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Title: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Hamantashen on May 25, 2010, 04:47:35 PM
The following is an interesting documentary about gay Orthodox frum Jews that I first saw on Logo television network called "Trembling Before G-d".  I will link to it and hope JTFers watch it and comment on it AFTER they watch it.

http://www.hulu.com/watch/76545/trembling-before-g-d

It takes 84 minutes.  It is worth watching.  CHAIM, I SUGGEST YOU WATCH IT, ALSO.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d
Post by: muman613 on May 25, 2010, 04:49:43 PM
I sure hope that any Jews who are gay will get the help they need. It is possible to control the evil inclination with strength, faith, and love. I do not oppress the gay, but I certainly do not condone that lifestyle. If this film is about Jews who have transgressed who now are making Teshuva then I support them. If they attempt to lessen the extent of their transgression then I certainly condemn them..

Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 25, 2010, 05:01:51 PM
@mumam613:  Watch it.  84 minutes is not a long time.  
p.s.- I am NOT gay.  But I do believe there should be a place for gay Jews who are well behaved and keep their gayness under wraps in the frum community.  Again, NOT all gays can you take to a party or invite to your wedding but we shouldn't through out the baby with the placenta.  Watch it and I would be interested in your comment afterwards.

Keep it under wraps?   These are people who would NOT get married?  Or would they deceive people and cheat on spouses they never really committed to?   
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 25, 2010, 05:24:12 PM
@Kahane Was Right:  This is the last time I will say this.
WATCH THE FRIGGIN' MOVIE BEFORE WE TALK ABOUT IT IN THE ABSTRACT!!!!

You stated an opinion about keeping things under wraps.  I only asked you for a clarification of what you meant.  I don't have time to watch the movie right now.  Maybe ever.

Believe it or not, I've actually seen clips of this movie before, possibly the whole thing or close to the whole thing, but I don't remember if I saw all of it or not.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: JTFenthusiast2 on May 25, 2010, 07:53:04 PM
Hamantashen, this forum is filled with people who point the finger at everyone else, yet somehow never look in the mirror.  Sometimes, I think G-d weeps when looking at the egoism of some here BTW, I am NOT talking about the other people on this thread necessarily.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: TheCoon on May 25, 2010, 08:01:47 PM
Any way to view this at a non-Hulu location? Hulu can't be streamed to Canada.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: muman613 on May 25, 2010, 08:06:29 PM
Hamantashen, this forum is filled with people who point the finger at everyone else, yet somehow never look in the mirror.  Sometimes, I think G-d weeps when looking at the egoism of some here BTW, I am NOT talking about the other people on this thread necessarily.

But some are truly concerned with the better good of society. Some people actually are concerned for the soul and spirit of every Jew, and every human being. To stand against a lifestyle which is against our religion is not necessarily hate. I deal with all kinds of Jews and I don't know what the sexual orientation of every one is. It is not something which I spend much time worrying about.

I am wont to say that those who violate Shabbat are just as culpable as those who engage in Homosexual sex.

Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: MassuhDGoodName on May 25, 2010, 08:10:36 PM
Search for it on Tudou.com

http://www.tudou.com/ (http://www.tudou.com/)
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: MassuhDGoodName on May 25, 2010, 08:17:33 PM
They made a sequel which is even better!

It's called Queer as a 3 Dollar Bill!    :P    >:(
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: RightWingGentile on May 25, 2010, 08:33:26 PM
These filthy, deviant sodomites will be going to Gehenom - lest they change their soul-destroying ways!

RWG
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: muman613 on May 25, 2010, 08:48:09 PM
These filthy, deviant sodomites will be going to Gehenom - lest they change their soul-destroying ways!

RWG

Along with all those who transgress Shabbat... Both of these transgressions are deemed worthy of death. Once again the only thing Torah prohibits is the actual act of homo sex... It does not talk about same sex attraction. I see the problem with homosexuals as one of being able to control the evil inclination. Some people are addicted to Internet porn and engage in behavior which the Torah prohibits {Onanism, etc.}.

Jewish belief is that sex is pleasant because it is intended to be done with your wife {for a man}. A man should love his wife, and provide her with pleasure... But when we use this gift which Hashem gave us for our own pleasure, and basically use the equipment which G-d gave us for purposes which he did not intend, then the individual is battling his evil inclination...

http://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/465161/jewish/The-Purposes-of-Marriage.htm
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Because procreation is the purpose of sex, the wanton wasting of seed (hashchatat zera) was prohibited. There are three principal forms of this wasting. The first is onanism, which refers to coitus interruptus. Onan (Genesis 38:9) "went in unto his brother's wife and spilled [seed] on the ground." The Rabbis call this "threshing within and winnowing without." The second is contraception, which is permitted only in limited circumstances, as will be discussed later in this chapter. The third is masturbation. Although current psychological literature almost unanimously endorses this practice as natural, useful, and even desirable, Jewish law and tradition look upon it as wrong. The blessing of G‑d is not to be wasted for any reason; it must retain its naturalness and its integrity. Thus the blessing may be spent only within the legitimate moral confines of marriage.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: AsheDina on May 25, 2010, 08:51:22 PM
Leviticus 18
כב  וְאֶת-זָכָר--לֹא תִשְׁכַּב, מִשְׁכְּבֵי אִשָּׁה:  תּוֹעֵבָה, הִוא.  22

Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind; it is abomination. 
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: muman613 on May 25, 2010, 08:55:10 PM
Leviticus 18
כב  וְאֶת-זָכָר--לֹא תִשְׁכַּב, מִשְׁכְּבֵי אִשָּׁה:  תּוֹעֵבָה, הִוא.  22

Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind; it is abomination. 

yes, this is the prohibition on man-on-man sex...

Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on May 25, 2010, 10:04:12 PM
No thanks, if I want to see a video clip of filthy sodomites I'll Youtube Eminem.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Dr. Dan on May 25, 2010, 10:13:47 PM
I didn't see the video yet, but I do want to make a comment:

Some homosexuals have the inclination they have because they were born that way. I have no proof of this but this is what it seems to me.
Those who don't act on it are doing good. Those who act on it or encourage it are doing bad.

We should hate the behavior and those who encourage others to do it.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Rubystars on May 25, 2010, 10:24:03 PM
I feel compassion for people struggling with this and I hope that with God's help they can learn to control their behavior and not act on it.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Hamantashen on May 25, 2010, 10:54:54 PM
Great!  We all hate homosexuality, including Hashem but who has watched the flick?  I am not gay and don't recommend the lifestyle.  I am just suggesting that as aware Jews, these conditions do enter the discourse of Jewish life and this film handles the subject intelligently.  Are you afraid that if you see a gay themed documentary or talk to a gay person, it will turn you gay?  Also, what would you do if one of your sons (daughters) comes to you and says, "Pop, I really think that Schlomo (Sara) is cute"!!  Do you think it could never happen?  With the big families of Charedi and modern Orthodox families and homosexuality being about 2 or 3 percent of the population, guess again.  Do you think that if you immerse them in Torah that it will immunize them from this terrible blight, think again.  What would you do?  Throw him (her) out of the house??  I have a 24 year old son who is straight as an arrow.  There is a kid in our building the same age who is queer as a three dollar bill.  What did I do differently?  Nothing.  In fact, he is a new immigrant, an Uzbeki Bukharian Jew who was prevented from practicing by the yoke of Communism but is now a frum Jew.  On the other hand, my family has been in the U.S. since the 1860's and all I cared about growing up was Roger Maris, Mickey Mantle, the Mercury astronauts and I refused to go to synagogue since I would miss The Time Tunnel, The Green Hornet and Howdy Doody and everyone in my family is straight.  I state this to emphasize that immersion in religious studies or failure to do so is irrelevant when it comes to sexual orientation of a person.  If my son came home one day at age 14 with makeup and lipstick and wearing girls clothes, I still wouldn't kick him out of the house.  You can quote Leviticus all you want until you turn blue but what do you do when your son (daughter) comes home with his (her) boyfriend (girlfriend) and says, "This is the man (woman) I want to spend the rest of my life with"? 
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: muman613 on May 25, 2010, 11:23:09 PM
Great!  We all hate homosexuality, including Hashem but who has watched the flick?

I'm sorry Hamantaschen but I don't have that much time to watch something which I don't think will interest me. I just finished watching a 43 minute talk by a Rabbi about the Moshiach. I wish I could comment on it in order to satisfy your request.

Why don't you share with us your impression of the video?

Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on May 25, 2010, 11:24:34 PM
I feel compassion for people struggling with this and I hope that with G-d's help they can learn to control their behavior and not act on it.
I feel bad for people who have this orientation and are trying to fight it. I have no sympathy for disgusting chazirs who promote this hideous way of life, like Ellen Degeneres, Katy Perry, or Feminem.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ari Ben-Canaan on May 26, 2010, 12:16:54 AM
I think I may watch the video.  I have no idea what is said there, if its not an apologetic video or junk science promotion [like what mainstream media and television almost always promote] perhaps I will learn something I do not already know.

I do believe that Vayikra is clear as crystal on the matter, as far as living a Torah based life.  From what I see, a Jew chooses to live a life of Torah, or they choose not to.  I believe being made a Jew is the most beautiful thing which can happen to a person, and to shun Torah is a grave insult to HaShem.

Maybe I will have more to say after I watch this movie.  I don't have 84 minutes tonight, possibly tomorrow I will.  If I have more to say I will.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Rubystars on May 26, 2010, 12:44:39 AM
I actually watched the whole thing. I've got to tell you that was heart wrenching stuff. It really made me feel a lot of pain for them because I can see how they're being torn apart inside.

I agree with the Rabbi in the film who told the man that God doesn't give people challenges that they can't meet though. Maybe for some reason God allows certain people to have these inclinations in order to give them a better reward later for fighting them off. I think it's obvious that some people have much harder choices to make than others in life and this may be one example of that.

I felt really bad for the guy who said he wanted to be able to have a wife and children because he'd always dreamed of having kids, but wasn't able to because he couldn't love a woman and marry her.

That's got to be such a daily torment that it's no surprise many people with these issues commit suicide.

I think there would be much better therapies available than the stupid "rubber band" thing if only the psychological profession would work on helping people with these problems rather than denying that it's a problem at all, as they currently do.

