Author Topic: Has anybody been looking for an Israeli woman for Chaim? (Read 3034 times)

Vito · « **on:** January 12, 2009, 01:59:53 AM »

It's been talked about on the forum, but I don't know if anybody has been in pursuit for him...

aas6west · « **Reply #1 on:** January 16, 2009, 12:29:41 PM »

Is Chaim single? I assumed that he was married.

Vito · « **Reply #2 on:** January 18, 2009, 01:28:46 PM »

No he is single and looking for an ISRAELI wife. She can't be an American Jew.

Vito · « **Reply #3 on:** January 20, 2009, 10:32:57 AM »

I figured I would move this topic here for more traffic, this is a very important subject.

zachor_ve_kavod · « **Reply #4 on:** January 20, 2009, 11:50:01 AM »

Chaim has said that he is too busy to be looking for a wife, which I'm sure is true. If he is too busy to even find a wife, how can he possibly devote the necessary time to her and to make a good marriage? If someone found him a woman and he couldn't spend any time with her, she wouldn't be happy and neither would he.

Vito · « **Reply #5 on:** January 20, 2009, 12:09:39 PM »

Quote from: zachor_ve_kavod on January 20, 2009, 11:50:01 AM

Chaim has said that he is too busy to be looking for a wife, which I'm sure is true. If he is too busy to even find a wife, how can he possibly devote the necessary time to her and to make a good marriage? If someone found him a woman and he couldn't spend any time with her, she wouldn't be happy and neither would he.

That makes sense, but at the same time - Chaim said he wants a young wife, under 30. Chaim is 52, how many young women in their late twenties want a husband 20 + years older than her? Not to say there's no chance, but if he doesn't want to make life too difficult, he should start looking sooner than later.

zachor_ve_kavod · « **Reply #6 on:** January 20, 2009, 12:24:02 PM »

I don't know all the details, but I do know that Chaim has sacrificed a great deal for this movement. He's mentioned how he could have gone to law school and avoided prison, etc. I think finding a wife is another example of him puting his personal desires aside, to concentrate on the movement. He may decide at some point that he should look after his personal needs, which is certainly understandable. He is certainly deserving of some personal happiness. There is a conflict here, I think. But only he can decide when it is time.

When he wants to find a wife, he'll certainly be able to do it. So I don't think the problem is finding a wife, rather it is making the decision to change his focus from the movement to raising a family. Personally, I would very much like to see him devote some attention to himself. He is certainly deserving of personal happiness.

q_q_ · « **Reply #7 on:** January 20, 2009, 12:27:00 PM »

Quote from: Vito on January 20, 2009, 12:09:39 PM

Quote from: zachor_ve_kavod on January 20, 2009, 11:50:01 AM
Chaim has said that he is too busy to be looking for a wife, which I'm sure is true. If he is too busy to even find a wife, how can he possibly devote the necessary time to her and to make a good marriage? If someone found him a woman and he couldn't spend any time with her, she wouldn't be happy and neither would he.

That makes sense, but at the same time - Chaim said he wants a young wife, under 30. Chaim is 52, how many young women in their late twenties want a husband 20 + years older than her? Not to say there's no chance, but if he doesn't want to make life too difficult, he should start looking sooner than later.

oh no, that's a painful reminder that there are only 20 years between 30 and 50..

and err, between 50 and 70!

Vito · « **Reply #8 on:** January 20, 2009, 12:27:51 PM »

The reason why I mention this to begin with is because I remember him saying in an Ask JTF (I forgot who asked) that if somebody found a potential Israeli woman to marry, he would want to be notified.

Sentinel For Truth · « **Reply #9 on:** January 21, 2009, 03:26:36 AM »

This is extremely important. Someone find a young single Israeli woman who understands the importance of sacrifice for her country and she will be drawn to Chiam and we may have a love connection. Chiam is a modern Jewish hero.

There must be a woman in Judea or Samaria who will be interested. Doesn't the movement know anyone there in Israel who can help?

AsheDina · « **Reply #10 on:** January 29, 2009, 01:32:59 PM »

Chaim is going to meet an American Jewish lady, and they are going to Israel next year.

And then Me and David Ben Moshe are going to Israel too.

