Specifically, please pray that Hashem should spare us from His wrath. Hashem is absolutely terrifying.
Hashem is the most kind being, and any kindness that anyone else has is only a reflection of His own kindness. Heart surgeons also seem terrifying when they are saving lives, if you don't know what's going on. It's complete and utter arrogance for a person to say exactly why a bad thing happened to another person, as it says in the book of Job, "were you there when Hashem made the world?", but I'm going to go ahead and hope that Hashem planned it all out for you to get a great wife and more money.