It rightly used to be considered to be a paraphilia. Those types of disorders are notoriously hard to treat, but so much progress could have been made if only those in charge of the profession would have loved these people enough to help rather than hurt them by telling them to embrace sin and act on it. Clearly even the Jews in the film who did act on their desires were still in torment not knowing if they had a good relationship with God.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Spiraling Leopard on May 26, 2010, 06:45:19 AM
I have heard of methods enabling orgasmic experiences without ejaculation. This would safe and cultivate the seed, diminish desire  and transform the sexual energy.

But what's the deal here? Are you allowed to please your woman with a rubber, or only to make babies?
And what about the womans plight to satisfy her husband?
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Hamantashen on May 26, 2010, 10:45:21 AM
@Rubystars and Dan ben Noach:  Thank you both for watching the video and making mature comments.  Nevertheless neither of you answered my core question:  What would you do if one day, one of your grown teenage kids said, "Dad, I'm gay.  It's not a phase or a fad.  It's for real and I've felt this way since I was young.  I've tried and I can't change"? 
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: MassuhDGoodName on May 26, 2010, 10:48:14 AM
For anyone Jew or non-Jew perplexed by the issue of homosexuality:

Judaism at its essence is the sanctification of that which is holy.

Ha'Shem gave to the Jew and to no other people His Law as direct, Divine Revelation in the form of a Covenant called Torah, through which we are called out from among the other nations to live as a Nation of Priests serving the One True G-d of the Universe.

Torah isn't "accepting" of all ideas and behaviors as divine and holy!

Torah allows for mankind only those behaviors which G-d defines as acceptable.

Torah recognizes that the 'animal' side of human nature contains impulses, emotions, and thoughts which if acted upon, reduce us to a state lower than other animals, with the subsequent reduction of the entire world to a state of disorder.

Through Torah, the Jew learns and understands that there is a Holiness, Sanctity, and a Realm of the Spiritual, far removed from our lowly animal impulses, and that by observing G-d's Law and obeying our Covenant with Him, we make separate and elevated our human nature from that of an animal.

Judaism recognizes that man is created a spiritual entity inhabiting a mortal physical body which in many ways resembles that of other animals.

Other nations worship at the feet of statues, or claim their human leader to be the G-dhead incarnate --

Torah commands the Jew to worship The One Creator G-d of the Universe - spiritual, infinite, omnipotent, omniscient, and immaterial.

Other nations elevate conquest, murder, destruction, and death --

Torah commands the Jew to improve the Earth, forbids us the act of murder, and orders us to choose life over death in every circumstance.

Other nations elevate the hunting and eating of animals for food; some peoples as well even hunting and eating other men as food --

Torah commands the Jew not only to know which food G-d considers acceptable for man to eat, but also instructs us how to properly slaughter animals, how to properly prepare food and eat it, and even how to bless our food in order to sanctify our G-d who created it for us.

Many nations use the same body of water for depositing human waste, bathing, and for a source for drinking water --

Torah details how Jews must wash their hands even before eating food, and commands Jews to use pure water to cleanse our bodies and symbolically purify our souls.

Prior to Torah homosexuality was a universally practiced act, considered by the ancient Greeks as the 'highest possible form of love'.

Torah calls the practice "an abomination, and forbids Jews the use of the gift of sexual pleasure for any purposes other than the continuity of life, to be practiced in sanctity by a married man and woman.

Homosexual sex can not procreate our species, nor can it express love between a man and a woman.

Just the opposite is true.

Therefore it is an acting out of animal lust.

If an entire society practices it, the society disappears forever.

Those today who make the argument "But it is natural and normal, and observed in almost every species of animal !" are indeed correct in their observations, because homosexual behavior is found throughout much of the animal kingdom.

However, what such 'reasoning' overlooks entirely is that Judaism's purpose is to enable mankind to recognize, elevate, and sanctify his holy and spiritual nature; separate and apart from that which are the basest physical urges we share with other animals

A Jew strives for holiness and to sanctify G-d's creation.

Anger which if acted out would lead to murder, or lustful impulses to engage in sexual activity; we are allowed to recognize the reality of these thoughts which we all have at one time or another, but are not allowed to act on them --

Torah frees mans' intellect to reach for that which is Holy -- never again to be confined within the purely physical and animal "natural world".

It is the Jew with Torah who shows the entire world that G-d is indeed real and exists, and it is the Jew with Torah that alone is able to prove that mankind is different from the rest of the animal kingdom.
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p.s.

Of course, I realize that homosexuality exists.

I personally believe that many human beings are born with the inclination, and I have observed myself how blessed with brilliance and talent are so many of these individuals.

Whether such behavior is innately genetic or learned, Torah gives us the intellect and reasoning to understand that such inclinations are part of the natural world. 

However, we must understand that such urges and thoughts are exactly the same as others in the natural world --

All of us at times feel the urge to murder, steal, or rape, but can and must use our free will and intellects to repress and never act on them.

So too, must we repress and never act out our base sexual impulses, regardless of whether they be heterosexual or homosexual.

Think carefully on this, JTF members, and realize the truth of these words.

You are free to practice the sexual lifestyles of all the pagan and evil nations which have long perished from the Earth if you so choose.

But if so, you must accept that you are no longer to be numbered among the Jewish people.

Also you must accept that Jews exist only because of Torah, and Torah never has and never will accept homosexuality, women priests, feminism, or any other "popular" fad being passed off as "rational, modern, and secular".

In fact, each and every one of these schools of thought are as old as time itself, and were practiced in every society in which ancient Jews lived.

Torah is replete with such lifestyles and even far worse ones being practiced long ago in the ancient world.

Ancient Canaanites practiced group sex and defecation as religious rite! ...

Sodom and Gomorrah is no myth ..

Talmud has a passage in which the ancient Rabbis who actually lived in Babylonian exile agree that it was only when the women of ancient Babylon demanded full equality with men that the great Empire fell.

Question:  Who was it Judah Maccabee was fighting? --

Answer:  The Assyrian Empire, remnant of Alexander the Great's Empire, who like the rest of the Greek world prayed to statues, ate pigs, worshipped the nude human body, spent their quality time being naked with other men "getting ripped" and "working out" in gymnasiums and then having anal intercourse with each other.  They somehow got the idea that conquering Judea by force, putting pigs and statues in the Temple in Jerusalem, building gymnasiums and pools for the Jews, and legally outlawing circumcision and Kosher eating was the hippest and latest thing for the Modern Man of the New Age.

Then, as today, a large percentage of Jews would embrace the secular and pagan world with all its promises of wealth, excitement, pleasure, and sexual freedom.

Then, as today, any that did would be cut off from their people and perish.

Think about it.


 

Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: MassuhDGoodName on May 26, 2010, 11:04:28 AM
Hamantaschen, it is so obvious that you are a "gay rights" activist trolling here to further your agenda.

I just left a post/reply regarding the homosexual life and its ramifications as regards the Torah Jew.

In answer to your "question":

If any six year old comes home and announces that he's "gay" to his family, then he's obviously been brainwashed either at school or by television, because children are not sexual beings.

Male children do not have descended testes, testosterone, pubic hair, or a sex urge.

Female children do not have menstruation, breast development, pubic hair, changes in physical shape, an increase in estrogen levels, or a sex urge.

A sixteen year old might make such a statement to a parent, but not a six year old.

And if my children were to ever make such a statement to me, I would sit them down and explain in depth exactly what I just explained in my recent post dealing with the subject of how Jews should deal with the "gay" or homosexual lifestyle.    :)

And, if for any reason that didn't get through to him or her, I would then tie them up, dress them in all white clothes, take a can of black spray paint, and write N I G R all over their face and clothes, and then drive them over to the worst ghetto neighborhood and push them out of the car.     >:(

If they survived, they would have taken it so many times up the butt   :o   that they would never want gay sex again!      ;D   
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: MassuhDGoodName on May 26, 2010, 11:22:58 AM
Hamantaschen:  "MassuhDGoodName@ It is clear that you haven't watched the film.  We all have read Leviticus.

http://www.hulu.com/watch/76545/trembling-before-g-d


It just so happens I am a Hulu member, and have watched the film.

Judaism is as old as time, and the Jewish People exist today, against all the odds, because of our clinging to Torah.

Of course there have always been homosexuals found among the Jewish People, just as there have always been homosexuals found among all other peoples.

The difference between we Jews and the other nations, is that we have always disavowed any sex outside of the male-female sanctified bond.

True, we don't any longer put them to death when we find them.

But Talmud states that "They shall be put to death" can be interpreted to mean that G-d Himself will in the future extinguish their souls because they can not be elevated to holiness.

Like my post stated, I often have the urge to beat the living crap out of somebody but I do not act upon these urges because I am not purely animal.

If, on the other hand, I if had always acted out my thoughts and impulses, I would have beaten the crap out of a lot of different people, but I also would have been forced to face the consequences of my actions, both legal, and those injurious to my body, which would result from my own inability to control my thoughts and impulses.

That's all!

Want to be homo?

I don't advise it, but it's your life and your choice.

Want to be a Jew?

Then think anything you want, if you have to, but do not act out what you think!

One can not have it both ways and remain a Torah Jew.

Think about it.

Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Dr. Dan on May 26, 2010, 11:42:32 AM
@Rubystars and Dan ben Noach:  Thank you both for watching the video and making mature comments but neither of you answered my core question:  What would you do if one day, one of your grown teenage kids said, "Dad, I'm gay.  It's not a phase or a fad.  It's for real and I've felt this way since I was young.  I've tried and I can't change"? 

Gd forbid...but if that day came and I had to give advice to the parents, I would tell them to love their child just as they usually do and be compassionate and help him or her not sin and live a normal life as much as possible.  I would not encourage homosexual behavior.

and personally, nobody needs to watch a video to make a respond to that..I simply haven't had time to watch yet.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Rubystars on May 26, 2010, 12:52:07 PM
@Rubystars and Dan ben Noach:  Thank you both for watching the video and making mature comments but neither of you answered my core question:  What would you do if one day, one of your grown teenage kids said, "Dad, I'm gay.  It's not a phase or a fad.  It's for real and I've felt this way since I was young.  I've tried and I can't change"? 