P J C · « **Reply #11 on:** January 29, 2009, 01:47:51 PM »

It would not be wise for Chaim to look for a women on JTF, remember that fat whore TinaGreco?

Vito · « **Reply #12 on:** January 29, 2009, 02:00:11 PM »

Quote from: AsheDina on January 29, 2009, 01:32:59 PM

Chaim is going to meet an American Jewish lady, and they are going to Israel next year. And then Me and David Ben Moshe are going to Israel too.

Really?? That's great! But she's American, I remember him saying specifically that he can only look for an Israeli woman. Unless maybe he meant Israeli citizenship.. does she have dual citizenship?

AsheDina · « **Reply #13 on:** January 29, 2009, 02:01:01 PM »

No, I am just trying to be as 100% POSITIVE as I can, and it WORKED lol

Ulli · « **Reply #14 on:** January 29, 2009, 02:10:28 PM »

Quote from: ProJewCatholic on January 29, 2009, 01:47:51 PM

It would not be wise for Chaim to look for a women on JTF, remember that fat whore TinaGreco?

This was really an exception. Our female members are generally great.

New Yorker · « **Reply #15 on:** January 29, 2009, 02:11:53 PM »

"Has anybody been looking for an Israeli woman for Chaim?"

Nope, I've just been looking for one for myself!

Rubystars · « **Reply #16 on:** January 29, 2009, 03:19:37 PM »

There was also that evil woman who was cruel to Nikmatdam.

Vito · « **Reply #17 on:** January 29, 2009, 03:38:25 PM »

Quote from: New Yorker on January 29, 2009, 02:11:53 PM

"Has anybody been looking for an Israeli woman for Chaim?"

Nope, I've just been looking for one for myself!

Hah, tell me about it. I'm a lost case though.. this is about Chaim!

Ulli · « **Reply #18 on:** January 29, 2009, 03:40:00 PM »

Quote from: Rubystars on January 29, 2009, 03:19:37 PM

There was also that evil woman who was cruel to Nikmatdam.

Ruby, this are old stories. We have advanced, since this time.

Rubystars · « **Reply #19 on:** January 29, 2009, 03:41:41 PM »

Quote from: Pheasant on January 29, 2009, 03:40:00 PM

Quote from: Rubystars on January 29, 2009, 03:19:37 PM
There was also that evil woman who was cruel to Nikmatdam.

Ruby, this are old stories. We have advanced, since this time.

Yes I hope all our members now are good people.

Americanhero1 · « **Reply #20 on:** January 29, 2009, 03:42:27 PM »

Wait are we supposed to be looking?

New Yorker · « **Reply #21 on:** January 29, 2009, 03:53:11 PM »

Quote from: Americanhero on January 29, 2009, 03:42:27 PM

Wait are we supposed to be looking?

First I've heard of it.

When I find mine, I'll see if she has a nice sister or cousin for Chaim.

Vito · « **Reply #22 on:** January 29, 2009, 04:21:41 PM »

Quote from: Americanhero on January 29, 2009, 03:42:27 PM

Wait are we supposed to be looking?

No not suppose to be, but he did say in an Ask JTF if anybody has a potential Israeli woman for him, he would want to know. There is no obligation to search of course, just thought I'd throw it out there for the sake of the movement!

AsheDina · « **Reply #23 on:** January 29, 2009, 04:29:29 PM »

Quote from: Pheasant on January 29, 2009, 02:10:28 PM

Quote from: ProJewCatholic on January 29, 2009, 01:47:51 PM
It would not be wise for Chaim to look for a women on JTF, remember that fat whore TinaGreco?

This was really an exception. Our female members are generally great.

There are only like 6 of us.

Ulli · « **Reply #24 on:** January 29, 2009, 04:37:06 PM »

Quote from: AsheDina on January 29, 2009, 04:29:29 PM

Quote from: Pheasant on January 29, 2009, 02:10:28 PM
Quote from: ProJewCatholic on January 29, 2009, 01:47:51 PM
It would not be wise for Chaim to look for a women on JTF, remember that fat whore TinaGreco?

This was really an exception. Our female members are generally great.

There are only like 6 of us.

Please explain ??