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What Do You Think Of Pre-Marital Intimacy And/Or Touching?
q_q_:
--- Quote from: Katie on June 25, 2008, 04:47:08 PM ---yeaa but in many places its normal to kiss people as a greeting.. i mean i do with close friends, family friends, stuff like that usually, its just something u do if u havnt seen someone in a long time.. plus i know in france and other places in europe its normal to kiss on the cheek as a greeting, in france its called la bise so its just a question of ur culture i guess and how you're raised...
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in western culture
It's different for women kissing each other on the cheek like you do, than for men. The latter is a very foreign import, probably from arabs.
Are you telling me that in france, men kiss men on the cheek?
what cultures other than arab do that?
I have seen a sephardi kissing the hand of an important rabbi.
I have read that in some remote parts of south america, the tribesmen greet each other with a scrotal handshake - that's one handshake that would preferably be performed without a firm hand and strong/confident squeeze.
I wonder if and how they punish a man that betrays the trust and really squeezes!
Vito:
--- Quote from: q_q_ on June 25, 2008, 05:31:59 PM ---
--- Quote from: Katie on June 25, 2008, 04:47:08 PM ---yeaa but in many places its normal to kiss people as a greeting.. i mean i do with close friends, family friends, stuff like that usually, its just something u do if u havnt seen someone in a long time.. plus i know in france and other places in europe its normal to kiss on the cheek as a greeting, in france its called la bise so its just a question of ur culture i guess and how you're raised...
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in western culture
It's different for women kissing each other on the cheek like you do, than for men. The latter is a very foreign import, probably from arabs.
Are you telling me that in france, men kiss men on the cheek?
what cultures other than arab do that?
I have seen a Sefaradi kissing the hand of an important rabbi.
I have read that in some remote parts of south america, the tribesmen greet each other with a scrotal handshake - that's one handshake that would preferably be performed without a firm hand and strong/confident squeeze.
I wonder if and how they punish a man that betrays the trust and really squeezes!
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I don't know if French men kiss each other on the cheek, but Italian men do for sure - the double cheek kiss. My Israeli friend's father did that to me too when he was leaving for Florida (he's a Moroccan Jew). I'm pretty sure it's a Mediterranean thing..
Americanhero1:
--- Quote from: Katie on June 25, 2008, 04:47:08 PM ---
--- Quote from: q_q_ on June 25, 2008, 02:50:38 PM ---
--- Quote from: Katie on June 25, 2008, 03:48:36 AM ---<snip>
its pretty rediculous to ban shaking hands, thats just a social norm in america today you shake hands, if u dont people will look at you like ur a freak.. if ur comfortable with that then fine. and if ur so insecure or so hyper-sexual that u think about sex so much that even touching someone's hand for 2 seconds gives you all this sexual pleasure then theres something wrong with you ... if people want sexual pleasure they'll get it, no point in banning something as innocent as handshaking
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Ridiculous to ban it, but I don't think it's ridiculous to avoid it. There's sex and there's a small level of sexual feeling. It could cause a small level of sexual feeling.
Guys that kiss like other guys when the greet them (like arabs do) are a real nuisance. Very rare thankfully, but happens. I know a rabbi that does, it has caused most people to avoid him completely.
I have a relative that does it, and I feel obliged to go along with it when he approaches me for it, because if i don't, it looks like i'm uncomfortable with it, which suggests that I think he's a bit gay. Which is an offensive suggestion. So to avoid that, I go along with it. I don't kiss him obviously , he just grabs people and gives them a big kiss on the cheek.
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yeaa but in many places its normal to kiss people as a greeting.. i mean i do with close friends, family friends, stuff like that usually, its just something u do if u havnt seen someone in a long time.. plus i know in france and other places in europe its normal to kiss on the cheek as a greeting, in france its called la bise so its just a question of ur culture i guess and how you're raised...
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I know in Croatia they kiss on both cheeks
Katie:
--- Quote from: q_q_ on June 25, 2008, 05:31:59 PM ---
--- Quote from: Katie on June 25, 2008, 04:47:08 PM ---yeaa but in many places its normal to kiss people as a greeting.. i mean i do with close friends, family friends, stuff like that usually, its just something u do if u havnt seen someone in a long time.. plus i know in france and other places in europe its normal to kiss on the cheek as a greeting, in france its called la bise so its just a question of ur culture i guess and how you're raised...
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in western culture
It's different for women kissing each other on the cheek like you do, than for men. The latter is a very foreign import, probably from arabs.
Are you telling me that in france, men kiss men on the cheek?
what cultures other than arab do that?
I have seen a Sefaradi kissing the hand of an important rabbi.
I have read that in some remote parts of south america, the tribesmen greet each other with a scrotal handshake - that's one handshake that would preferably be performed without a firm hand and strong/confident squeeze.
I wonder if and how they punish a man that betrays the trust and really squeezes!
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yea men do, i have friends in france and been there many times, and yea guys do.. its not considered gay or anything.... and they werent arabs lol... and so do girls. its cool
scrotal handshakes.. sounds fun! now im sure the rabbis wouldn't ban that one O0 O0 O0
Americanhero1:
--- Quote from: Katie on June 25, 2008, 05:53:48 PM ---
--- Quote from: q_q_ on June 25, 2008, 05:31:59 PM ---
--- Quote from: Katie on June 25, 2008, 04:47:08 PM ---yeaa but in many places its normal to kiss people as a greeting.. i mean i do with close friends, family friends, stuff like that usually, its just something u do if u havnt seen someone in a long time.. plus i know in france and other places in europe its normal to kiss on the cheek as a greeting, in france its called la bise so its just a question of ur culture i guess and how you're raised...
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in western culture
It's different for women kissing each other on the cheek like you do, than for men. The latter is a very foreign import, probably from arabs.
Are you telling me that in france, men kiss men on the cheek?
what cultures other than arab do that?
I have seen a Sefaradi kissing the hand of an important rabbi.
I have read that in some remote parts of south america, the tribesmen greet each other with a scrotal handshake - that's one handshake that would preferably be performed without a firm hand and strong/confident squeeze.
I wonder if and how they punish a man that betrays the trust and really squeezes!
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yea men do, i have friends in france and been there many times, and yea guys do.. its not considered gay or anything.... and they werent arabs lol... and so do girls. its cool
scrotal handshakes.. sounds fun! now im sure the rabbis wouldn't ban that one O0 O0 O0
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I know it is normal it's not gay at all most people do it to relatives and close friends
Scrotal handshakes ??? :P
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