Do you believe in Jesus
I believe he existed
I look at the holiday as the one time a year my whole family (my dad has 13 brothers and sisters, plus all their families, my mom has 6 brothers, plus their families) all comes together from where we are all scattered and has a great dinner, nice decorations, presents and a wonderful time. I am not a pagan, nor is anyone in my family, and thankfully we are free to celebrate as we see fit. Its a very enjoyable time of the year, and I wouldnt change a thing about the way we do it, I realize that some people celebrate it as a religious holiday, and thats their prerogative as well.
Some of my fondest memories as a child were from that time of year.