I don't know exactly what I would do. I would be very upset, but I would still love them and try to help them the best I could. I would not, however, tell them that it's ok to engage in behavior that's stricly forbidden by the Bible.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: JTFenthusiast2 on May 26, 2010, 09:33:52 PM
I never saw this film when it came out and the fact that it was the "in" Art film to see made me not want to see it.  I watched it now for the first time and I am reminded of how grateful I used to be that I was not raised in an orthodox home that would turn their children away, sometimes with such cruelty.  When I see this film now, I am some years older and I see their parents pain, their inability to deal with something they don't know.  No one teaches anyone how to deal with something like this and so everyone falls back onto old favorites like shunning, ignoring, and disowning even when you can tell it causes the parents great pain (as seen in the clip with the 58 year old man who speaks to his 98 year old father on the phone who has nothing but excuses for why he can't meet his son in person).  Everyone here is a victim: the child struggling, the parents who have no idea, no life training that could ever prepare them to deal with something so catastrophic.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: JTFenthusiast2 on May 26, 2010, 10:02:01 PM
Incidently those 'rabbis' bellowing out at passers-by in the beginning of the film are none other than Neturei Karta and their hideous Jew hating spokesperson, Rabbi Joel Weiss Yimach Schemo Vzithro
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: muman613 on May 26, 2010, 10:21:54 PM
Imagine the parents pain when they learn that the son that they invested so much time and money into getting into a good college turns into a drug addict and drops out? What if this son then gets involved with a crowd which is evil, and he stoops to theft and prostitution? How should that parent react?

This is one reason I view this as a matter of doing what is right, even if you want to do wrong. Drug addiction is a very difficult thing to stop. I know from personal experience...
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 27, 2010, 09:31:46 AM
I feel compassion for people struggling with this and I hope that with G-d's help they can learn to control their behavior and not act on it.

I agree.

Btw Hamantaschen, since I did see the movie a while back (can't remember if I saw all of it, but at least most of it), and you are looking for comments on the movie, I will say that the man who went through shock therapy in order to try to remove his attraction to men was a very moving story and I felt bad for him.   When a person goes through all that, what is left for him?   I do feel that the people he has dealt with were not really against only the sin, it seems they were against him as a person, and from what I remember they threw him out of the shul... As one rabbi in the film comments, something which really stood out to me in the whole film, if you get rid of all the sinners, the rabbi will have no shul left, there'll be no one there.   So it's not really fair that these type of people get singled out, but I imagine the response is much different depending on where the person ends up (ie in a more modern place  or simply a more tolerant haredi place etc).  They chose in this film for better or worse, to highlight a case where a person was shunned.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ben m on May 27, 2010, 09:41:46 AM
we need to ban homo sexuality completely.it is against jewish and white spirit.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 27, 2010, 09:51:26 AM
There are certainly secular parents who shun children, especially in cases where the child lives the "gay lifestyle."  So do not say that "shunning children" is limited to "orthodox families."

And don't give me this garbage about Orthodox community not teaching parents how to deal with these issues or "ignorance" in the orthodox community etc...   (I am referring to some comments here, not to hamantaschen).   Because no community teaches anyone how to deal with this issue and what exactly is there to teach?  Give me a break.     People react as they see fit.   The only difference there might be is that in secular society, now in the school systems we are brainwashed to "accept" gayness and think that it's ok, so now secular parents may be more inclined NOT to shun their gay kids as opposed to before.  However, it's still going to happen if they have strong feelings on the subject and it certainly does.   It's just now considered "bigoted" by the PC propaganda.

Personally I do not know how to deal with it if a child has it G-d forbid, Lo Alenu, but given that the percentages are well-known as to how many men will develop attraction to men and how many women will develop attraction to women, and it is also firmly established by the statistics that in large families with multiple male children, the later born male children have a much greater likelihood to develop same sex attraction, from what I remember the 4th or 5th or 6th male child have higher risks (it seems to be associated with the testosterone levels supplied to the fetus and the differing levels with each subsequent pregnancy-with-male-child), that there should be brainstorming and ideas for how to create a new role in society for such people when they "come out" with their inner problem.   If they cannot have a loving relationship with a female there needs to be some supplementary role for such a person in society, however their sexual desires are still forbidden to carry out, and these people will have to refrain from sexual activity, as hard as that may sound.  Perhaps a fulfilling societal role and loving familial relationships can minimize the need for satisfying their sexual urges.     It is a complicated subject because on the one hand, gay sex is an abomination, but on the other hand G-d gave them the urges for it as well.   So we have to be sensitive to people even while we strongly assert that these urges are forbidden to fulfill.   

BTW, this phenomenon of subsequent male pregnancies causing a higher risk for giving birth to a boy who will develop same sex attraction was NOT found with females.  So the 10th female born to the same mother, statistically has no added risk regarding this.

Certainly though to adopt the flamboyant "gay lifestyle" as created in modern society (think sanfrancisco and what you think of when you hear the word "queer") is a very evil way of expression for people with these desires.   We need to develop an alternative IMO.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 27, 2010, 09:56:47 AM
we need to ban homo sexuality completely.it is against jewish and white spirit.

White spirit?  What would that be exactly?

Ben, I'm interested to know how you define white spirit, and do you really think that other white nationalists accept your points of view and the inventions of some "dark-skinned Jew" on the subject?
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ben m on May 27, 2010, 10:01:05 AM
we need to ban homo sexuality completely.it is against jewish and white spirit.

White spirit?  What would that be exactly?

Ben, I'm interested to know how you define white spirit, and do you really think that other white nationalists accept your points of view and the inventions of some "dark-skinned Jew" on the subject?
white spirit is christianity and greco-roam value.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: muman613 on May 27, 2010, 10:34:02 AM
we need to ban homo sexuality completely.it is against jewish and white spirit.

White spirit?  What would that be exactly?

Ben, I'm interested to know how you define white spirit, and do you really think that other white nationalists accept your points of view and the inventions of some "dark-skinned Jew" on the subject?
white spirit is christianity and greco-roam value.

Ben,

Learn a little history... Both Greece and Rome had rampant Homosexual activity... As a matter of fact it was a sign of a high society to have multiple homosexual relationships with young men...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality_in_ancient_Rome

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Homosexuality in ancient Rome features in many literary works, poems, graffiti and comments on the sexual predilections of single emperors. Graphic representations are, on the other hand, rarer in ancient Rome than in classical Greece. Attitudes toward homosexuality changed over the time and from context to context, ranging from strong condemnation to quite open acceptance. Indeed, it was also purported to be one of the cultural facts of certain provinces.

In discussing such attitudes, it is fundamental to recall that the term homosexuality is entirely problematic for the ancient world since there is no single word in either Latin or ancient Greek with the same meaning as the modern concept of homosexuality. Although it again and again becomes apparent that bisexuality was more common, even the ancient authors agree that there were ancient Roman men who had sexual relations exclusively with men.

...
Mid and late Republic

As Greek attitudes gradually became accepted in Rome during the late Republic and early Empire, however, a new form of same-sex relations emerged that was quite different from homosexuality in ancient Greece, but owed much to it. As men, particularly the pater familias, wielded complete authority in Roman society, the Roman experience of same-sex relations is often characterized by master/slave-style interactions. Slaves still were considered legitimate sexual partners, often if not always regardless of their wishes. In short, an adult Roman citizen male could acceptably penetrate (whether a male or a female) but not be penetrated - catamite was commonly used as a slander.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 27, 2010, 10:40:17 AM
we need to ban homo sexuality completely.it is against jewish and white spirit.

White spirit?  What would that be exactly?

Ben, I'm interested to know how you define white spirit, and do you really think that other white nationalists accept your points of view and the inventions of some "dark-skinned Jew" on the subject?
white spirit is christianity and greco-roam value.

Obviously you never read "The Symposium"
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ben m on May 27, 2010, 12:46:49 PM
we need to ban homo sexuality completely.it is against jewish and white spirit.

White spirit?  What would that be exactly?

Ben, I'm interested to know how you define white spirit, and do you really think that other white nationalists accept your points of view and the inventions of some "dark-skinned Jew" on the subject?
white spirit is christianity and greco-roam value.

Obviously you never read "The Symposium"
so please tell me about the book.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 27, 2010, 12:55:41 PM
we need to ban homo sexuality completely.it is against jewish and white spirit.

White spirit?  What would that be exactly?

Ben, I'm interested to know how you define white spirit, and do you really think that other white nationalists accept your points of view and the inventions of some "dark-skinned Jew" on the subject?
white spirit is christianity and greco-roam value.

Obviously you never read "The Symposium"
so please tell me about the book.

Well, let's see.  Overall, it is about "love" as seen by the ancient greeks.   It explains how the path to wisdom for a young boy is to have sex with a man in order to acquire virtue.   Likewise, the Symposium teaches that the man "imparts knowledge" by having sex with a young boy.  One of the participants expresses his obsession with "beautiful young boys."   This work was written by Plato and expresses the Greek cultural norms and philosophy of the day.

Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ben m on May 27, 2010, 12:58:28 PM
we need to ban homo sexuality completely.it is against jewish and white spirit.

White spirit?  What would that be exactly?

Ben, I'm interested to know how you define white spirit, and do you really think that other white nationalists accept your points of view and the inventions of some "dark-skinned Jew" on the subject?
white spirit is christianity and greco-roam value.

Obviously you never read "The Symposium"
so please tell me about the book.

Well, let's see.  Overall, it is about "love" as seen by the ancient greeks.   It explains how the path to wisdom for a young boy is to have sex with a man in order to acquire virtue.   Likewise, the Symposium teaches that the man "imparts knowledge" by having sex with a young boy.  One of the participants expresses his obsession with "beautiful young boys."   This work was written by Plato and expresses the Greek cultural norms and philosophy of the day.
oh my god.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 27, 2010, 12:59:17 PM
Ben,

This is just another proof that you should stop chasing after foreign identities and cultures (which you really know nothing about), and instead embrace your real identity - the only suitable identity for a Jew - the Jewish culture which is encapsulated in the Torah and expressed in our practices, writings and history (also which you apparently know nothing about, but this is at least worthwhile for you to seek out and learn about - you'd be remiss not to).
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Spiraling Leopard on May 27, 2010, 02:19:16 PM
There are simple muscle-contractions that help steer the sexual energy upwards, clearing away unnatural pervertedness, help living a celebates life by diminishing sexual desires, and rather than throwing the energy away at ejaculation, it's energy will be put into use to feed the body.
Using this measurable bio-energy in the right way may even be a cure for homophilia since it normalizes ones sexuality.
I am a 'seed-preserver' myself and I know some great simple physical exercises that help me a lot. I even do them walking outside without anybody noticing.

