- I know a thing or two about adoption. You're asking for trouble in adopting any child older than three. Furthermore, some of those state children can be as dangerously unpredictable as pit bulls. I hate to be grim, but most are so far gone that they're beyond recovery, and you might find yourself on a cold slab.
- This must be said about anybody who gets on this or any other board and decries the plight of gutter schvartzes: They must know nothing about gutter schvartzes. Save your PC lectures for naive college kids, because apparently I know more than you.
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You're asking for trouble in adopting any child older than three.
Yes, I am a bit worried about this. I am also worried about the state dictating what is and isn't appropriate punishment or discipline in case she does act bad. I know the history (if the state is being wholly honest) of this little girl. I know she has had a troubled life but she is a good girl, even if she weren't I still love her. She wants a family and is very mature for an eight year old, she has had to be. She likes me as well, as far as I know and I have no reason to believe otherwise. About 20 - 25% of my patients are children so I am wise to most of their tricks, of course not all but I know she is sincere.
This must be said about anybody who gets on this or any other board and decries the plight of gutter schvartzes: They must know nothing about gutter schvartzes. Save your PC lectures for naive college kids, because apparently I know more than you.
What? What lecture, if you thought of my post as a naive lecture then why read it? As far as "gutter schvartzes", you should be ashamed making a blanket statement like that about orphaned children. Have you no compassion for these poor souls who are raised by trash? How do you expect them to act? I think you should hold your judgment until they are of an age where they are more accountable for their own behavior. Save your anger for those that deserve it. I live in Atlanta, I know about "gutter schvartzes" and I would not make excuses for them, the real ones which by no means includes all blacks around here anyway. I know the type, the Nation of Islam type. They hang out downtown at the main rail station. And I guess you are right, some (or maybe a lot) of these kids I'm sure are as you say but if that is all you have to say about them then you should keep quiet. Besides, I was not defending anyone in my previous post. I simply was saying that I would not be totally against adopting a black child, I don't think I ever would but would not rule it out. Who do you think I am, Steven Spielberg? The little girl I am hoping to adopt is not black, she is Jewish and I am a Muslim.....Joking She is white and so am I, I want someone who at least looks as if they were my biological daughter so as not to put the child in an uncomfortable position if asked about it.
You very well may know more than me, however anyone that proclaims their own intelligence usually has very little. For it takes a very intelligent person to realize how little they (him or her self) actually know. <---Just something to ponder upon.