Well when i say it, it certainly does!
Its because i am picturing a large black woman, holding a rolling pin, with hand on hips swaying them from side to side, saying it.
Yacov was asking a question! You assumed he was insulting you.....
He asked me why ALL black men shave their heads. It was an insult because of the tone of the post as if he's angry with black men (those who do shave their heads) for doing it. I mean, newman had just mentioned Sinead O'Connor and her bout with the clippers, why wasn't Yacov's question directed at ANYONE who would shave their heads?
Oh and the other question. Yacov and you are acting as if I denied ever saying it or hearing any other woman say it. I've even heard white people say it. The connotation of the word from Yacov and now you is that black women ONLY say it when they're angry. I say it when I agree with someone, instead of saying just 'yes'... in the same way you'd say 'mmmmm' when you have tasted something that's pleasing to your palate instead of just saying "WOW, This is Delicious". Why does the signifier have to be ONLY negative? And better yet, why did he post it as though people here were going to view the video to see if I'd say it?
I'm not a large black woman but I'm bigger than I once was years ago.
My point is that not everything some black people do should be used as the discriptor "Look how inferior and dumb you are?" I'm sure in the UK you have sayings that are slang terms that we, in the US don't understand. For instance, I recently (about 2 years ago) found out that a 'fag' in the UK is a cigarrette...whereas in the US, a 'fag' is the derrogatory word for homosexual.