In a Hebrew article
http://www.nrg.co.il/online/1/ART2/690/464.htmlit is stated that the pro-"Palestinian" family of Arab Muhmad Abu-Khadir (who it is assumed was killed in a revenge-killing by Jewish nationalists as a response to the murder-kidnap of 3 yeshiva students) asked that their son's name be taken off the list of terror victims (almost all of them being Jews killed by Arabs) that the state has compiled at Mount Herzl for the memorial day ceremony.
Although the politically correct state would like to make a moral equation between the Jewish victims and this Arab, the family from their perspective feels it is wrong to make this equation.