You guys, Chaim said flat out in an earlier post that he would not tolerate these 9/11 conspiracy threads, and that anyone putting them up would be banned. At first he didn't want Nik due to him being a rabbi. But this was before that 20 page 9/11 conspiracy thread. Over and over, Chaim tried reasoning with him and asking him nicely not to put up conspiracy posts about the Roman Catholic Church/Bush being behind 9/11. I tried reasoning with him as well. I even set up blog for him, so he could post his stuff there. But it was no use. So let's let this go.
Lisa, we cant really let this go, with this sitting at the top of the forum.
I totally 100% differ with this decision, wholeheartedly, completely, to the max. I agree with the other poster here who said: "
Ignore" feature, basically. There are MANY things that people from the Catholic Faith have done this last century, that refuted what Nik said, and I posted it. I practically posted 2 pages on people that saved Jews during the Holocaust,
that NOBODY EVEN BOTHERED TO READ. Which is TYPICAL of MY posts, UNLESS I bring up a valid warning that gets IGNORED that many of you, in return rebuked me. I posted on just yesterday, that people only probably posted on, b/c it was NEGATIVE. SOME of you THRIVE on NEGATIVE, matter of FACT, YOU LOVE IT.
Nik, IMO had issues that perhaps went a (little) deeper than what was at the surface, of just posting on Catholicism.
While that whole issue of the k. maureen character went on, nik CONFESSED his 'sin' here to you people, and many of you, DID NOT EVEN ACCEPT it. You DIDNT. It was CONDITIONAL. And then when Nik came out with this Catholicism stuff, you didnt MISS A CHANCE to throw it IN HIS FACE, what happened with him and that woman. In the meantime, somewhere along the way, it was found out that k. maureen was a nazi. Then she got told off (which was expected) but downright RIDICULOUS, and while THIS went on, did ANYONE consider that nik was involved with this person, & (perhaps) still had feelings for, and then even THAT got shoved in his face, as he had to look at that as well, while she got her rightful blast.
Perhaps nik was hell bent on making some of you feel as bad as perhaps he did- who knows.. But, When people do something over and over, even after being told NOT to, and they STILL do, it is USUALLY b/c something ELSE is going on in the persons mind (I took psychotherapy in College)
NO I AM NOT A GENIUS, ~but I could read through the lines~ Did ANYONE even BOTHER to
REALLY comfort nik while HE was in pain, while HIS feelings HURT?
Nik ALSO, (I believe) feels GUILTY about what happened, and this could have been the PERFECT way to punish himself. If I were a Rabbi Man or a minister or a priest, or what have you, I know I would have felt totally guilty over what happened, b/c those people brought harm on INNOCENT members here, and nik knew it (I believe, inside, this has bothered him a GREAT deal) If it didnt, then he would just not even be human.
MANY MANY MANY times, people
SET THEMSELVES UP for just this to happen: To have people 86, exile, ban, WHATEVER you want to call it- so that they can feel that justice was served. (Remember what it said on his little message on his profile page) Something like: "I absolute crave for vengeance and justice" In this case, (perhaps) he did NOT believe that justice was served, when he was allowed to stay, and didnt get banned with the perpetrator of the crime, which he feels he was 'guilty by association' Yes, this is digging deeper, and perhaps nik himself hasnt even really 'thought' of it, but I have done this to myself, with different incidents in my life too. So, in this:
I am NOT with this ultimate ban of nik.
And nik, I AM HERE, and I AM your FRIEND.
PS: This has NOTHING to do with
ANYONE ELSE on this forum.
My concern REALLY IS for Nik, who desperately wants a wife and family, as HE stated. I REALLY REALLY care for you Nik, not just some bla bla bla words. PLEASE DO NOT GO AWAY, and PLEASE CONSIDER what I have said. Please! I know pain, (physical more) BUT, I KNOW it well, and can sense it BIGTIME. PLEASE know that there ARE a few of us that DO REALLY care about you UNCONDITIONALLY.
SHALOM.