Personally, I blame leftist egalitarianism and socialism for promoting secularism and moral relativism that has led to the rise in permiscuous sex in America. Marx could be blamed for egalitarianism..Marx was a Jew...Therefore, Jews could share blame too. But instead of blaming groups I prefer to blame simply the act of fornication itself for the current madness we see in women.
I agree completely, Din Rodef.
One thing I would also like to add is that there is a tremendous amount of pressure on young women to shed their modesty and to go with lots of men. The author Wendy Shalit wrote all about it in her EXCELLENT book
A Return to Modesty. For one thing, since so many women do put by the third date, or sooner, many men see sex as a right. And such men will not want to go with an old fashioned girl, when they can get sex from another girl right off the bat. So that puts some young women in a bind -- either put out or be repeatedly rejected.
And this pressure doesn't just come from other young people either.
I remember one time (a long long time ago) going to this gynecologist. These doctors routinely ask women what they do in the way of birth control. So when I told the doctor that I had never been intimate with a man, he looked at me as though I had just cursed out his mother, and said
"you're WHAT?!?!?"So I guess what I'm getting at is that it's hard for women of all ages, as well as for men.
Maybe you guys need to volunteer for some good causes or go to right wing events as opposed to bars/pubs. There are guarantees, but at least you might find like minded friends.