I hear what you are saying..but what if in a perfect world a parent adopts an orphan of a different race? You feel that's wrong?
Your question doesn't make sense. That wouldn't be a perfect world at all. Why dont they have their own baby? If unable to have their own baby, why would they choose a baby of another race rather than one that looks like them and would share in their racial identity? There's been too many stories of white couples adopting black kids, raising them in white culture, and the kids growing up to identify strongly with black culture and falling into criminal tendencies regardless. A white person adopting a black child is a recipe for heartbreak. If they do it, it should only be a temporary situation until a stable black family is found.
That's true Ruby with a few rare exceptions, but for the most part the adopted child will adopt the culture of their race and stick with their own kind.
I remember in elementary school, the kids just wanted to be kids and just sat wherever regardless of race.
Come middle school and highschool, voluntary segregation became common, blacks stuck with blacks, yellows with yellows, latinos wth latinos, and the white kids generally mixed in with whatever (jocks, geeks, nerds, goths, skaters, emos, punks).
It was like the prison system, people naturally adapt to stay with their own race and their own kind. Yes whites have various different cultures that divide them, you can still be proud of your culture and your race. For example, I am proud to have Jewish heritage and German heritage (minus the evil stuff) as well as proud to be white knowing what our race has done for this planet and the technological advances making life much easier.
While there are a few exceptions with adoptions, I knew a Korean kid who was adopted by a Jewish family, went to synagogue and he was a skater. He was a friend of mine at first but he still associated with other Koreans and stuck with them. His girlfriend was Korean too. He ended up stabbing me in the back and hated each other.
I've known of black kids adopted by whites who acted white but still stuck with their own kind and would speak the "ghetto" talk despite the fact they weren't "taught that".
I'm not implying segregation should be forced by government, but that people are already segregating themselves, the problem is the double standards that if a white man does it, he is evil and should feel guilty.