Chaim, I don't have anything against Ron. Just as you treat him as your son, I treat him as my younger brother. He is not like the majority of Israeli youth who don't care about G-d and Eretz Yisrael, he is our real hope. We need more people like Ron. He certainly deserves a second, a third and a tenth chance. All I want is to help him not fall into some serious transgressions.
Therefore it is very painful to see how he's making a terrible mistake when he turns our friends to enemies and adds fuel to the fire of Jew-hatred of the devout antisemites.
Ron, nobody is going to depend on Gentiles. But there is absolutely no reason to increase the quantity and "quality" of the antisemites in the world. As I said, it is forbidden to test G-d's love to us. You say you don't intentionally provoke the gentiles and rely on miracles, well then you do it unintentionally. The difference is not that big, in any case, what you say may serve a good excuse and inspiration for a bunch of harlem negros or nazis to beat some New York Jews to half-death. I don't advocate cowardness, I advocate wisdom. Before waging war, a Jew needs to try some other methods. Hint to Yaakov Avinu.
Moreover, those goyim who are here are not our enemies, they are our friends. Torah does not allow us to be injust even to regular goyim, let alone to those who support us. To be injust to our gentile friends is a great Hillul Hashem, desecration of G-d's name. We don't want Gentiles think that Judaism teaches to disregard and humiliate them. It is not true.
Even if a gentile who supports us has some other weird or wrong ideas, we shouldn't shun his/her friendship. Nodoby is perfect. If he/she is not going to missionize or compromise the Jewish people, we must gratefully accept his friendship. After all, G-d is the one who sends us such person.
Ron, I recommend that you consult some respected National-Religious Rabbi concerning this issue, for example Rabbi Melamed. Only present the situation in full detail, including the facts that may be inconvinient to you.
I wish G-d bless us all, Jews and Righteous Gentiles.