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Title: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: The Shadow on October 18, 2007, 11:26:52 PM: Would you rather date a heavy girl, say 5 foot 5 and 150 pounds without kids, and average looking. Or a skinny girl, five foot 8, 135 pounds, nice looking, but has a young child?
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: MarZutra on October 18, 2007, 11:31:38 PM: Well, I think it has to do with personality. If you get along with the one with a child, that is ok.
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Ehud on October 18, 2007, 11:40:39 PM: It depends on the extent of the relationship. ;)
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: The Shadow on October 18, 2007, 11:44:24 PM: I think you're right Zev. But in the back of my mind I would always think that the girl with the kid was using me. I've been out with some pretty girls with a kid and I can never push it out of my mind, no matter how I try
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Ehud on October 18, 2007, 11:46:28 PM: Quote from: The Shadow on October 18, 2007, 11:44:24 PM
I think you're right Zev. But in the back of my mind I would always think that the girl with the kid was using me. I've been out with some pretty girls with a kid and I can never push it out of my mind, no matter how I try

It's a legitimate concern I think.
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: nopeaceforland on October 19, 2007, 12:10:07 AM: I personally think you lose either way. They both have baggage. One has a child and the other a spare tire. :D Seriously, the least amount of trouble would be the girl that is thinly challenged. One day that kid will grow up, if there's an ex-husband involved. Then you got clothes, food, college etc. You're not even responsible for this child. You didn't even get the satisfaction of copulating with this girl. Why should you suffer? Don't walk away from this girl, run like hell!!!!!!!
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: The Shadow on October 19, 2007, 12:15:28 AM: Man, you are right on the money! That's just how I feel, and that's just what my friends told me!
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: nopeaceforland on October 19, 2007, 12:24:43 AM: Oh, this is about you. Is there an age difference? Also, that kid may take resentment that you're not his/her father (biologically). It's a mess. You can't be that old, it sounds like you can do a lot better. Btw the 5'5'' girl, if that was a true scenario, that could be a true romance. You have nothing to prove except yourself and vice versa.
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: The Shadow on October 19, 2007, 12:27:09 AM: But the thing is, i need a skinny girl on my arm, to show off to my friends. I wanna be proud as a peacock.
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Ehud on October 19, 2007, 12:30:20 AM: Quote from: The Shadow on October 19, 2007, 12:27:09 AM
But the thing is, i need a skinny girl on my arm, to show off to my friends. I wanna be proud as a peacock.

You can find a skinny girl who doesn't have a kid. Plus, do you really put that much importance than a girl be really thin? There are some girls who are just average who are much more impressive to have hanging onto your arm than a really skinny girl. I don't think guys place ULTIMATE importance on whether a girl is skinny, it's more important whether she's hot and has a great personality.
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: nopeaceforland on October 19, 2007, 12:32:02 AM: Quote from: The Shadow on October 19, 2007, 12:27:09 AM
But the thing is, i need a skinny girl on my arm, to show off to my friends. I wanna be proud as a peacock.

With all due respect: Screw your friends! There's a lot more to it than just your friends. By the sound of it, this nice piece, wants a committment. Ask her, she'll say the same, believe me. Also, there's a lot to be said about thinking with the brain in your head, than the one we keep in our pants. ;) Btw, Ladies: I love you, but, you're not immuned from the last statement
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Ehud on October 19, 2007, 12:34:05 AM: Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on October 19, 2007, 12:31:00 AM
I want a wife my own height and shapely so she should be a little chubby. I'm a little fat myself.

I also like shapely women, they can have a few extra pounds on them as long as she isn't fat. A little fat is good, I think it's womanly.
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: The Shadow on October 19, 2007, 12:37:55 AM: You know what? I like you guys, Zev, and no Israeli Arabs. It's weird, i dont know you guys at all, but it sure feels like I do. Nothing like 3 Jewish guys relating to each other. You guys know just what I'm talking about.

Jews Rule!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Ari on October 19, 2007, 12:39:25 AM: Neither, run for the hills!
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Ehud on October 19, 2007, 12:43:37 AM: Quote from: The Shadow on October 19, 2007, 12:37:55 AM
You know what? I like you guys, Zev, and no Israeli Arabs. It's weird, i dont know you guys at all, but it sure feels like I do. Nothing like 3 Jewish guys relating to each other. You guys know just what I'm talking about.

Jews Rule!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Agreed!
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Kiwi on October 19, 2007, 12:45:37 AM: For women in this forum say the question instead of the girl it was a guy.

