Anyways, sex is less of a sin than masturbation, so I figure I'm avoiding that sin and the sin of brutally killing every annying person in my office and then throwing it all the way to crush the white house if I did neither. Samson did it, I'm just not a sap, and have extreme trust issues from my... well life but youth too.
Wrong! Sex outside of marriage is sin/immoral. Look at the sin of Onan, How Hashem struck him dead for using a woman for sexual gratification/pleasure who he didn't plan to marry. Any form of fornication is looked badly upon. You sleep around with girls outside marriage for what reason? We are Jews, an honorable and pure race of people, we are not like others who can pervert and amuse ourselves with carnal pleasures.
Why are Jewish people perverting themselves and lowering their moral standards? I hate premarital sex and think it is wrong.
Actually , I am just so sick of this modern society and the loose morals. Good luck finding a Jewish girl in the USA who is a virgin in this day and age. Torah, backed up by many Rabbinical scholars, even says that a Jewish woman who is not a virgin, except for cases of divorce or other legal means of her having previous sexual relations, should be put to death. From what I have been told, most Rabbinical scholars agree that a marriage with a girl who is not a virgin is not legal. I would also extend this to a man as well, as with the example in Bereshit 38 with Onan.
Once upon a time, Jewish people fell in love, they didn't need to have one night affairs that they could go brag about to their friends later. Now, there is all this BS to find a Jewish girl , because most Jewish women in the USA are self-hating feminazis. And, yes, many Jewish guys have decided to go and sleep around with shiksas, because finding a even-headed, kind and nurturing Jewish girl who isn't dominating or sucking his blood financially has been a real chore.
I really agree with a lot of what Nafraudi said. It is like he took the words out of my own mouth.
Pardon me, I shouldn't get so emotional about this subject. Anyway, celibacy helps me not have to worry about all the drama and insantiy, divorces, alimony, once a week or month visits of my own children, loss of firearm rights and all the hardships I may face if I decided to get married in a Western country.
P.S. Lisa, I find that fascinating you are a Persian Jew. I have had one Persian Jewish friend who use to sell me beautiful hand made rugs. I am intrigued to learn more about the culture of Persian Jews. They are hard to find in the Northwest, but I actually met one at the Chabad once.