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Title: Who cheats more? men or women?
Post by: IsraeliGovtAreKapos on October 21, 2011, 08:49:48 AM: Please explain your answer
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Post by: Zelhar on October 21, 2011, 08:54:06 AM: Men definitely cheat more, but I think a woman is as as likely to leave her man for a lover than vice versa.
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Post by: angryChineseKahanist on October 21, 2011, 10:20:09 AM: Among heterosexuals, it would have to be equal.
Unless its with a plastic person.
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Post by: muman613 on October 21, 2011, 02:53:59 PM: Why all these 'relationship' questions all of the sudden? Are you engaged?
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Post by: Dr. Dan on October 21, 2011, 04:05:40 PM: why?
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Post by: briann on October 21, 2011, 04:13:19 PM: Sadly, I cheated on my diet today :(
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Post by: muman613 on October 21, 2011, 04:40:38 PM: Cheat-os
(http://images.sodahead.com/polls/000556821/polls_cheetos_4825_387785_answer_2_xlarge.jpeg)
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Post by: muman613 on October 21, 2011, 04:41:33 PM: Seriously,

IMO, women are the cheaters... At least in my experience it is women who will accuse men of being cheaters while they are simultaneously cheating on their men.
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Post by: IsraeliGovtAreKapos on October 22, 2011, 07:01:47 PM: Just like that
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Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on October 23, 2011, 12:54:32 AM: Whoever does, it makes me sick, but I just hope it won't happen to me some day. I do not appreciate betrayal.
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Post by: Tag-MehirTzedek on October 23, 2011, 10:29:52 AM: Personally I (almost) cant picture women cheating. I don't know. Many men cheat I know that, but to hear of a women cheating is taboo for me. (The punishment for a women who cheats and her new "lover" is one of the gravest ever.- A man can have multiple wives- technically soo their is no punishment like that (assuming the lady went to the Mikwah, and is not married herself). BUT whatever a man cheating is also awful since he is hurting his lady's feelings very badly. I personally would never cheat, but would marry more then 1 wife if possible (if it will be done peaceful and with approval with first wife).
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Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on October 23, 2011, 11:55:30 AM: Quote from: Tag-MahirTzedek on October 23, 2011, 10:29:52 AM
Personally I (almost) cant picture women cheating. I don't know. Many men cheat I know that, but to hear of a women cheating is taboo for me. (The punishment for a women who cheats and her new "lover" is one of the gravest ever.- A man can have multiple wives- technically soo their is no punishment like that (assuming the lady went to the Mikwah, and is not married herself). BUT whatever a man cheating is also awful since he is hurting his lady's feelings very badly. I personally would never cheat, but would marry more then 1 wife if possible (if it will be done peaceful and with approval with first wife).

It's happened to people I know. Women are not always so innocent.

Good luck with the 2nd wife thing though, lol.
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Post by: Debbie Shafer on October 23, 2011, 03:44:40 PM: In psychiatric studies the men do cheat more on their wives. Women will stay in a marriage even if it is not a happy one because they take their vows and duties more seriously, especially promises to God, for better or worse. To alot of men it is all about sex and they will come back to their wives, as the mother of their children, and possibly their childhood sweetheart, or first love. Yes, Women do cheat but it is usually because they are beaten, rejected, or treated so badly that they are seeking a man who will show respect and kindness to them, or someone who they find mutual things in common with after their children have left home. These studies come from many women with different ethnic backgrounds too. It is very interesting to be a detective and investigate these extra maritial affairs, sometimes you just want to shoot the perpetraitors for their sleeziness!
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Post by: IsraeliGovtAreKapos on October 23, 2011, 09:23:43 PM: Women cheat at least as much as men do. When the husband is not good in bed, or is a sheer boring fellow, or is just an overall lame nerd, they go look for some excitements.
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Post by: muman613 on October 23, 2011, 09:34:01 PM: Quote from: Fourth Philosophy on October 23, 2011, 09:23:43 PM
Women cheat at least as much as men do. When the husband is not good in bed, or is a sheer boring fellow, or is just an overall lame nerd, they go look for some excitements.

It looks like you blame the man in these cases. But some women are always looking for excitement in places other than they should.
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Post by: IsraeliGovtAreKapos on October 23, 2011, 09:35:08 PM: Quote from: muman613 on October 23, 2011, 09:34:01 PM
It looks like you blame the man in these cases. But some women are always looking for excitement in places other than they should.

It's still the man's fault. They shouldn't have married sluts in the first place.
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Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on October 23, 2011, 09:39:47 PM: Quote from: Fourth Philosophy on October 23, 2011, 09:35:08 PM
It's still the man's fault. They shouldn't have married sluts at the first place.

:::D

I'm sure many men are not aware they have married a slut until it is too late to be finding that out, Ron.
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Post by: IsraeliGovtAreKapos on October 23, 2011, 09:42:33 PM: What? sluts dress and behave like sluts even getting married. It doesn't take a genius to identify a slut.
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Post by: takebackourtemple on October 23, 2011, 09:42:38 PM: My guess would be that it is pretty even. What I find a little bit more disturbing is who abandons their children. In the black community, there are high amounts of single parent children who only have mothers because their unknown father abandoned them. What is even scarier is that the mothers abandon their children just as much. The main difference is that the mothers murder/abort their children. I've seen billboards on the highway that state that the most dangerous place for a black child is the mother's womb because 2 out of every 5 are aborted. That is huge.
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Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on October 23, 2011, 10:16:33 PM: Quote from: Fourth Philosophy on October 23, 2011, 09:42:33 PM
What? sluts dress and behave like sluts even getting married. It doesn't take a genius to identify a slut.