I would choose the man with the kid because if they are single and raising a family then they are family focused, and just didn't dump the kid out on the street or with the government welfare department.
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Wayne Jude on October 19, 2007, 09:01:17 AM: I aint touching this one.Also watch it when you say "Jews Rule!"Because the next thing we will hear is The protocols of zion...!LOL And how Jews rule the wold LOL
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Ehud on October 19, 2007, 09:03:31 AM: Quote from: Christianwhitenation.name on October 19, 2007, 09:01:17 AM
I aint touching this one.Also watch it when you say "Jews Rule!"Because the next thing we will hear is The protocols of zion...!LOL And how Jews rule the wold LOL

Haha true enough but we don't really care about those haters here.
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: kellymaureen on October 19, 2007, 09:05:15 AM: Im with you Infidel, the guy raising his own kid, hes likely to be stable and responsible. I married someone who was raising his 2 sons, because their mother (and his wife) ran off for 'greener pastures', even though we arent together anymore, he and I are still great friends, and I still love the boys and make sure they get gifts and phone calls (they live on the west coast now, so no where near me) and I just attended the high school graduation of the youngest one:)
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Wayne Jude on October 19, 2007, 09:08:48 AM: How cool is that!
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: MassuhDGoodName on October 19, 2007, 09:59:46 AM: I choose the gourmet chef of the two! :-*
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Kiwi on October 19, 2007, 10:01:48 AM: Quote from: MassuhDGoodName on October 19, 2007, 09:59:46 AM
I choose the gourmet chef of the two! :-*
What if they both can't cook?
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Wayne Jude on October 19, 2007, 10:02:42 AM: NO , but you gotta admit its true!LOl
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Kiwi on October 19, 2007, 10:40:55 AM: Quote from: Christianwhitenation.name on October 19, 2007, 10:02:42 AM
NO , but you gotta admit its true!LOl

I always have a man that cooks, why does the woman need to cook ???
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Wayne Jude on October 19, 2007, 11:47:48 AM: Im the best cook you will all ever know!Now lets eat1 ;)
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: kellymaureen on October 19, 2007, 12:21:23 PM: Me too Mills, though I dont really care about how tall, as long as hes taller than me, and at 5'5" thats not hard to find lol, I do like the dark hair, very dark eyes, but not a requirement:P
Ive always liked men who are older than me.
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Sarah on October 19, 2007, 01:05:46 PM: I'd go out with both, just on friendly terms and then make a decision relationship wise. Its up to you, whatever you feel counts.
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Daniel on October 19, 2007, 03:17:37 PM: Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on October 19, 2007, 12:19:22 AM
I prefer a virgin with flesh, not too skinny and not too fat.

You prefer a Goldilocks virgin :)
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: kellymaureen on October 19, 2007, 03:18:14 PM: Daniel :laugh:
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: New Yorker on October 20, 2007, 10:05:55 PM: Quote from: The Shadow on October 18, 2007, 11:26:52 PM
Would you rather date a heavy girl, say 5 foot 5 and 150 pounds without kids, and average looking. Or a skinny girl, five foot 8, 135 pounds, nice looking, but has a young child?

Skinny with the kid, definitely. 8)
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Wayne Jude on October 20, 2007, 10:06:50 PM: Id pick the hottest dude.LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Nah just kidding.Id pick the ugly one.......Come on Kidding again.WE must have a sense of humor!
wayne jude
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: kellymaureen on October 20, 2007, 10:13:15 PM: I'd pick a guy with a killer sense of humor over a guy with great looks anyday ;)
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Wayne Jude on October 20, 2007, 10:48:21 PM: What if we have red eyes?My damn eyes are always red and I don't drink all the time!People think Im a drunk but me dad was Italian and black!
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Kiwi on October 20, 2007, 10:59:44 PM: Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on October 20, 2007, 10:42:16 PM
Quote from: ~*Mills*~ on October 19, 2007, 12:17:07 PM
Well, I am attracted to men who are: TALL, PALE AND THIN!
And prefferably older than me, they just seem more mature and into the "family" thing. Of course, the older-younger thing, although I would prefer an older man, it is not a requirement, but preferred.
I don't like blond men, I prefer darker haired men etc... what also matters a lot to me is the level of their spirituality, religious observance and heart. And also his mind, a wise man.
;D

Chaim is thin and has dark hair. But he's not tall. He's average, about my height.

You sound like you are selling him off at the market.

I am feeling sorry for the bloke now. :P ::)
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Wayne Jude on October 20, 2007, 11:03:43 PM: Nah there is some one for every one!
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Wayne Jude on October 20, 2007, 11:12:39 PM: You know we were called here from SA crisis because our leader thought Chaim !Had Balls!
Title: Re: Who would you rather date if you had to pick
Post by: Dr. Dan on October 20, 2007, 11:46:04 PM: Quote from: The Shadow on October 18, 2007, 11:26:52 PM
Would you rather date a heavy girl, say 5 foot 5 and 150 pounds without kids, and average looking. Or a skinny girl, five foot 8, 135 pounds, nice looking, but has a young child?

which one's Jewish?