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Which of these do you refrain from?

Pre and non-marital hugging.
13 (19.4%)
Pre and non-marital kissing (Including on the cheek.).
11 (16.4%)
Pre-marital sex.
22 (32.8%)
Shaking hands with an attractive member of the opposite sex who is not your spouse.
7 (10.4%)
None of the above.
14 (20.9%)

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To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« on: October 09, 2007, 02:03:28 PM »
I don't hug, kiss, or have sex with a woman I'm not married to and if she's attractive, it's also better not to shake her hand.

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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #1 on: October 09, 2007, 02:17:43 PM »
I've had several mystical experiences with sex throughout my life.

Sex should not be fooled with except within the context of holy marrage.
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #2 on: October 09, 2007, 02:20:11 PM »
I try to get the women but i fail so for me this question n/a :::D
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #3 on: October 09, 2007, 02:21:31 PM »

None of the above. Life is to short.  :)
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #4 on: October 09, 2007, 02:21:55 PM »
Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on October 09, 2007, 02:21:10 PM
Quote from: mord on October 09, 2007, 02:20:11 PM
I try to get the women but i fail so for me this question n/a :::D


Same for me but if I could get a woman, I would still refrain until marriage.


Well i'm refraining under duress
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #5 on: October 09, 2007, 02:39:23 PM »


Lost count on how many women there's been since I was 17. 8;)
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #6 on: October 09, 2007, 02:44:06 PM »
Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on October 09, 2007, 02:03:28 PM
I don't hug, kiss, or have sex with a woman I'm not married to and if she's attractive, it's also better not to shake her hand.



Yes it's more elegent to his their hands not shake them; bloody feminazists.::) 
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12 Are they ashamed of their loathsome conduct? No, they have no shame at all; they do not even know how to blush. So they will fall among the fallen; they will be brought down when they are punished, says the LORD.

13 'I will take away their harvest, declares the LORD. There will be no grapes on the vine. There will be no figs on the tree, and their leaves will wither. What I have given them will be taken from them.'

14 Why are we sitting here? Gather together! Let us flee to the fortified cities and perish there! For the LORD our God has doomed us to perish and given us poisoned water to drink, because we have sinned against him.

15 We hoped for peace but no good has come, for a time of healing but there was only terror.

16 The snorting of the enemy's horses is heard from Dan; at the neighing of their stallions the whole land trembles. They have come to devour the land and everything in it, the city and all who live there.

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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #7 on: October 09, 2007, 04:02:44 PM »
I said none of the above, but I am Shomer Negia to this extent:  I will never extend a hand, but if a woman who is not Shomer Negia extends her hand, I will usually shake it.
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #8 on: October 09, 2007, 04:07:27 PM »
Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on October 09, 2007, 04:04:47 PM
So you don't extend a hand but you do have sex?


I hope that was a joke.
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #9 on: October 09, 2007, 04:10:51 PM »
Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on October 09, 2007, 04:09:29 PM
You said none of the above. You could have clicked up to 4 choices, including no pre-marital sex.
Woops!  I didn't see it said "refrain from."  Can I take back my vote?
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #10 on: October 09, 2007, 04:17:53 PM »
Quote from: OdKahaneChai on October 09, 2007, 04:10:51 PM
Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on October 09, 2007, 04:09:29 PM
You said none of the above. You could have clicked up to 4 choices, including no pre-marital sex.
Woops!  I didn't see it said "refrain from."  Can I take back my vote?

I got the same problem as you.
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11 They dress the wound of my people as though it were not serious. Peace, peace, they say, when there is no peace.

12 Are they ashamed of their loathsome conduct? No, they have no shame at all; they do not even know how to blush. So they will fall among the fallen; they will be brought down when they are punished, says the LORD.

13 'I will take away their harvest, declares the LORD. There will be no grapes on the vine. There will be no figs on the tree, and their leaves will wither. What I have given them will be taken from them.'

14 Why are we sitting here? Gather together! Let us flee to the fortified cities and perish there! For the LORD our God has doomed us to perish and given us poisoned water to drink, because we have sinned against him.

