Do any of you have any experience with divorce?

[P J C]

A marriage is a spiritual commitment to a loved one that you intend to spend the rest of your life with. It is a promise religiously under God, and divorces should be done for a VERY VERY good reason, and people should at Least wait a few years before they are ready to promise God that they will commit themselves to that person forever.

[RanterMaximus]

A marriage is a spiritual commitment to a loved one that you intend to spend the rest of your life with. It is a promise religiously under G-d, and divorces should be done for a VERY VERY good reason, and people should at Least wait a few years before they are ready to promise G-d that they will commit themselves to that person forever.

I agree.  I was way too hasty when I got married.

[GoIsraelGo!]

I am separated from my wife and divorce will soon be coming.  We were just two people going in opposites directions.  Her family, mainly her sister and mother, where always a distraction and a nuisance.  But my wife chose them over me and she will have to live with that.  It is tough for me, but I am moving on, day by day.

 I want to wish you peace and strenght at this most difficult time in your life. Do try to take one day at a time and praying really does help. You pray, you walk, you call your family or friends if you need to talk. Sometimes crying helps too, even if you are a man, it's a human emotion that was created by G-d for a reason.  Shalom and you are in my prayers.


                                                                        Dox

[RanterMaximus]

I am separated from my wife and divorce will soon be coming.  We were just two people going in opposites directions.  Her family, mainly her sister and mother, where always a distraction and a nuisance.  But my wife chose them over me and she will have to live with that.  It is tough for me, but I am moving on, day by day.

 I want to wish you peace and strenght at this most difficult time in your life. Do try to take one day at a time and praying really does help. You pray, you walk, you call your family or friends if you need to talk. Sometimes crying helps too, even if you are a man, it's a human emotion that was created by G-d for a reason.  Shalom and you are in my prayers.


                                                                        Dox

Thank you very, very much.  That is very nice of you.  May God bless you and yours.

[P J C]

A marriage is a spiritual commitment to a loved one that you intend to spend the rest of your life with. It is a promise religiously under G-d, and divorces should be done for a VERY VERY good reason, and people should at Least wait a few years before they are ready to promise G-d that they will commit themselves to that person forever.

I agree.  I was way too hasty when I got married.

Have you tried counseling?

[RanterMaximus]

I pleaded for counseling, but my wife is a vindictive person.  Nothing is ever her fault in her world.  It's hes loss.  She'll never find another man who can cook a beef wellington like I do!

[Abben]

I do not having any experience with divorce. But I am not against it, if there is no love in the marriage and if you or your partner want to part ways I say do it.

[zachor_ve_kavod]

I don't know if there are any statistics on this, but I would be willing to bet a fair sum of money that couples who engaged in sexual relations before they got married are more likely to get divorced.

[RanterMaximus]

I don't know if there are any statistics on this, but I would be willing to bet a fair sum of money that couples who engaged in sexual relations before they got married are more likely to get divorced.

Highly possible.  Marriage is more than just a romp under the sheets.

[Americanhero1]

I don't know if there are any statistics on this, but I would be willing to bet a fair sum of money that couples who engaged in sexual relations before they got married are more likely to get divorced.

I doubt it because most people have had sex with the person they married before they were married.

[RanterMaximus]

I would venture to say that money is a big factor in the divorce rate.  Financial struggles can really tear a marriage apart.

[~Hanna~]

I don't know if there are any statistics on this, but I would be willing to bet a fair sum of money that couples who engaged in sexual relations before they got married are more likely to get divorced.

We, did not...

Next time (if there ever is a next time) I will do a background check, get references, etc. No joke.

[The One and Only Mo]

Marriage is like life. If it's going well, keep going well. If it's painful, why suffer?

[arksis]

I am separated from my wife and divorce will soon be coming.  We were just two people going in opposites directions.  Her family, mainly her sister and mother, where always a distraction and a nuisance.  But my wife chose them over me and she will have to live with that.  It is tough for me, but I am moving on, day by day.

So sorry to hear this Ranter, but you are better off without her! You will find your soulmate when you least expect it! That goes for you too Hanna!

[~Hanna~]

I am separated from my wife and divorce will soon be coming.  We were just two people going in opposites directions.  Her family, mainly her sister and mother, where always a distraction and a nuisance.  But my wife chose them over me and she will have to live with that.  It is tough for me, but I am moving on, day by day.

So sorry to hear this Ranter, but you are better off without her! You will find your soulmate when you least expect it! That goes for you too Hanna!

I hope you are right, I've been alone now for 14 years...

[Manch]

• Have you been divorced?  - Yes
• Was it the right decision?  - Yes
• What was hard about it?  - Some of the most miserable time of my life. The hardest thing is a month after divorce, when the novelty of being alone and the sense of freedom wears out, when you really don't want to date anyone and start to miss your ex. Particularly if another person already started dating. So you date in spite, not because you are attracted or want to but to forget and to prove self worth and to confirm your own independence. And this process is full of disappointments.
• Did the couple remain friends or at least amiable? - No way! I don't believe in this. If you remain "friends" with your ex, there was no love in the relationship in the first place - you can't be around someone who you are longing for as a "friend"

I would recommend you parent to separate for month to a year. This is much better than a divorce. They'll know if they want to rebuild their relationship and whether it worth to be salvaged.

[New Yorker]

Never married, never divorced. Spent my life like this. <-me

[Confederate Kahanist]

I don't know if there are any statistics on this, but I would be willing to bet a fair sum of money that couples who engaged in sexual relations before they got married are more likely to get divorced.

I think I have noticed that too.

[RanterMaximus]

Never married, never divorced. Spent my life like this. <-me

Nothing wrong with that!