Here's the difference from being a hetero and homo spoken by an American teenager:
I see a girl that's good looking pass by, my eyes light up, and I think "wow she's pretty hot". I do not feel the same way about males. Whether you are married or not doesn't matter. Alexander the homosexual Great was married and a homo. I want to reproduce with women and start a family. You dream about Ben Affleck when you are with your wife.
See what I'm talking about?