15 We hoped for peace but no good has come, for a time of healing but there was only terror.

16 The snorting of the enemy's horses is heard from Dan; at the neighing of their stallions the whole land trembles. They have come to devour the land and everything in it, the city and all who live there.

17 See, I will send venomous snakes among you, vipers that cannot be charmed, and they will bite you, declares the LORD.

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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #11 on: October 09, 2007, 04:48:09 PM »
to each their own...

If i could teach anythign to my children, I would recommend that they avoid premarital sex...and if it meant building a fence in the sense of being shomer negia, I would have to talk it over with my wife...
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #12 on: October 09, 2007, 05:11:26 PM »
R' Carlebach hugged women. The Taz says there is no problem with touching a women ( for instance shaking hands) if there is nothing sexual about it.
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #13 on: October 09, 2007, 05:28:22 PM »
I avoid ALL these behaviours , but only if the woman is married, or if she is Jewish (since I am a Goy). I also avoid all of the above with women who belong to any ethnical group which forbids intermarriage, Gypsyes for instance. Regarding other Goyshe single women, I am not very carefull, I must say.
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #14 on: October 09, 2007, 05:29:49 PM »
I practice it by not discussing it openly.
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #15 on: October 09, 2007, 06:29:04 PM »
Yacov, is it possible to remove a vote like you can a post?
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #16 on: October 09, 2007, 06:32:16 PM »


I propose that all virgins don't have the right to vote on this subject. If you've never had sex then you have no idea what you are talking about and have no experience to draw from. For f***s sake some of you haven't even made out with a girl!? So head out, hook up, live a little, then come back and you can vote.    8;)
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #17 on: October 09, 2007, 06:40:44 PM »
Quote from: NewYorker on October 09, 2007, 06:32:16 PM


I propose that all virgins don't have the right to vote on this subject. If you've never had sex then you have no idea what you are talking about and have no experience to draw from. For f***s sake some of you haven't even made out with a girl!? So head out, hook up, live a little, then come back and you can vote.    8;)

come on..that's not cool...Some people are religious and truely practice these behviors..

SOme others use religiousity as an excuse because of the fear of rejection.
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #18 on: October 09, 2007, 07:23:52 PM »
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #19 on: October 09, 2007, 10:15:08 PM »
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I propose that all virgins don't have the right to vote on this subject. If you've never had sex then you have no idea what you are talking about and have no experience to draw from. For f***s sake some of you haven't even made out with a girl!? So head out, hook up, live a little, then come back and you can vote.

This is not the place to be encouraging fornication!



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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #20 on: October 09, 2007, 10:19:52 PM »
Quote from: Lisa on October 09, 2007, 10:15:08 PM
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I propose that all virgins don't have the right to vote on this subject. If you've never had sex then you have no idea what you are talking about and have no experience to draw from. For f***s sake some of you haven't even made out with a girl!? So head out, hook up, live a little, then come back and you can vote.

This is not the place to be encouraging fornication!





Really? I tought everyone here is an adult.
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #21 on: October 09, 2007, 10:24:49 PM »
We have teenaged members like FTF, Sarah and Dexter. 

And even though they're only three people, this is a Torah true Jewish forum.  So fornication should not be encouraged for young men or women. 
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #22 on: October 09, 2007, 10:29:14 PM »
Quote from: Lisa on October 09, 2007, 10:24:49 PM
We have teenaged members like FTF, Sarah and Dexter. 

And even though they're only three people, this is a Torah true Jewish forum.  So fornication should not be encouraged for young men or women. 
Lisa is right lets try to keep it to a reasonable level. If our younger members are trying to do the right thing we should be encouraging them not leading them astray.
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #23 on: October 09, 2007, 10:32:55 PM »
I'm in mord's boat, I'm practicing sexual modesty but only under duress at this point.  I simply don't have the time for it.  As soon as I'll have the opportunity, I'll take it, Jew or not. 
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Re: To What Extent Do You Practice Sexual Modesty?
« Reply #24 on: October 09, 2007, 10:54:17 PM »
I try my best to avoid tempting situations.
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