Mum I think you were replying to Axl on the last one and not me.
- Also about the shaving KahanewasrightBT is correct about that being Rav Bar Haims opinion. I asked and clarified it with him personally today and he explained it to me (he said he is mahmir, soo I'll Bli neder follow it this was now B"H). But either way even if we are to say and believe it is forbidden the facts are that many others permit it (and even I before today didn't know this as soo) and we can and should believe that he is holding like them in this matter. In this situation their is no other reason then being Lekah Zehut and not just with words but with thoughts as well because we clearly don't see Matisyahu committing outright sins. Its not like we just found the guy sleeping with someones wife (G-D forbid) like you see with many celebraties etc. Or publicly stating not to keep Shabbout or that he isnt keeping it. And on top of that he went to the Mikwaa the next day ( something in his situation is not even Hayaw to do). - Being outside of Israel.
(By the way I also meet a guy who mentioned Chaim and he made shows with him, I think he said his name is Bob) He was talking to some people and mentioned JTF as well.