Well, as I said, I'm no expert.
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Post by: Rubystars on October 24, 2011, 12:01:31 AM: So if a woman who cheats is a slut, what's the derogatory word for a man who cheats?
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Post by: IsraeliGovtAreKapos on October 24, 2011, 12:07:18 AM: Quote from: Rubystars on October 24, 2011, 12:01:31 AM
So if a woman who cheats is a slut, what's the derogatory word for a man who cheats?

So a woman who cheats is not a slut?
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Post by: Tag-MehirTzedek on October 24, 2011, 12:11:18 AM: Quote from: Fourth Philosophy on October 24, 2011, 12:07:18 AM
So a woman who cheats is not a slut?

More of a
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JxsfEio0L8Y
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Post by: Rubystars on October 24, 2011, 02:33:21 AM: Quote from: Fourth Philosophy on October 24, 2011, 12:07:18 AM
So a woman who cheats is not a slut?

Not unless she charges money for it. Adultery is a serious sin by itself though.
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Post by: Ulli on October 24, 2011, 02:53:28 AM: I have never thought about cheating on my wife. We are in our free time always together.

But I know there are other systems of values among the majority of people. Actually for them is cheating something normal. They have trained sex crimes from a very young age. I think women and men among them are equally bad in this.
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Post by: nessuno on October 24, 2011, 06:29:15 AM: Why does it matter who cheats more?
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Post by: Rubystars on October 24, 2011, 06:43:48 AM: Quote from: Ulli on October 24, 2011, 02:53:28 AM
I have never thought about cheating on my wife. We are in our free time always together.

But I know there are other systems of values among the majority of people. Actually for them is cheating something normal. They have trained sex crimes from a very young age. I think women and men among them are equally bad in this.

One good thing I can say about Christians from Africa is that most of the ones I've met seem to be very traditional Christians with strong values. I don't know if this is generally true but it's something I've observed about them.
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Post by: takebackourtemple on October 24, 2011, 09:10:23 PM: I know that bringing up abortion may sound a little off topic, but the difference between cheating a child and cheating a spouse is huge because at least the spouse can break up and move on in most cases. The child on the other hand is incapable of fending for itself.
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Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on October 24, 2011, 09:51:08 PM: In all truth I think that almost all people who commit severe violations of trust like spousal battery or cheating displayed lots of red flags that the partner chose to overlook in the dating process because they wanted to live in a dream world.

That doesn't make abuse and cheating okay.
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Post by: briann on October 25, 2011, 11:47:06 AM: I've noticed it seems pretty equal... However, I also have noticed that the women are more likely to ask for a separation/divorce, as the men seem to not want to 'rock the boat'.

At any rate, infidelity seems to be way more common with couples that get married at a really young age... since they are more likley to marry for the wrong reason.
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Post by: israeli kahanist on October 25, 2011, 12:34:12 PM: Quote from: bullcat3 on October 24, 2011, 06:29:15 AM
Why does it matter who cheats more?
good question
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Post by: briann on October 25, 2011, 01:09:55 PM: Quote from: israeli kahanist on October 25, 2011, 12:34:12 PM
good question

I think there may be a personal reason this question was asked.
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Post by: israeli kahanist on October 25, 2011, 02:29:19 PM: Quote from: briann on October 25, 2011, 01:09:55 PM
I think there may be a personal reason this question was asked.
i didnt answer to you i meant that your question (why does it matter..?) was a good question i related specific to the question.
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Post by: IsraeliGovtAreKapos on October 25, 2011, 02:33:57 PM: Quote from: briann on October 25, 2011, 01:09:55 PM
I think there may be a personal reason this question was asked.

It's funny you say I'm cheating on my girl, that's what you seculars are always doing.
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Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on October 25, 2011, 02:39:18 PM: Quote from: Fourth Philosophy on October 25, 2011, 02:33:57 PM
It's funny you say I'm cheating on my girl, that's what you seculars are always doing.
I think he thinks that you were the one cheated on.
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Post by: briann on October 25, 2011, 02:40:54 PM: Quote from: YimachShemoToJohnsonBrown on October 25, 2011, 02:39:18 PM
I think he thinks that you were the one cheated on.

Yep, thats correct. And for your information, Ive been faithfull for 11 years of marriage and 4 years of dating before that.
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Post by: Dr. Dan on October 25, 2011, 02:52:58 PM: Quote from: Fourth Philosophy on October 25, 2011, 02:33:57 PM
It's funny you say I'm cheating on my girl, that's what you seculars are always doing.

No actually...it could be a couple of things...either a girl cheat on YOU...or someone close to you like a relative was found cheating and it upset you.

But I think it is the first one because there was girl you liked or were interested in and she rejected you because you weren't rich enough or something. If that is true, then forget her. She isn't worth your while or anger or energy. There are much much better girls out there who would love to be with someone like you.
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Post by: Dr. Dan on October 26, 2011, 08:53:11 PM: Ron, I have a nice song for you that might make a whole lot of sense for the situation:

:::D ;D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r6a-AHLRoAw

I didn't post the actual video just because it was filled with a lot of ugly people.