM by Cyberella »

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i have faced adversity my entire life in new jersey, my school mates can only be described as abusive and hate-full. for example almost every day someone takes my yamacha and plays "keep away" with it, guys harrasment with names like 'jewbagel' or 'jewrat'. they make fun of the holocaust, a class mate of mine told me the funniest day of his life was visiting the holocaust memorial in washington D.C people cut me in line almost every day, and claim the back is "israel" help i need help sugestions advice something that will keep me from flipping out one day.

Is this junior high or high school?
Have you had a meeting with the principal and/or teachers about this yet?
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i have faced adversity my entire life in new jersey, my school mates can only be described as abusive and hate-full. for example almost every day someone takes my yamacha and plays "keep away" with it, guys harrasment with names like 'jewbagel' or 'jewrat'. they make fun of the holocaust, a class mate of mine told me the funniest day of his life was visiting the holocaust memorial in washington D.C people cut me in line almost every day, and claim the back is "israel" help i need help sugestions advice something that will keep me from flipping out one day.

instead of meekly letting them do w/e they do, stand up for yourself.

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Sounds like if the school doesn't crack down fast, you have an awfully big civil-rights lawsuit on your hands. Do you wanna get rich?  ;)

C F !!! You took the words right out of my mouth .....  O0

P.S. Zionest, you need to file a police report stat and go to the principal for a formal complaint.
Get your evidence together so you can take C F 's advise if this harassment does not stop.

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no, no police reports, no authorities.  Stand up to them.

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Re: abusive school mates. the victim of continual abuse, and harrasment me..
« Reply #10 on: August 27, 2008, 12:13:48 AM »
Sounds like if the school doesn't crack down fast, you have an awfully big civil-rights lawsuit on your hands. Do you wanna get rich?  ;)

C F !!! You took the words right out of my mouth .....  O0

P.S. Zionest, you need to file a police report stat and go to the principal for a formal complaint.
Get your evidence together so you can take C F 's advise if this harassment does not stop.

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no, no police reports, no authorities.  Stand up to them.

I don't know how old he is, but a friend of mine was being bullied alot in middle school.  He went to the police station and asked them for help.
He came to school the next day with a cop who sat and ate lunch with him at the cafeteria a few times.  He wasn't bullied after that.

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Re: abusive school mates. the victim of continual abuse, and harrasment me..
« Reply #11 on: August 27, 2008, 12:17:57 AM »
While it wasn't based on ethnicity or religion, I was also treated as if I were a piece of garbage when I was in Jr. High. I was just shy and found it difficult to initiate conversations, plus I wasn't really interested in the same things other kids were.

The school did nothing to protect me. What finally helped was getting out of public school and doing home school. It's not very hard and you can always take community college classes for anything you might have missed out on. Community college has remedial courses. All I ended up having to take was remedial math but then after I did I was able to pass through Calculus I in community college.

You should be able to study on your own and earn a GED that will let you get into college later.

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« Reply #12 on: August 27, 2008, 12:19:46 AM »
i have faced adversity my entire life in new jersey, my school mates can only be described as abusive and hate-full. for example almost every day someone takes my yamacha and plays "keep away" with it, guys harrasment with names like 'jewbagel' or 'jewrat'. they make fun of the holocaust, a class mate of mine told me the funniest day of his life was visiting the holocaust memorial in washington D.C people cut me in line almost every day, and claim the back is "israel" help i need help sugestions advice something that will keep me from flipping out one day.

instead of meekly letting them do w/e they do, stand up for yourself.

That doesn't always work. Besides if he fights back then the stupid school administration will make him out to be the bad guy. When I "stood up for" myself, I ended up getting punched in the face repeatedly.

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« Reply #13 on: August 27, 2008, 12:20:46 AM »
I know people here wont condone it but you need to fight and fight DIRTY if you have to.Show them you wont take there crap anymore

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« Reply #14 on: August 27, 2008, 12:21:47 AM »
Don't drop out of school, bud.   One must stand up to bullies, but it depends on what age level.   At a certain age the bullies become "thugs" and can be very dangerous if you are not skilled in fighting arts or weaponry.  In that case if you are worried your life may be in danger, certainly file reports to the proper authorities, police and/or principal, but in the general sense a bully has to be stood up to.

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« Reply #15 on: August 27, 2008, 12:23:11 AM »
Don't drop out of school, bud.   One must stand up to bullies, but it depends on what age level.   At a certain age the bullies become "thugs" and can be very dangerous if you are not skilled in fighting arts or weaponry.  In that case if you are worried your life may be in danger, certainly file reports to the proper authorities, police and/or principal, but in the general sense a bully has to be stood up to.

