So, I had yet another Christian betray me recently....Ill survive.

[~Hanna~]

It's getting to where I trust nobody, any more.

I'll get over it.

In the meantime, if anyone needs my help for anything, please let me know.

Thankyou.

I hope everyone had a great Passover.

Shalom.

[JTFenthusiast2]

Who betrayed you, Hanna?

[MassuhDGoodName]

Sorry to hear that you were hurt, Hannah.

Unfortunately human nature contains the tendency to do evil, and this holds true across every ethnicity and religious group.

Use the experience to grow stronger and develop better defense mechanisms.

[~Hanna~]

Just someone who calls themselves a Christian, who was a wolf in sheep's clothing, noone from here at JTF.

Who betrayed you, Hanna?

[~Hanna~]

thankyou....

yes, one day I will learn.

Sorry to hear that you were hurt, Hannah.

Unfortunately human nature contains the tendency to do evil, and this holds true across every ethnicity and religious group.

Use the experience to grow stronger and develop better defense mechanisms.

[Lisa]

I'm sorry to hear that Hanna.  And I'm glad to see you posting again. 

[Rubystars]

I'm sorry that you were betrayed! I hope that you'll feel better and find some really good, true friends you can count on.

[IsraeliGovtAreKapos]

What do you mean by "betray"?

[muman613]

What do you mean by "betray"?

My guess is that someone who she trusted with something, or some information, told someone who she did not trust. That is generally what people mean when they say they have been betrayed.

[AsheDina]

Hanna,
  Terrible, just awful.  Stick with us : )  We know betrayal.

[IsraeliGovtAreKapos]

Oh I almost thought her partner has cheated on her or something

[AsheDina]

Oh I almost thought her partner has cheated on her or something

Thats bad too, but to have a supposed friend that 'shares' the same belief as Hanna to turn around and do her wrong, its sickening.

[Rubystars]

Hanna as a Christian I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive this person, even if you need to pray to be able to do it.

[~Hanna~]

Thanks Lisa....

I'm sorry to hear that Hanna.  And I'm glad to see you posting again. 

[~Hanna~]

I'm trying.

I feel quite alienated out here where I am at.

I'm sorry that you were betrayed! I hope that you'll feel better and find some really good, true friends you can count on.

[~Hanna~]

Someone who said they were a friend,.......I trusted them...they turned out to be someone not to be trusted, in words and actions.

Also, judging me without walking in my shoes for the past ten to fifteen years, also.

Im tired of it.

What do you mean by "betray"?

My guess is that someone who she trusted with something, or some information, told someone who she did not trust. That is generally what people mean when they say they have been betrayed.

[~Hanna~]

Do we have to go there? You know good and darn well I have no partner, Ive been alone now for almost 15 years.

there are no good men left, sorry to say, but there just are not.

Oh I almost thought her partner has cheated on her or something

[~Hanna~]

yes, Im trying. I would hope one day they will repent and ask forgiveness for the truley horrible things that they said to me. Some of which I cannot even repeat.

Hanna as a Christian I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive this person, even if you need to pray to be able to do it.

[muman613]

Hanna,

Im very sorry that you were treated disrespectfully. I cannot explain what motivates someone to act this way. But do not lose faith in Hashem, nor in people because Hashem cares about how we relate to other people. Today I had an incident with a co-worker who appeared to do something unkind to me. I was able to not let it get to me because I realized that nobody can hurt me unless I allow them to. I can also review the incident and give the person the benefit of the doubt.

Do not hold a grudge. It is better to let this person know that you are not happy about this relationship and do something to change it. Sometimes we just need to end a relationship instead of continuing to hurt and be hurt.

[~Hanna~]

I will heed your advice, you are correct.

I did, unfortunately, let this person know, this person does not care, nor do they care to have a friendship with me any longer. Theyn are so callous and arrogant, it is their way or no way, and it does not matter what I have to say about anything concerning my life....they told me I have to follow their orders...even.