I have to say however that sometimes I see a homo that simply was born a homo. Some hetero's can be freaks, but some homo's are so sickingly perverted I think it's genetic; say perez hilton times 10.
I think those rare cases are uncurable. But you also have normal fags like the ones from Christian the Lion.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: JTFenthusiast2 on May 27, 2010, 04:29:46 PM
It's interesting though that even amongst the Greeks, having affairs with young men was entirely normal, but this was only true as long as the adult male had heterosexual relations with women.  To be a Kinsey 6 was seen as deviant.  It was also deviant for the adult male to enjoy being penetrated or to  perform oral sex on the younger male.  The younger male was in essence a substitute female. 
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 27, 2010, 04:31:15 PM
It's interesting though that even amongst the Greeks, having affairs with young men was entirely normal, but this was only true as long as the adult male had heterosexual relations with women.  To be a Kinsey 6 was seen as deviant.  It was also deviant for the adult male to enjoy being penetrated or to  perform oral sex on the younger male.  The younger male was in essence a substitute female. 

That doesn't make it any less gay.

Or any less perverse for that matter.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ari Ben-Canaan on May 27, 2010, 05:06:12 PM
The myth of homosexuality being admired in Greece is just that, a myth.  Yes homosexuality occurred there, but it was not praiseworthy, in fact it was considered an insult to label someone as homosexual.

http://www.macedoniaontheweb.com/

This website is down now, but it should be back up [I will post when it is active again].  I post there.  The majority of people on this board speak and read Greek and have debunked for all to read what "scholars" put forth as truth about the acceptance/promotion of homosexuality.  The lies spread about Greece are just one more way the Liberal community tries to promote homosexuality in lieu of true history.

This forum, which I hope goes back online soon, is quite a great forum for all things Greek, and true Macedonian [not western-Bulgaria slavic modern Macedonia].  One can learn a lot about Alexander the Great here [as well as debunking his homosexual myths].

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I watched this "Trembling" movie and was not persuaded, although I do feel sorrow for what these people go through.  I take no joy in watching people suffer.  I see no convincing scientific reason to classify homosexuality/bisexuality/transsexuality as anything but a mental illness or state of mind [or as God put it, "an abomination"].  It is unfortunate for many that the Liberals and their media wish to sanitize and promote these types of lifestyles, it does a great disservice to those who suffer from these vices.  It is unfortunate the Liberal media portrays many deviant lifestyles as acceptable besides those mentioned above, it is fairly safe to say if the Liberal media advocates something it is highly questionable and most likely immoral.

I once heard Rabbi Kahane say something about like this, "God did not write a book, pass it out to the Jewish people, and then ask what people thought of it.".

If I had a son who believed he was a homosexual, God forbid, I am sure I would still love him, but I would very much disagree with his actions.  I would do what I could to help him understand the truth of the matter, hopefully I would have a good Rabbi to help me with this task.  I would ask God for help.  Certain lines would be drawn on what would happen socially, but that would be more dependent on his behavior rather than my own predispositions.  God forbid indeed.

If I had a son who was involved with a porn star, God forbid, I would have similar feelings.

I believe Muman said something about rebuking/pushing a person with their left hand, but holding on to them with their right.  I would not seek the destruction of my family.  If one pushes another with both hands a person is lost.

Many, if not all people, struggle with mitzvoth.  

I have to remind myself to keep my eyes off of every attractive woman I see at times [I am getting better at this with age].  

Sometimes I get impatient about waiting the time after eating meat to consume a milk product.  I even tell myself, "what difference does it make, I ate hours ago, who would know?"[WHO indeed!].  

I used to eat treif, sometimes I hunger for shrimp, or crab nlegs, or lobster, or clam chowder, I never succumb to these desires but my brain knows these things taste good to me and on its own it tells me I am hungry for them sometimes even though I don't want to be.

I also have tattoos from when I was younger which I may never be able to get rid of to remind me multiple times daily of transgressions [I live in hot climate; how can I wear shorts or a t-shirt and my beloved kippah if I have tattoos on my legs and arm?  What if another Jew saw my tattoos and kippah and decided for themselves it was OK for them to get a tattoo?  Or a non-Jew scoffs, "the Jews no longer keep their mitzvah".  Often times I suffer in the heat and think about not making more bad decisions].

I used to smoke pot all day every day for years.  [Now my Dad wants to school and employ me as an addiction counselor to help others.]

If my parents had ever stopped being my parents and shut me out, or started to condone behavior where I was hurting myself, I would not be where I am today.  I can only hope to be as good of a parent as my parents have been to me.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: JTFenthusiast2 on May 27, 2010, 05:08:32 PM
Ariel,

It isnt a myth about same-sex relations and it's relative acceptance.  One only need to go to a musuem and look at any section on Greek art.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: muman613 on May 27, 2010, 05:18:30 PM
Ariel,

It isnt a myth about same-sex relations and it's relative acceptance.  One only need to go to a musuem and look at any section on Greek art.

I agree...

Look at this greek artwork and tell me it is not homo:

(http://www.carnaval.com/saturnalia/greek-gay.JPEG)

http://www.carnaval.com/orpheus/orpheus.htm
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Ovid wrote no poems to boys himself but, like his fellow-poets, he assumes the universality of bisexuality. At the beginning of his Loves, he laments that he has "no boy to sing of" or "long-haired girl," these being equally acceptable subjects for the erotic poet.

Not all the homoerotic stories of the Metamorphosis are in book ten. Book three tells the tale of Narcissus. In Ovid's version, Narcissus is loved by girls and boys, but it is specifically a boy he scorns who sets the curse on him; he falls fatally in love with another "lovely boy" when he sees his image reflected in a pool.

Lesbianism is a theme rarely treated in Latin literature, but one story in Ovid's book nine describes the love of two girls. But though Ovid regards the love of boys as commonplace, love between females is unthinkable in his world. Ovid represents Iphis as shocked and horrified when she discovers her feelings; a benevolent goddess resolves the impasse by changing her into a boy.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Rubystars on May 27, 2010, 05:19:53 PM
I don't really blame the modern Greeks for wanting to deny that history! lol
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: JTFenthusiast2 on May 27, 2010, 05:25:37 PM
Ariel,

That is a nice point you made about not being able to wear shorts in hot weather because of your tattoos, as well as the message it might send to a younger person.  I hope perhaps at some  point int he future you can have laser resurfacing to remove the tattoos
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ari Ben-Canaan on May 27, 2010, 05:36:36 PM
Ariel,

It isnt a myth about same-sex relations and it's relative acceptance.  One only need to go to a musuem and look at any section on Greek art.

Do not most artists today lean on the Left?

Wait until you read what the forum has to say, and the sources they cite, as opposed to pictures of art.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ari Ben-Canaan on May 27, 2010, 05:40:36 PM
Ariel,

That is a nice point you made about not being able to wear shorts in hot weather because of your tattoos, as well as the message it might send to a younger person.  I hope perhaps at some  point int he future you can have laser resurfacing to remove the tattoos

Thank you.  I too hope to one day be able to afford the laser removal.  It is an expensive process [one tattoo is a half-sleeve, Im just glad I didnt get a full one!]... somewhat frustrating to me because I paid near nothing for the actual tattoos because my friend is a tattoo artist.  I think with what is opening as a possible career for me may very much be able to accomplish the task.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 27, 2010, 05:49:28 PM
The myth of homosexuality being admired in Greece is just that, a myth.  Yes homosexuality occurred there, but it was not praiseworthy, in fact it was considered an insult to label someone as homosexual.


That's only if you consider sex with male children to be 1.  not a homosexual act and 2. not a perverse disgusting thing worse than homosexual sex with a male adult.

Only if one thinks that sex with children is ok can they give lip service to ancient greek sexual tradition and call it ok.   Only if one thinks that "with a boy doesn't count as gay" can they call it "not gay."
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 27, 2010, 05:51:20 PM

This website is down now, but it should be back up [I will post when it is active again].  I post there.  The majority of people on this board speak and read Greek and have debunked for all to read what "scholars" put forth as truth about the acceptance/promotion of homosexuality.  The lies spread about Greece are just one more way the Liberal community tries to promote homosexuality in lieu of true history.

I also don't understand what you mean.  Was Plato part of today's "liberal community" and is Plato a scholar putting forth promotion of homosexuality as a leftist shill?   (I ask that rhetorically).

Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 27, 2010, 05:51:58 PM
Ariel,

It isnt a myth about same-sex relations and it's relative acceptance.  One only need to go to a musuem and look at any section on Greek art.

I agree...

Look at this greek artwork and tell me it is not homo:

(http://www.carnaval.com/saturnalia/greek-gay.JPEG)   


 :::D
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ari Ben-Canaan on May 27, 2010, 05:53:30 PM
Ariel,

It isnt a myth about same-sex relations and it's relative acceptance.  One only need to go to a musuem and look at any section on Greek art.

I agree...

Look at this greek artwork and tell me it is not homo:

(http://www.carnaval.com/saturnalia/greek-gay.JPEG)

http://www.carnaval.com/orpheus/orpheus.htm
Quote
Ovid wrote no poems to boys himself but, like his fellow-poets, he assumes the universality of bisexuality. At the beginning of his Loves, he laments that he has "no boy to sing of" or "long-haired girl," these being equally acceptable subjects for the erotic poet.

Not all the homoerotic stories of the Metamorphosis are in book ten. Book three tells the tale of Narcissus. In Ovid's version, Narcissus is loved by girls and boys, but it is specifically a boy he scorns who sets the curse on him; he falls fatally in love with another "lovely boy" when he sees his image reflected in a pool.

Lesbianism is a theme rarely treated in Latin literature, but one story in Ovid's book nine describes the love of two girls. But though Ovid regards the love of boys as commonplace, love between females is unthinkable in his world. Ovid represents Iphis as shocked and horrified when she discovers her feelings; a benevolent goddess resolves the impasse by changing her into a boy.