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Re: abusive school mates. the victim of continual abuse, and harrasment me..
« Reply #16 on: August 27, 2008, 12:24:08 AM »
Sounds like if the school doesn't crack down fast, you have an awfully big civil-rights lawsuit on your hands. Do you wanna get rich?  ;)

C F !!! You took the words right out of my mouth .....  O0

P.S. Zionest, you need to file a police report stat and go to the principal for a formal complaint.
Get your evidence together so you can take C F 's advise if this harassment does not stop.

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no, no police reports, no authorities.  Stand up to them.

Dealing with the agressors legally might be his only option, especially since he has asked them to stop already. No one wants a legal jam, especially not the school for failure to protect his rights and schools do not want bad publicity. The mere mention of a lawsuit may be enough to resolve the problem.
He could take your advise and fight them on his own terms, but this will get him expelled as well as the bullies.

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« Reply #17 on: August 27, 2008, 12:34:50 AM »
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« Reply #18 on: August 27, 2008, 12:35:51 AM »
Sounds like if the school doesn't crack down fast, you have an awfully big civil-rights lawsuit on your hands. Do you wanna get rich?  ;)

C F !!! You took the words right out of my mouth .....  O0

P.S. Zionest, you need to file a police report stat and go to the principal for a formal complaint.
Get your evidence together so you can take C F 's advise if this harassment does not stop.

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no, no police reports, no authorities.  Stand up to them.

Dealing with the agressors legally might be his only option, especially since he has asked them to stop already. No one wants a legal jam, especially not the school for failure to protect his rights and schools do not want bad publicity. The mere mention of a lawsuit may be enough to resolve the problem.
He could take your advise and fight them on his own terms, but this will get him expelled as well as the bullies.


i doubt he would get expelled for just 1 fight.  Might get some detention, or at most a suspension.

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« Reply #19 on: August 27, 2008, 12:38:01 AM »
Sounds like if the school doesn't crack down fast, you have an awfully big civil-rights lawsuit on your hands. Do you wanna get rich?  ;)

C F !!! You took the words right out of my mouth .....  O0

P.S. Zionest, you need to file a police report stat and go to the principal for a formal complaint.
Get your evidence together so you can take C F 's advise if this harassment does not stop.

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no, no police reports, no authorities.  Stand up to them.

Dealing with the agressors legally might be his only option, especially since he has asked them to stop already. No one wants a legal jam, especially not the school for failure to protect his rights and schools do not want bad publicity. The mere mention of a lawsuit may be enough to resolve the problem.
He could take your advise and fight them on his own terms, but this will get him expelled as well as the bullies.


i doubt he would get expelled for just 1 fight.  Might get some detention, or at most a suspension.

I depends how bad was the fight

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« Reply #21 on: August 27, 2008, 12:39:45 AM »
My point is that if it was as simple as "stand up to them" don't you think he wouldn't be asking for help here? At least if he gets out of the situation then he can feel immediately safer and it won't really hurt him academically as long as he knows how to study.

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« Reply #22 on: August 27, 2008, 12:41:21 AM »
My point is that if it was as simple as "stand up to them" don't you think he wouldn't be asking for help here? At least if he gets out of the situation then he can feel immediately safer and it won't really hurt him academically as long as he knows how to study.

The picks I put up are self defense Items he can buy and carry which are not against the law

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« Reply #23 on: August 27, 2008, 12:43:27 AM »
My point is that if it was as simple as "stand up to them" don't you think he wouldn't be asking for help here? At least if he gets out of the situation then he can feel immediately safer and it won't really hurt him academically as long as he knows how to study.

The picks I put up are self defense Items he can buy and carry which are not against the law

That doesn't mean the school won't try to send him to juvie for bringing in "weapons". There was this one kid at my school who was treated horribly. Abused, abused, abused.... chased and teased, and threatened. The school did nothing to protect him either. So one day he brought a gun to school and waved it at his attackers. Suddenly he was the bad guy, and they sent him to juvie. It wasn't his fault! They should have protected him!

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« Reply #24 on: August 27, 2008, 12:47:00 AM »
My point is that if it was as simple as "stand up to them" don't you think he wouldn't be asking for help here? At least if he gets out of the situation then he can feel immediately safer and it won't really hurt him academically as long as he knows how to study.

The picks I put up are self defense Items he can buy and carry which are not against the law

That doesn't mean the school won't try to send him to juvie for bringing in "weapons". There was this one kid at my school who was treated horribly. Abused, abused, abused.... chased and teased, and threatened. The school did nothing to protect him either. So one day he brought a gun to school and waved it at his attackers. Suddenly he was the bad guy, and they sent him to juvie. It wasn't his fault! They should have protected him!

Yes but if telling a teacher does not work he has to stand up and fight back