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What Do You Think Of Pre-Marital Intimacy And/Or Touching?
FULL METAL JACKET:
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 22, 2008, 05:46:59 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on May 22, 2008, 04:50:41 PM ---
--- Quote from: Rubystars on May 22, 2008, 02:20:48 PM ---
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 22, 2008, 02:15:17 PM ---It's no fair to the woman if a man touches her because he gets sexual enjoyment from touching her. I will not shake an attractive woman's hand because I don't want to use her for enjoyment and because it is a sin to have such enjoyment from a woman other than my wife.
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I didn't realize men thought of sex when they shook someone's hand.
What concerns me is that women would be the ones being disadvantaged professionally because much of the business world is male and much of the medical profession is male. So if you're a female businessperson or doctor and you can't shake hands with a colleague or examine someone of the opposite gender then you're going to be severely disadvantaged compared to your male counterparts.
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Don't worry rubystars..I don't think of sex when a shake a woman's hand...However, if i"M holding my girlfriend's hand and we come across haredi or any yamulka wearing jew, we let go of each other out of respect.
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I never said that men think of sex when shaking a woman's hand. I said they feel a sexually pleasureful feeling in their body. It is a body reaction, not a thought.
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A rather broad generalization I think............
Perhaps for a guy who is never around women and barely dates that might be true.
Sarah:
Baltimore gave a great post. Current society needs to stop sexualising every single thing it advertises! I've even seen mineral water being promoted as something sexual!
I would say that it shouldn't be put down as a law, to ban. It would just go to show how incapable and uncivilised people are, to not keep themselves to themselves whilst in public (i'm meaning excessive pre-marital touching not a hand shake or anything). It is an intentional thing....and a persons choice...whatever the right thing to do.
The Shadow:
I don't think it's a good idea to post questions like this. It's possible you're gonna turn off potential new members who might have other-wised, joined. They very well might think that wew're trying to shove religion, morals, or personal beliefs down their throats
Anyhow, there are benefits to keeping your nose clean, it can save a man a lifetime of misery. One stupid mistake has ruinned the life of many men, of every age!! Seen it first hand, ten times over.
Men-- keep your zippers up, and your nose at the grindstone.
Your friend,
The Shadow
FULL METAL JACKET:
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 22, 2008, 11:06:59 PM ---
--- Quote from: FULL METAL JACKET on May 22, 2008, 06:05:10 PM ---
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 22, 2008, 05:46:59 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on May 22, 2008, 04:50:41 PM ---
--- Quote from: Rubystars on May 22, 2008, 02:20:48 PM ---
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 22, 2008, 02:15:17 PM ---It's no fair to the woman if a man touches her because he gets sexual enjoyment from touching her. I will not shake an attractive woman's hand because I don't want to use her for enjoyment and because it is a sin to have such enjoyment from a woman other than my wife.
--- End quote ---
I didn't realize men thought of sex when they shook someone's hand.
What concerns me is that women would be the ones being disadvantaged professionally because much of the business world is male and much of the medical profession is male. So if you're a female businessperson or doctor and you can't shake hands with a colleague or examine someone of the opposite gender then you're going to be severely disadvantaged compared to your male counterparts.
--- End quote ---
Don't worry rubystars..I don't think of sex when a shake a woman's hand...However, if i"M holding my girlfriend's hand and we come across haredi or any yamulka wearing jew, we let go of each other out of respect.
--- End quote ---
I never said that men think of sex when shaking a woman's hand. I said they feel a sexually pleasureful feeling in their body. It is a body reaction, not a thought.
--- End quote ---
A rather broad generalization I think............
Perhaps for a guy who is never around women and barely dates that might be true.
--- End quote ---
Well Jewish men are not allowed to kiss women before marriage so any physical contact with a woman can be a sexual experience.
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No, a sexual experience is having sex, not for example shaking a womans hand. Thinking about sex isn't a sexual experience either.
Americanhero1:
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 22, 2008, 11:33:09 PM ---
--- Quote from: FULL METAL JACKET on May 22, 2008, 11:31:59 PM ---
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 22, 2008, 11:06:59 PM ---
--- Quote from: FULL METAL JACKET on May 22, 2008, 06:05:10 PM ---
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 22, 2008, 05:46:59 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dr. Dan on May 22, 2008, 04:50:41 PM ---
--- Quote from: Rubystars on May 22, 2008, 02:20:48 PM ---
--- Quote from: Yacov Menashe Ben Rachamim on May 22, 2008, 02:15:17 PM ---It's no fair to the woman if a man touches her because he gets sexual enjoyment from touching her. I will not shake an attractive woman's hand because I don't want to use her for enjoyment and because it is a sin to have such enjoyment from a woman other than my wife.
--- End quote ---
I didn't realize men thought of sex when they shook someone's hand.
What concerns me is that women would be the ones being disadvantaged professionally because much of the business world is male and much of the medical profession is male. So if you're a female businessperson or doctor and you can't shake hands with a colleague or examine someone of the opposite gender then you're going to be severely disadvantaged compared to your male counterparts.
--- End quote ---
Don't worry rubystars..I don't think of sex when a shake a woman's hand...However, if i"M holding my girlfriend's hand and we come across haredi or any yamulka wearing jew, we let go of each other out of respect.
--- End quote ---
I never said that men think of sex when shaking a woman's hand. I said they feel a sexually pleasureful feeling in their body. It is a body reaction, not a thought.
--- End quote ---
A rather broad generalization I think............
Perhaps for a guy who is never around women and barely dates that might be true.
--- End quote ---
Well Jewish men are not allowed to kiss women before marriage so any physical contact with a woman can be a sexual experience.
--- End quote ---
No, a sexual experience is having sex, not for example shaking a womans hand. Thinking about sex isn't a sexual experience either.
--- End quote ---
But if I shake a very attractive woman's hand, I will get a sexual feeling in my body. So therefore I refrain from doing so.
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When you say banned do you mean in America or IN Israel?
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