I could be wrong.  However I have learned a tremendous amount about Greek/Macedonian culture from this forum from some well informed Greeks/Macedonians.  They may have more to say about questions you have.  I was somewhat skeptical about their initial claims because of what traditional history has taught, but they make a fairly powerful argument against what I had previously been taught [not everyone on this site shares a uniform opinion, of course, the debates I witnessed seem to encompass a lot of works].  I wish the site was up, not just for this debate, but along with JTF it is one of my favorite boards on the internet, without it being online the whole of the internet is somewhat lessened to me.

What do colleges and professors teach about Israel vs. what actually goes on in Israel from Israeli perspective?  How often do people try and discredit the Bible for political/social reasons?
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 27, 2010, 05:56:13 PM
Come on.  It's silly.   I can see already their argument is anachronistic.  They are trying to apply today's situation as if conditions were the same then, and they want to cast all the characters in a mold that did not appear on the scene until the modern era.  They can't reinvent plato.    If they don't agree with the past, great.   Let's move on.   But they are in denial it seems.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ari Ben-Canaan on May 27, 2010, 06:05:03 PM

This website is down now, but it should be back up [I will post when it is active again].  I post there.  The majority of people on this board speak and read Greek and have debunked for all to read what "scholars" put forth as truth about the acceptance/promotion of homosexuality.  The lies spread about Greece are just one more way the Liberal community tries to promote homosexuality in lieu of true history.

I also don't understand what you mean.  Was Plato part of today's "liberal community" and is Plato a scholar putting forth promotion of homosexuality as a leftist shill?   (I ask that rhetorically).



I am not familiar with all of Plato's works, but speaking of Plato, I did watch a debate where accusations of Socrates being homosexual stemming from Plato's work was refuted.  I also saw the accusations of homosexuality regarding Alexander the Great successfully dismissed.  I would do an injustice to us by trying to remember everything of the top of my head; I will let you know when this site is back up, and perhaps my opinions will change under the scrutiny of this board and its members at that time when all can see what I came across.  I could be wrong about everything.  I would be interested in seeing what the more intelligent posters on this other board have to say to your questions if you can ask better ones than I.

I will say, look at how the Torah was translated into the Septuagint, and then translated from Greek into a thousands of other translations even more inaccurate.  Understanding Hebrew allows one to see the fallacies of the Septuagint and its derivatives, no?  Yet the majority of the world does not understand the Torah as it is actually written.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ari Ben-Canaan on May 27, 2010, 06:05:47 PM
Come on.  It's silly.   I can see already their argument is anachronistic.  They are trying to apply today's situation as if conditions were the same then, and they want to cast all the characters in a mold that did not appear on the scene until the modern era.  They can't reinvent plato.    If they don't agree with the past, great.   Let's move on.   But they are in denial it seems.

I will agree to move on, I hope when this site is back up we can continue the conversation.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 27, 2010, 06:10:21 PM
I'm not claiming Plato was homosexual.  I'm claiming he wrote the Symposium.  No one disputes this.   Read that and then reconsider what that forum is saying.

Secondly, by these apologists, apparently "boys don't count" so when they say "not a homosexual" about Alexander or whoever else, they really mean things like "he also had relations with women" and "he only had sex with young boys but not adult men" and "he was not on the receiving end."    Such arguments are pointless.  I don't care if they were "homosexual" in today's definition of the term in political discourse.  The point is that their cultural norm was sex with boys.   That is nothing to be proud of.  Even if they have other things to be proud of.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 27, 2010, 06:11:18 PM
Come on.  It's silly.   I can see already their argument is anachronistic.  They are trying to apply today's situation as if conditions were the same then, and they want to cast all the characters in a mold that did not appear on the scene until the modern era.  They can't reinvent plato.    If they don't agree with the past, great.   Let's move on.   But they are in denial it seems.

I will agree to move on, I hope when this site is back up we can continue the conversation.

I didn't mean us literally I meant the human species, move on from a very ugly past.  Or at least for the Greeks since they were the ones involved in this.  They should move on, and I think they have.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ari Ben-Canaan on May 27, 2010, 06:16:44 PM
I'm not claiming Plato was homosexual.  I'm claiming he wrote the Symposium.  No one disputes this.   Read that and then reconsider what that forum is saying.

Secondly, by these apologists, apparently "boys don't count" so when they say "not a homosexual" about Alexander or whoever else, they really mean things like "he also had relations with women" and "he only had sex with young boys but not adult men" and "he was not on the receiving end."    Such arguments are pointless.  I don't care if they were "homosexual" in today's definition of the term in political discourse.  The point is that their cultural norm was sex with boys.   That is nothing to be proud of.  Even if they have other things to be proud of.

When I get the chance I will ask specifically about this.  I do not remember any specific arguments to this end, it will be interesting to me what the people I talk to have to say about this.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ari Ben-Canaan on May 27, 2010, 06:41:44 PM
http://homosexualityinancientgreece.wordpress.com/category/laws-against-homosexual-and-pederastic-relations/

This is a blog which was linked to Macedoniaontheweb.  It is not as thorough as the site I have been speaking of is because question and answer is not possible, but it does showcase some of the arguments  and texts I have seen which raised my curiosity at the time.  The above link chronicles some of the laws in place at the time of the ancients.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: muman613 on May 27, 2010, 07:54:39 PM
Enough of this "Greek Homo" drek; you all sound like Sharpton.  I only want to hear from people who watched the film and have a response to it!!

You can't always get what you want, but you get what you need...

Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: MassuhDGoodName on May 27, 2010, 08:23:01 PM
It's not just ancient Greece that practiced and exalted homosexuality.

It was almost the entire known ancient world which did so.

China, Japan, the Buddhist world -- even the Vikings would routinely sodomize those they defeated in battle.

All of these "apologetics" for Greek culture are just that:  Phony academicians inventing historical revisions to promote their own personal homosexual agendas.

Here are some actual FACTS:  In ancient Greece, it was believed by all that a man's "character" was transmitted through his semen.  When a young upper class Greek boy reached the age of twelve, they celebrated what was their equivalent of a "coming of age" ceremoney, at which the parents were overjoyed to take their son to a philosopher teacher such as Plato or Aristotle, and drop him off to be the teacher's personal servant, student, and "butt boy" for a duration of time.  The Greek parents were overjoyed, believing that having an esteemed old man philosopher sodomize their son every day and ejaculate inside him transferred to their son the esteemed "character" of the boy's teacher.
Women at their time were considered something like a sex toy with the sole purpose of getting pregnant and bearing a child.  Outside that relationship with women, men were mostly homosexual with each other.  "Love" was considered something homosexual between men and not something that applied to a relationship with a woman.  Men would seduce women, dump them, and nine months later the woman would bear a child.  Ancient Greeks, when meeting children or adults, asked "Who is your mother?" because it was considered normal and proper that a woman have any number of children by any number of men, most of the time unsure as to which man got them pregnant. 

 
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on May 27, 2010, 08:38:30 PM
Are you seriously trying to defend homosexual civilizations, Ben?

Gee... does this have anything to do with why you thought my pictures were so gross?
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: JTFenthusiast2 on May 27, 2010, 10:10:56 PM
Kahane  was right,

You misinterpreted what I wrote, I said for them it was normative, not for us

Furthermore, when you say:
 "And don't give me this garbage about Orthodox community not teaching parents how to deal with these issues or "ignorance" in the orthodox community etc...   (I am referring to some comments here, not to hamantaschen).   Because no community teaches anyone how to deal with this issue and what exactly is there to teach?  Give me a break.     People react as they see fit.   The only difference there might be is that in secular society, now in the school systems we are brainwashed to "accept" gayness and think that it's ok, so now secular parents may be more inclined NOT to shun their gay kids as opposed to before.  However, it's still going to happen if they have strong feelings on the subject and it certainly does.   It's just now considered "bigoted" by the PC propaganda."

You need to not be so defensive and haughty in your comments here.  It isn't garbage, it's a fact for some described in the movie.  Orthodox Jews aren't perfect; no one is.  What kind of loving father refuses to see his son for over 20 years?  You think that's part of being a good Jew?  You don't help your children become moral people by abandoning them.  Lastly, don't rant at me because you don't like my opinion over facts depicted in the film
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: muman613 on May 27, 2010, 11:00:32 PM
Kahane  was right,

You misinterpreted what I wrote, I said for them it was normative, not for us

Furthermore, when you say:
 "And don't give me this garbage about Orthodox community not teaching parents how to deal with these issues or "ignorance" in the orthodox community etc...   (I am referring to some comments here, not to hamantaschen).   Because no community teaches anyone how to deal with this issue and what exactly is there to teach?  Give me a break.     People react as they see fit.   The only difference there might be is that in secular society, now in the school systems we are brainwashed to "accept" gayness and think that it's ok, so now secular parents may be more inclined NOT to shun their gay kids as opposed to before.  However, it's still going to happen if they have strong feelings on the subject and it certainly does.   It's just now considered "bigoted" by the PC propaganda."

You need to not be so defensive and haughty in your comments here.  It isn't garbage, it's a fact for some described in the movie.  Orthodox Jews aren't perfect; no one is.  What kind of loving father refuses to see his son for over 20 years?  You think that's part of being a good Jew?  You don't help your children become moral people by abandoning them.  Lastly, don't rant at me because you don't like my opinion over facts depicted in the film

JTFEnthusiast2,

I think the point KWRBT was making is that this is not only a Jewish problem. There are others who would shun such a son... When it is made out like this is a Jewish problem when it isn't is what KWRBT appears to be upset about...

I do not think he condones such behavior, but is simply saying that the problem is not solely a problem with the Orthodox Jewish community. It also happens in Christian, Hindu, and other cultures also.

I hope you understand the hurt which a father goes through when he is told his son is not going to produce offspring, to pass on the family tradition and name for the next generation... It is devestating...

Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Rubystars on May 27, 2010, 11:25:28 PM
Maybe the film isn't trying to portray it as just a Jewish problem, but to show how this problem affects the Jewish community and offer a solution (although the solution they suggest is the wrong one). It's not saying other communities aren't affected by the same problem, it's just showing how the Jewish community itself is affected by it.