How arrogant is that?

Hanna,

Im very sorry that you were treated disrespectfully. I cannot explain what motivates someone to act this way. But do not lose faith in Hashem, nor in people because Hashem cares about how we relate to other people. Today I had an incident with a co-worker who appeared to do something unkind to me. I was able to not let it get to me because I realized that nobody can hurt me unless I allow them to. I can also review the incident and give the person the benefit of the doubt.

Do not hold a grudge. It is better to let this person know that you are not happy about this relationship and do something to change it. Sometimes we just need to end a relationship instead of continuing to hurt and be hurt.

[Yirmayahu]

I'm sorry that you were hurt Hannah. Just keep looking to the author and finisher of your faith and know that someday soon all of this crap is going to end. When Mashiach comes all will be made perfect and those who walked as counterfeits will be brought to justice. I pray that you will be able to pray for that person and forgive them, as hard as that might be. We'll be praying that G-d will give you that peace that passes all understanding, and that His justice will come to bear against the adversary.

Yirmayahu

[~Hanna~]

Thankyou.....

I hope I am found worthy to not suffer the wrath of Almighty G-d myself.

I'm sorry that you were hurt Hannah. Just keep looking to the author and finisher of your faith and know that someday soon all of this crap is going to end. When Mashiach comes all will be made perfect and those who walked as counterfeits will be brought to justice. I pray that you will be able to pray for that person and forgive them, as hard as that might be. We'll be praying that G-d will give you that peace that passes all understanding, and that His justice will come to bear against the adversary.

Yirmayahu

[muman613]

Thankyou.....

I hope I am found worthy to not suffer the wrath of Almighty G-d myself.

I'm sorry that you were hurt Hannah. Just keep looking to the author and finisher of your faith and know that someday soon all of this crap is going to end. When Mashiach comes all will be made perfect and those who walked as counterfeits will be brought to justice. I pray that you will be able to pray for that person and forgive them, as hard as that might be. We'll be praying that G-d will give you that peace that passes all understanding, and that His justice will come to bear against the adversary.

Yirmayahu

Hanna,

Stop with putting yourself down like this... You know you are righteous, we know you are basically righteous. We are not fully knowledgable about your personal life but judging from your postings you seem genuine and good. I believe that Hashem is full of Abundant Kindness. His Kindness is infinite and his justice is merciful.

A person with faith and trust has nothing to fear in this world. Nobody can do anything to change them. I listened to an awesome talk about faith and trust and I try to live by these traits. You must have trust in yourself, you must do your best, work your hardest, give your most and Hashem will take care of the rest.

[~Hanna~]

ok, well, please put me on  your prayer list because I am feeling horrible lately about some things.

I need lots of prayer.

Thankyou to anyone here willing to pray.

I love all of you here.

 

Thankyou.....

I hope I am found worthy to not suffer the wrath of Almighty G-d myself.

I'm sorry that you were hurt Hannah. Just keep looking to the author and finisher of your faith and know that someday soon all of this crap is going to end. When Mashiach comes all will be made perfect and those who walked as counterfeits will be brought to justice. I pray that you will be able to pray for that person and forgive them, as hard as that might be. We'll be praying that G-d will give you that peace that passes all understanding, and that His justice will come to bear against the adversary.

Yirmayahu

Hanna,

Stop with putting yourself down like this... You know you are righteous, we know you are basically righteous. We are not fully knowledgable about your personal life but judging from your postings you seem genuine and good. I believe that Hashem is full of Abundant Kindness. His Kindness is infinite and his justice is merciful.

A person with faith and trust has nothing to fear in this world. Nobody can do anything to change them. I listened to an awesome talk about faith and trust and I try to live by these traits. You must have trust in yourself, you must do your best, work your hardest, give your most and Hashem will take care of the rest.

[Rubystars]

Muman gave you some great advice.