I guess they don't take rape seriously because so many little boys and women get raped, it's just part of the struggle they go through in their daily lives.
It's such a sick, sick society. It's sad that they don't recognize a woman's right to say no, even if she is married to someone she should be able to refuse if she truly doesn't want sex at that moment. The Qu'ran says that husbands can punish their wives by denying them intercourse but it doesn't give the wives the right to deny sex to their husbands regardless of whether they want it or not.
I don't think Muslims understand love and respect between a man and a woman.