Author Topic: Who cheats more? men or women? (Read 3214 times)

IsraeliGovtAreKapos · « **on:** October 21, 2011, 08:49:48 AM »

Please explain your answer

Zelhar · « **Reply #1 on:** October 21, 2011, 08:54:06 AM »

Men definitely cheat more, but I think a woman is as as likely to leave her man for a lover than vice versa.

angryChineseKahanist · « **Reply #2 on:** October 21, 2011, 10:20:09 AM »

Among heterosexuals, it would have to be equal.
Unless its with a plastic person.

muman613 · « **Reply #3 on:** October 21, 2011, 02:53:59 PM »

Why all these 'relationship' questions all of the sudden? Are you engaged?

Dr. Dan · « **Reply #4 on:** October 21, 2011, 04:05:40 PM »

briann · « **Reply #5 on:** October 21, 2011, 04:13:19 PM »

Sadly, I cheated on my diet today

muman613 · « **Reply #6 on:** October 21, 2011, 04:40:38 PM »

Cheat-os

muman613 · « **Reply #7 on:** October 21, 2011, 04:41:33 PM »

Seriously,

IMO, women are the cheaters... At least in my experience it is women who will accuse men of being cheaters while they are simultaneously cheating on their men.

IsraeliGovtAreKapos · « **Reply #8 on:** October 22, 2011, 07:01:47 PM »

Just like that

Kahane-Was-Right BT · « **Reply #9 on:** October 23, 2011, 12:54:32 AM »

Whoever does, it makes me sick, but I just hope it won't happen to me some day. I do not appreciate betrayal.

Tag-MehirTzedek · « **Reply #10 on:** October 23, 2011, 10:29:52 AM »

Personally I (almost) cant picture women cheating. I don't know. Many men cheat I know that, but to hear of a women cheating is taboo for me. (The punishment for a women who cheats and her new "lover" is one of the gravest ever.- A man can have multiple wives- technically soo their is no punishment like that (assuming the lady went to the Mikwah, and is not married herself). BUT whatever a man cheating is also awful since he is hurting his lady's feelings very badly. I personally would never cheat, but would marry more then 1 wife if possible (if it will be done peaceful and with approval with first wife).

Kahane-Was-Right BT · « **Reply #11 on:** October 23, 2011, 11:55:30 AM »

Quote from: Tag-MahirTzedek on October 23, 2011, 10:29:52 AM

Personally I (almost) cant picture women cheating. I don't know. Many men cheat I know that, but to hear of a women cheating is taboo for me. (The punishment for a women who cheats and her new "lover" is one of the gravest ever.- A man can have multiple wives- technically soo their is no punishment like that (assuming the lady went to the Mikwah, and is not married herself). BUT whatever a man cheating is also awful since he is hurting his lady's feelings very badly. I personally would never cheat, but would marry more then 1 wife if possible (if it will be done peaceful and with approval with first wife).

It's happened to people I know. Women are not always so innocent.

Good luck with the 2nd wife thing though, lol.

Debbie Shafer · « **Reply #12 on:** October 23, 2011, 03:44:40 PM »

In psychiatric studies the men do cheat more on their wives. Women will stay in a marriage even if it is not a happy one because they take their vows and duties more seriously, especially promises to God, for better or worse. To alot of men it is all about sex and they will come back to their wives, as the mother of their children, and possibly their childhood sweetheart, or first love. Yes, Women do cheat but it is usually because they are beaten, rejected, or treated so badly that they are seeking a man who will show respect and kindness to them, or someone who they find mutual things in common with after their children have left home. These studies come from many women with different ethnic backgrounds too. It is very interesting to be a detective and investigate these extra maritial affairs, sometimes you just want to shoot the perpetraitors for their sleeziness!

IsraeliGovtAreKapos · « **Reply #13 on:** October 23, 2011, 09:23:43 PM »

Women cheat at least as much as men do. When the husband is not good in bed, or is a sheer boring fellow, or is just an overall lame nerd, they go look for some excitements.

muman613 · « **Reply #14 on:** October 23, 2011, 09:34:01 PM »

Quote from: Fourth Philosophy on October 23, 2011, 09:23:43 PM

Women cheat at least as much as men do. When the husband is not good in bed, or is a sheer boring fellow, or is just an overall lame nerd, they go look for some excitements.

It looks like you blame the man in these cases. But some women are always looking for excitement in places other than they should.

IsraeliGovtAreKapos · « **Reply #15 on:** October 23, 2011, 09:35:08 PM »

Quote from: muman613 on October 23, 2011, 09:34:01 PM

It looks like you blame the man in these cases. But some women are always looking for excitement in places other than they should.

It's still the man's fault. They shouldn't have married sluts in the first place.

Kahane-Was-Right BT · « **Reply #16 on:** October 23, 2011, 09:39:47 PM »

Quote from: Fourth Philosophy on October 23, 2011, 09:35:08 PM

It's still the man's fault. They shouldn't have married sluts at the first place.

I'm sure many men are not aware they have married a slut until it is too late to be finding that out, Ron.

IsraeliGovtAreKapos · « **Reply #17 on:** October 23, 2011, 09:42:33 PM »

What? sluts dress and behave like sluts even getting married. It doesn't take a genius to identify a slut.

takebackourtemple · « **Reply #18 on:** October 23, 2011, 09:42:38 PM »

My guess would be that it is pretty even. What I find a little bit more disturbing is who abandons their children. In the black community, there are high amounts of single parent children who only have mothers because their unknown father abandoned them. What is even scarier is that the mothers abandon their children just as much. The main difference is that the mothers murder/abort their children. I've seen billboards on the highway that state that the most dangerous place for a black child is the mother's womb because 2 out of every 5 are aborted. That is huge.

Kahane-Was-Right BT · « **Reply #19 on:** October 23, 2011, 10:16:33 PM »

Quote from: Fourth Philosophy on October 23, 2011, 09:42:33 PM

What? sluts dress and behave like sluts even getting married. It doesn't take a genius to identify a slut.

Well, as I said, I'm no expert.

Rubystars · « **Reply #20 on:** October 24, 2011, 12:01:31 AM »

So if a woman who cheats is a slut, what's the derogatory word for a man who cheats?

IsraeliGovtAreKapos · « **Reply #21 on:** October 24, 2011, 12:07:18 AM »

Quote from: Rubystars on October 24, 2011, 12:01:31 AM

So if a woman who cheats is a slut, what's the derogatory word for a man who cheats?

So a woman who cheats is not a slut?

Tag-MehirTzedek · « **Reply #22 on:** October 24, 2011, 12:11:18 AM »

Quote from: Fourth Philosophy on October 24, 2011, 12:07:18 AM

So a woman who cheats is not a slut?

More of a

Rubystars · « **Reply #23 on:** October 24, 2011, 02:33:21 AM »

Quote from: Fourth Philosophy on October 24, 2011, 12:07:18 AM

So a woman who cheats is not a slut?

Not unless she charges money for it. Adultery is a serious sin by itself though.

Ulli · « **Reply #24 on:** October 24, 2011, 02:53:28 AM »

I have never thought about cheating on my wife. We are in our free time always together.

But I know there are other systems of values among the majority of people. Actually for them is cheating something normal. They have trained sex crimes from a very young age. I think women and men among them are equally bad in this.