I have seen another film about Muslims in Iran, that face Islamic penalties for such acts (much harsher than shunning). There have been other documenataries about Christian parents and the Christian community struggling with this problem. None of those really seemed to say it was a Muslim-only or Christian-only problem.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ari Ben-Canaan on May 28, 2010, 12:07:18 AM
It's not just ancient Greece that practiced and exalted homosexuality.

It was almost the entire known ancient world which did so.

China, Japan, the Buddhist world -- even the Vikings would routinely sodomize those they defeated in battle.

All of these "apologetics" for Greek culture are just that:  Phony academicians inventing historical revisions to promote their own personal homosexual agendas.

Here are some actual FACTS:  In ancient Greece, it was believed by all that a man's "character" was transmitted through his semen.  When a young upper class Greek boy reached the age of twelve, they celebrated what was their equivalent of a "coming of age" ceremoney, at which the parents were overjoyed to take their son to a philosopher teacher such as Plato or Aristotle, and drop him off to be the teacher's personal servant, student, and "butt boy" for a duration of time.  The Greek parents were overjoyed, believing that having an esteemed old man philosopher sodomize their son every day and ejaculate inside him transferred to their son the esteemed "character" of the boy's teacher.
Women at their time were considered something like a sex toy with the sole purpose of getting pregnant and bearing a child.  Outside that relationship with women, men were mostly homosexual with each other.  "Love" was considered something homosexual between men and not something that applied to a relationship with a woman.  Men would seduce women, dump them, and nine months later the woman would bear a child.  Ancient Greeks, when meeting children or adults, asked "Who is your mother?" because it was considered normal and proper that a woman have any number of children by any number of men, most of the time unsure as to which man got them pregnant. 

I don't see why accurate translations of Greek are considered apologetic. - Accurate translations of Tanakh refute all Christian claims for Jews to believe in Jesus [to Jews at least, however a greatly higher percentage of people on the planet believe differently than Jews do despite being shown accurate translations]. - Many of us have seen, "The truth about the Talmud" websites run by Nazis and Muslims, where they propagate many inaccurate translations of the Talmud which list a totally different meaning or message than is actually written.

I am curious to see your information verified.  I don't doubt what you say, it is shocking to me, and I have never heard anything like what you are saying before.  I am not a professional historian, just a person with an general interest in history.   If you can show me a site online which I can also see what you have told me laid out I would be willing to check it out.

Also, Socrates was killed by Greeks.  Plato was sold into slavery twice by Greeks, and nearly killed.  Aristotle had to flee from Athens because he thought he would be killed by Athenians [he went to Macedonia because his father was Phillips fathers doctor at one time].  During their time these philosophers were only esteemed by a minority.

1,000 years from now people could come across German porn all across the globe of women having sex with dogs, fisting, and "poop sex" and who knows what else [as well as the internet in general, the net is a filthy place but I still think most people are decent people], as well as literature from homosexual organizations around the world including NAMBLA] and Liberals and make assumptions about us.  People could come across "Dana International" [a man/woman entertainer who has been on MTV] and think different thoughts about Israelis than we think of ourselves...  or from older Jewish times the "Frankists" [Jews who interpret Judaism to include orgies].  Despite all of the pedophilia in Islam  the majority of people in the world think Muslims do no wrong, once again relying on bad translations.

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EDIT:  It may have been the Greeks, perhaps the Romans, or even the Persians, but I do remember some attacker of the Jews who would cut off our circumsized penises as a trophy, to add extra insult to us if we were killed in battle.  I do not remember where I know this from.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: muman613 on May 28, 2010, 12:12:22 AM
Arial,

The Jewish narrative is that Greece was quite perverted in its sexual passions...

This is from Aish.com

http://www.aish.com/jl/h/48939587.html



HELLENISM

The Greeks were not only military imperialist but also cultural imperialist. Greek soldiers and settlers brought their way of life: their language, art, architecture, literature, and philosophy, to Middle East. When Greek culture merged with the culture of the Middle East it created a new cultural hybrid-Hellenism (Hellas is the Greek word for Greece) whose impact would be far greater and last for far longer than the brief period of Alexander's empire. Whether through the idea of the pitched battle, art, architecture or philosophy, Hellenism's influence on the Roman Empire, Christianity, and the West was monumental.

The Greeks showcased all human talents - literature, drama, poetry, music architecture, sculpture, etc. They glorified the beauty of the human body, displaying athletic prowess in the Olympics. Nothing regarding the human body was considered embarrassing, in need of hiding, or private for that matter.

(Athletic competitions performed in the nude were the norm in Greece. Our modern word "gymnasium" is derived from the Greek word "gumnos" which means naked. Public toilets often consisted of a bench on main street with holes in it; people sat there and did their business as others walked by.)

Naturally, human passions were venerated and this meant there were few sexual taboos -- even pedophilia and pederasty. Indeed, the sexual initiation of a young boy by an older man was considered the highest form of love and vital part of a boys education. Plato wrote of this in his Symposium (178C):

    "I, for my part, am at a loss to say what greater blessing a man can have in earliest youth than an honorable [older] lover ..."

Even Greek gods were described in human terms and were often bested by human beings in Greek mythology; with time, it became the style of intellectual Greeks to denigrate their gods and speak of them with biting cynicism and disrespect.

In short, the Greeks introduced into human consciousness an idea which is going to come into play as one of the most powerful intellectual forces in modern history - humanism. The human being is the center of all things. The human mind and its ability to understand and observe and comprehend things rationally is the be-all-and-end-all. That's an idea which comes from the Greeks.

Above all, the Greeks thought that this was enlightenment, the highest level of civilization. They had a strong sense of destiny and believed that their culture was ordained to become the universal culture of humanity.

The Jews had a different vision. The Jews believed that a world united in the belief in one God and ascribing to one absolute standard of moral values -- including respect for life, peace, justice, and social responsibility for the weak and poor -- was the ultimate future of the human race.

This Jewish ideology was wedded to an extreme, uncompromising exclusivity of worship (as demanded by the belief in one God) and a complete intolerance of polytheistic religious beliefs or practices. There was only one God and so only one God could be worshipped, end of story.

To the Jews, human beings were created in the image of God. To the Greeks, gods were made in the image of human beings. To the Jews, the physical world was something to be perfected and elevated spiritually. To the Greeks the physical world was perfect. In short, to Greeks, what was beautiful was holy; to the Jews what was holy was beautiful.

Such disparate views were bound to clash, sooner or later.
[/quote]
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Zelhar on May 28, 2010, 12:21:40 AM
I think that while certain form of perversity was legitimized and glorified in ancient Greece, it doesn't mean that it was actually the norm to practice, even among the privileged class.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ari Ben-Canaan on May 28, 2010, 12:31:36 AM
Arial,

The Jewish narrative is that Greece was quite perverted in its sexual passions...

This is from Aish.com

http://www.aish.com/jl/h/48939587.html



HELLENISM

The Greeks were not only military imperialist but also cultural imperialist. Greek soldiers and settlers brought their way of life: their language, art, architecture, literature, and philosophy, to Middle East. When Greek culture merged with the culture of the Middle East it created a new cultural hybrid-Hellenism (Hellas is the Greek word for Greece) whose impact would be far greater and last for far longer than the brief period of Alexander's empire. Whether through the idea of the pitched battle, art, architecture or philosophy, Hellenism's influence on the Roman Empire, Christianity, and the West was monumental.

The Greeks showcased all human talents - literature, drama, poetry, music architecture, sculpture, etc. They glorified the beauty of the human body, displaying athletic prowess in the Olympics. Nothing regarding the human body was considered embarrassing, in need of hiding, or private for that matter.

(Athletic competitions performed in the nude were the norm in Greece. Our modern word "gymnasium" is derived from the Greek word "gumnos" which means naked. Public toilets often consisted of a bench on main street with holes in it; people sat there and did their business as others walked by.)

Naturally, human passions were venerated and this meant there were few sexual taboos -- even pedophilia and pederasty. Indeed, the sexual initiation of a young boy by an older man was considered the highest form of love and vital part of a boys education. Plato wrote of this in his Symposium (178C):

    "I, for my part, am at a loss to say what greater blessing a man can have in earliest youth than an honorable [older] lover ..."

Even Greek gods were described in human terms and were often bested by human beings in Greek mythology; with time, it became the style of intellectual Greeks to denigrate their gods and speak of them with biting cynicism and disrespect.

In short, the Greeks introduced into human consciousness an idea which is going to come into play as one of the most powerful intellectual forces in modern history - humanism. The human being is the center of all things. The human mind and its ability to understand and observe and comprehend things rationally is the be-all-and-end-all. That's an idea which comes from the Greeks.

Above all, the Greeks thought that this was enlightenment, the highest level of civilization. They had a strong sense of destiny and believed that their culture was ordained to become the universal culture of humanity.

The Jews had a different vision. The Jews believed that a world united in the belief in one G-d and ascribing to one absolute standard of moral values -- including respect for life, peace, justice, and social responsibility for the weak and poor -- was the ultimate future of the human race.

This Jewish ideology was wedded to an extreme, uncompromising exclusivity of worship (as demanded by the belief in one G-d) and a complete intolerance of polytheistic religious beliefs or practices. There was only one G-d and so only one G-d could be worshipped, end of story.

To the Jews, human beings were created in the image of G-d. To the Greeks, gods were made in the image of human beings. To the Jews, the physical world was something to be perfected and elevated spiritually. To the Greeks the physical world was perfect. In short, to Greeks, what was beautiful was holy; to the Jews what was holy was beautiful.

Such disparate views were bound to clash, sooner or later.

[/quote]

From my understanding, Plato was quite unpopular in ancient Greece.  He was sold into slavery twice, and many people of his day sought to kill him.

Aeschines was a Greek who wrote about Greek law, much of this law is cited in "Against Timarchus".  While undesirable, disgusting Greek sexual relationships existed, it would seem Greek society had laws against them with stern punishments [perhaps one reason Plato was persecuted?].

http://homosexualityinancientgreece.wordpress.com/category/laws-against-homosexual-and-pederastic-relations/
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Here we will post a list of laws against homosexual and pederastic relations as recorded in the text of Aeschines  known as Against Timarchus.

