the whole concept of being gay is questionable because if you like men why do gays try to look like woman and act like woman the only reason people say their gay is
low self confidence: scared a girl will turn them down and feel more secure within their own
PR: a lot of big celebrities when the press stops speaking about them they "discover" that they were always gay and all the hot chicks they had were just a misunderstanding
or just simple attention seeking people in certain areas/communities it is almost an embarrassment to be straight