But first lets add a little bit of info. We’re in the middle of the 4th cent. BC during which the 2nd Athenean Alliance is in a great crisis due to the continuous growing power of Philip. The Atheneans, are separated into two major groups, one lead by Demosthenes and Hyperides which considers Philip nothing more than a tyrranic conqueror which will enslave and alienate the Atheneans and the rest of the Hellenes from their democratic norms and a secondlead by Isocrates, Phokion and Aeschines which see him as the great hope to finally unite the Hellenes under one leader and destroy the Barbarian threat (see Persian empire). Under the circumstances one can understand that backstabing, accusations of treason, bribery..etc were common.

In an attempt to present the agreement made by the Athenean ambassadors and Philip as void (since it desolved 2nd Athenean Alliance), Demosthenes’ “group” accused Aeschines of taking bribes from Philip. Aeschines’ prosecutor is Timarchus, a member of Demosthenes “group”. Aeschines, instead of trying to refute the accusations against him, takes a totally different turn and tries to totally avoid the trial by making reference to laws that existed since the time of Solon (7th cent. BC) and by doing so, literally deprived Timarchus of all his political rights.

Laws:

Aeschines, Against Timarchus 12

    Hellenic Original

    [Οἱ δὲ τῶν παίδων διδάσκαλοι ἀνοιγέτωσαν μὲν τὰ διδασκαλεῖα μὴ πρότερον ἡλίου ἀνιόντος, κλειέτωσαν δὲ πρὸ ἡλίου δύνοντος. καὶ μὴ ἐξέστω τοῖς ὑπὲρ τὴν τῶν παίδων ἡλικίαν οὖσιν εἰσιέναι τῶν παίδων ἔνδον ὄντων, ἐὰν μὴ υἱὸς διδασκάλου ἢ ἀδελφὸς ἢ θυγατρὸς ἀνήρ: ἐὰν δέ τις παρὰ ταῦτ᾽ εἰσίῃ, θανάτῳ ζημιούσθω. καὶ οἱ γυμνασιάρχαι τοῖς Ἑρμαίοις μὴ εἄτωσαν συγκαθιέναι μηδένα τῶν ἐν ἡλικίᾳ τρόπῳ μηδενί: ἐὰν δὲ ἐπιτρέπῃ καὶ μὴ ἐξείργῃ τοῦ γυμνασίου, ἔνοχος ἔστω ὁ γυμνασιάρχης τῷ τῆς ἐλευθέρων φθορᾶς νόμῳ. οἱ δὲ χορηγοὶ οἱ καθιστάμενοι ὑπὸ τοῦ δήμου ἔστωσαν τὴν ἡλικίαν ὑπὲρ τετταράκοντα ἔτη

    Translation

    The teachers of the boys shall open the school-rooms not earlier than sunrise, and they shall close them before sunset. No person who is older than the boys shall be permitted to enter the room while they are there, unless he be a son of the teacher, a brother, or a daughter's husband. If any one enter in violation of this prohibition, he shall be punished with death. The superintendents of the gymnasia shall under no conditions allow any one who has reached the age of manhood to enter the contests of Hermes together with the boys. A gymnasiarch who does permit this and fails to keep such a person out of the gymnasium, shall be liable to the penalties prescribed for the seduction of free-born youth. Every choregus who is appointed by the people shall be more than forty years of age

Aeschines, Against Timarchus 13

    Hellenic Original

    ἐάν τινα ἐκμισθώσῃ ἑταιρεῖν πατὴρ ἢ ἀδελφὸς ἢ θεῖος ἢ ἐπίτροπος ἢ ὅλως τῶν κυρίων τις, κατ᾽ αὐτοῦ μὲν τοῦ παιδὸς οὐκ ἐᾷ γραφὴν εἶναι, κατὰ δὲ τοῦ μισθώσαντος καὶ τοῦ μισθωσαμένου, τοῦ μὲν ὅτι ἐξεμίσθωσε, τοῦ δὲ ὅτι, φησίν, ἐμισθώσατο

    Translation

    if any boy is let out for hire as a prostitute, whether it be by father or brother or uncle or guardian, or by any one else who has control of him, prosecution is not to he against the boy himself, but against the man who let him out for hire and the man who hired him

Aeschines, Against Timarchus 16

    Hellenic Original

    [Ἄν τις Ἀθηναίων έλεύθερον παῖδα ὑβρίσῃ, γραφέσθω ὁ κύριος τοῦ παιδὸς πρὸς τοὺς θεσμοθέτας, τίμημα ἐπιγραψάμενος. οὗ δ᾽ ἂν τὸ δικαστήριον καταψηφίσηται, παραδοθεὶς τοῖς ἕνδεκα τεθνάτω αὐθημερόν. ἐὰν δὲ εἰς ἀργύριον καταψηφισθῇ, ἀποτεισάτω ἐν ἕνδεκα ἡμέραις μετὰ τὴν δίκην, ἐὰν μὴ παραχρῆμα δύνηται ἀποτίνειν: ἕως δὲ τοῦ ἀποτεῖσαι εἱρχθήτω. ἔνοχοι δὲ ἔστασαν ταῖσδε ταῖς αἰτίαις καὶ οἱ εἰς τὰ οἰκετικὰ σώματα ἐξαμαρτάνοντες.]

    Translation

    If any Athenian shall outrage a free-born child, the parent or guardian of the child shall demand a specific penalty. If the court condemn the accused to death, he shall be delivered to the constables and be put to death the same day. If he be condemned to pay a fine, and be unable to pay the fine immediately, he must pay within eleven days after the trial, and he shall remain in prison until payment is made. The same action shall hold against those who abuse the persons of slaves.

Aeschines, Against Timarchus 17

    Hellenic Original

    ἴσως ἂν οὖν τις θαυμάσειεν ἐξαίφνης ἀκούσας, τί δή ποτ᾽ ἐν τῷ νόμῳ τῷ τῆς ὕβρεως προσεγράφη τοῦτο τὸ ῥῆμα, τὸ τῶν δούλων. τοῦτο δὲ ἐὰν σκοπῆτε, ὦ ἄνδρες Ἀθηναῖοι, εὑρήσετε ὅτι πάντων ἄριστα ἔχει: οὐ γὰρ ὑπὲρ τῶν οἰκετῶν ἐσπούδασεν ὁ νομοθέτης, ἀλλὰ βουλόμενος ὑμᾶς ἐθίσαι πολὺ ἀπέχειν τῆς τῶν ἐλευθέρων ὕβρεως, προσέγραψε μηδ᾽ εἰς τοὺς δούλους ὑβρίζειν. ὅλως δὲ ἐν δημοκρατίᾳ τὸν εἰς ὁντινοῦν ὑβριστήν, τοῦτον οὐκ ἐπιτήδειον ἡγήσατο εἶναι συμπολιτεύεσθαι.

    Translation

    Now perhaps some one, on first hearing this law, may wonder for what possible reason this word “slaves” was added in the law against outrage. But if you reflect on the matter, fellow citizens, you will find this to be the best provision of all. For it was not for the slaves that the lawgiver was concerned, but he wished to accustom you to keep a long distance away from the crime of outraging free men, and so he added the prohibition against the outraging even of slaves. In a word, he was convinced that in a democracy that man is unfit for citizenship who outrages any person whatsoever.

Aeschines, Against Timarchus 21

    Hellenic Original

    Ἐάν τις Ἀθηναῖος ἑταιρήσῃ, μὴ ἐξέστω αὐτῷ τῶν ἐννέα ἀρχόντων γενέσθαι, μηδ᾽ ἱερωσύνην ἱερώσασθαι, μηδὲ συνδικῆσαι τῷ δήμῳ, μηδὲ ἀρχὴν ἀρχέτω μηδεμίαν, μήτε ἔνδημον μήτε ὑπερόριον, μήτε κληρωτὴν μήτε χειροτονητήν, μηδ᾽ ἐπὶ κηρυκείαν ἀποστελλέσθω, μηδὲ γνώμην λεγέτω, μηδ᾽ εἰς τὰ δημοτελῆ ἱερὰ εἰσίτω, μηδ᾽ ἐν ταῖς κοιναῖς στεφανηφορίαις στεφανούσθω, μηδ᾽ ἐντὸς τῆς ἀγορᾶς τῶν περιρραντηρίων πορευέσθω. ἐὰν δέ τις παρὰ1 ταῦτα ποιῇ, καταγνωσθέντος αὐτοῦ ἑταιρεῖν, θανάτῳ ζημιούσθω

    Translation

    If any Athenian shall have prostituted his person, he shall not be permitted to become one of the nine archons, nor to discharge the office of priest, nor to act as an advocate for the state, nor shall he hold any office whatsoever, at home or abroad, whether filled by lot or by election; he shall not be sent as a herald; he shall not take part in debate, nor be present at public sacrifices; when the citizens are wearing garlands, he shall wear none; and he shall not enter within the limits of the place that has been purified for the assembling of the people. If any man who has been convicted of prostitution act contrary to these prohibitions, he shall be put to death.

Here we must note a mistake in the translation.
While the translation speaks of “prostituting his person” the original makes no reference what so ever to “prostitution” but clearly states ἑταιρήσῃ .
According to the comprehensive “Henry George Liddell, Robert Scott, A Greek-English Lexicon” ἑταιρήσῃ = unchastity.

The difference is indicated further in the text:

Aeschines, Against Timarchus 29

    Hellenic Original

    φησί, “μὴ ἐστρατευμένος, ὅσαι ἂν αὐτῷ προσταχθῶσιν, ἢ τὴν ἀσπίδα ἀποβεβληκώς,” δίκαια λέγων. τί δή ποτε; ἄνθρωπε, τῇ πόλει, ὑπὲρ ἧς τὰ ὅπλα μὴ τίθεσαι ἢ διὰ δειλίαν μὴ δυνατὸς εἶ ἐπαμῦναι, μηδὲ συμβουλεύειν βουλεύειν ἀξίου. τρίτον τίσι διαλέγεται; “ἢ πεπορνευμένος,”φησίν, “ἢ ἡταιρηκώς:” τὸν γὰρ τὸ σῶμα τὸ ἑαυτοῦ ἐφ᾽ ὕβρει πεπρακότα, καὶ τὰ κοινὰ τῆς πόλεως ῥᾳδίως ἡγήσατο ἀποδώσεσθαι. τέταρτον τίσι διαλέγεται

    Translation

    “Or the man who has failed to perform all the military service demanded of him, or who has thrown away his shield.” And he is right. Why? Man, if you fail to take up arms in behalf of the state, or if you are such a coward that you are unable to defend her, you must not claim the right to advise her, either. Whom does he specify in the third place? “Or the man,” he says, “who has debauched or prostituted himself.” For the man who has made traffic of the shame of his own body, he thought would be ready to sell the common interests of the city also. But whom does he specify in the fourth place?

The use of both terms πεπορνευμένος (according to Liddle & Scott “to prostitue” and ἡταιρηκώς ( according to Liddle & Scott = to keep company) clearly indicates that the laws did NOT apply ONLY to those that had prostituted themselves, but also to those that had formed homosexual relations.

Aeschines, Against Timarchus 46

    Hellenic Original

    ἐὰν μὲν οὖν ἐθελήσῃ ὁ Μισγόλας δεῦρο παρελθὼν τἀληθῆ μαρτυρεῖν, τὰ δίκαια ποιήσει: ἐὰν δὲ προαιρῆται ἐκκλητευθῆναι μᾶλλον ἢ τἀληθῆ μαρτυρεῖν, ὑμεῖς τὸ ὅλον πρᾶγμα συνίδετε. εἰ γὰρ ὁ μὲν πράξας αἰσχυνεῖται καὶ προαιρήσεται χιλίας μᾶλλον δραχμὰς ἀποτεῖσαι τῷ δημοσίῳ, ὥστε μὴ δεῖξαι τὸ πρόσωπον τὸ ἑαυτοῦ ὑμῖν, ὁ δὲ πεπονθὼς δημηγορήσει, σοφὸς ὁ νομοθέτης ὁ τοὺς οὕτω βδελυροὺς ἐξείργων ἀπὸ τοῦ βήματος.

    Translation

    If therefore Misgolas is willing to come forward here and testify to the truth, he will be doing what is right; but if he prefers to refuse the summons rather than testify to the truth, the whole business will be made clear to you. For if the man who did the thing is going to be ashamed of it and choose to pay a thousand drachmas into the treasury rather than show his face before you, while the man to whom it has been done is to be a speaker in your assembly, then wise indeed was the lawgiver who excluded such disgusting creatures from the platform.

We move on to Misgolas, Timarchus’ ‘lover’s’ testimony, (who makes no reference to payment) the accounts of others and the conclusion that he not only had homosexual relations but also prosituted himself.

Aeschines, Against Timarchus 52

    Hellenic Original

    ἐὰν δ᾽ ὑμᾶς ἀναμνήσας ἐπιδείξω, ὑπερβαίνων τούσδε τοὺς ἀγρίους, Κηδωνίδην καὶ Αὐτοκλείδην καὶ Θέρσανδρον, αὐτοὺς δὲ λέγων ὧν ἐν ταῖς οἰκίαις ἀνειλημμένος γέγονε, μὴ μόνον παρὰ τῷ Μισγόλᾳ μεμισθαρνηκότα αὐτὸν ἐπὶ τῷ σώματι, ἀλλὰ καὶ παρ᾽ ἑτέρῳ καὶ πάλιν παρ᾽ ἄλλῷ, καὶ παρὰ τούτου ὡς ἕτερον ἐληλυθότα, οὐκέτι δήπου φανεῖται μόνον ἡταιρηκώς, ἀλλὰ (μὰ τὸν Διόνυσον οὐκ οἶδ᾽ ὅπως δυνήσομαι περιπλέκειν ὅλην τὴν ἡμέραν) καὶ πεπορνευμένος: ὁ γὰρ εἰκῇ τοῦτο καὶ πρὸς πολλοὺς πράττων καὶ μισθοῦ, αὐτῷ μοι δοκεῖ τούτῳ ἔνοχος εἶναι.

    Translation

    But if, saying nothing about these bestial fellows, Cedonides, Autocleides, and Thersandrus, and simply telling the names of those in whose houses he has been an inmate, I refresh your memories and show that he is guilty of selling his person not only in Misgolas’ house, but in the house of another man also, and again of another, and that from this last he went to still another, surely you will no longer look upon him as one who has merely been a kept man, but—by Dionysus, I don’t know how I can keep glossing the thing over all day long—as a common prostitute. For the man who follows these practices recklessly and with many men and for pay seems to me to be chargeable with precisely this.

While the translation “kept man” may be misleading, the definition provided by the Liddle and Scott provides little doubt to what is actually written.

Finally a quote that actually depicts what they believed about such relations:

Aeschines, Against Timarchus 185

    Hellenic Original

    ἔπειθ᾽ οἱ μὲν πατέρες ὑμῶν οὕτω περὶ τῶν αἰσχρῶν καὶ καλῶν διεγίγνωσκον, ὑμεῖς δὲ Τίμαρχον τὸν τοῖς αἰσχίστοις ἐπιτηδεύμασιν ἔνοχον ἀφήσετε; τὸν ἄνδρα μὲν καὶ ἄρρενα τὸ σῶμα, γυναικεῖα δὲ ἁμαρτήματα ἡμαρτηκότα; τίς οὖν ὑμῶν γυναῖκα λαβὼν ἀδικοῦσαν τιμωρήσεται; ἢ τίς οὐκ ἀπαίδευτος εἶναι δόξει τῇ μὲν κατὰ φύσιν ἁμαρτανούσῃ χαλεπαίνων, τῷ δὲ παρὰ φύσιν ἑαυτὸν ὑβρίσαντι συμβούλῳ χρώμενος;

    Translation

    Such, then, was the judgment of your fathers concerning things shameful and things honorable; and shall their sons let Timarchus go free, a man chargeable with the most shameful practices, a creature with the body of a man defiled with the sins of a woman? In that case, who of you will punish a woman if he finds her in wrong doing? Or what man will not be regarded as lacking intelligence who is angry with her who errs by an impulse of nature, while he treats as adviser the man who in despite of nature has sinned against his own body?

The phrase παρὰ φύσιν ἑαυτὸν ὑβρίσαντι (to wax wanton himself against nature) actually says it all.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Chaim Ben Pesach on May 28, 2010, 02:56:19 AM
בס''ד

I watched a few minutes of this atrocious film and couldn't stand it any more. The purpose of this film is to condemn Torah Judaism for opposing the destructive homosexual lifestyle.

Any film on homosexuality should have only one objective: to help homosexuals overcome this very serious challenge that they have. If a film does not do that, the film is evil. And if a film actually encourages homosexuals to feel that they can continue to live a self-destructive existence, then such a film is a crime.

Hamantaschen, I love my fellow Jews and I love righteous Gentiles. If you truly love someone, you don't tell them it's acceptable to be a drug addict and then give them more drugs, or it's acceptable to be an alcoholic, or it's acceptable to rebel against the laws of G-d.

Active homosexuals will not have a place in the next world. They will lose eternal life. For what? For an insane lifestyle that only brings misery and death?

This film is a pack of lies. Only Torah Judaism represents the truth. Someday you will see that the Torah is completely true and that those who go against it will regret their dreadful mistake. It is my duty as a Jew to do my best to spread that message to my brothers and sisters whom I love with all my heart.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ben m on May 28, 2010, 03:24:08 AM
Are you seriously trying to defend homosexual civilizations, Ben?

Gee... does this have anything to do with why you thought my pictures were so gross?
no,but i think yu have a serious problems with undersatnding simple sentneces.show me one proof that i defended homosexuality.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ulli on May 28, 2010, 04:56:46 AM
בס''ד

I watched a few minutes of this atrocious film and couldn't stand it any more. The purpose of this film is to condemn Torah Judaism for opposing the destructive homosexual lifestyle.

Any film on homosexuality should have only one objective: to help homosexuals overcome this very serious challenge that they have. If a film does not do that, the film is evil. And if a film actually encourages homosexuals to feel that they can continue to live a self-destructive existence, then such a film is a crime.

Hamantaschen, I love my fellow Jews and I love righteous Gentiles. If you truly love someone, you don't tell them it's acceptable to be a drug addict and then give them more drugs, or it's acceptable to be an alcoholic, or it's acceptable to rebel against the laws of G-d.

Active homosexuals will not have a place in the next world. They will lose eternal life. For what? For an insane lifestyle that only brings misery and death?

This film is a pack of lies. Only Torah Judaism represents the truth. Someday you will see that the Torah is completely true and that those who go against it will regret their dreadful mistake. It is my duty as a Jew to do my best to spread that message to my brothers and sisters whom I love with all my heart.

Chaim, I think you made a very important point here. If G-d prohibits something, the forbidden act is not only affecting negativly our eternal life, but in every case our life in this world too. So the sin leads usually to a double death.

It would be cruel to advise anybody to sin. In fact the opposite of love.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ari Ben-Canaan on May 28, 2010, 05:38:46 AM
If you truly love someone, you don't tell them it's acceptable to be a drug addict and then give them more drugs, or it's acceptable to be an alcoholic, or it's acceptable to rebel against the laws of G-d.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 28, 2010, 07:12:47 AM
Enough of this "Greek Homo" drek; you all sound like Sharpton.  I only want to hear from people who watched the film and have a response to it!!


I am one of those people, and you're hearing from me in this thread.    Is there something particular you are waiting to hear, but no one is saying it?   There have been many comments here that you haven't responded to.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 28, 2010, 07:14:57 AM
All of these "apologetics" for Greek culture are just that:  Phony academicians inventing historical revisions to promote their own personal homosexual agendas. 

Exactly.

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Here are some actual FACTS:  In ancient Greece, it was believed by all that a man's "character" was transmitted through his semen.  When a young upper class Greek boy reached the age of twelve, they celebrated what was their equivalent of a "coming of age" ceremoney, at which the parents were overjoyed to take their son to a philosopher teacher such as Plato or Aristotle, and drop him off to be the teacher's personal servant, student, and "butt boy" for a duration of time.  The Greek parents were overjoyed, believing that having an esteemed old man philosopher sodomize their son every day and ejaculate inside him transferred to their son the esteemed "character" of the boy's teacher.
Women at their time were considered something like a sex toy with the sole purpose of getting pregnant and bearing a child.  Outside that relationship with women, men were mostly homosexual with each other.  "Love" was considered something homosexual between men and not something that applied to a relationship with a woman.  Men would seduce women, dump them, and nine months later the woman would bear a child.  Ancient Greeks, when meeting children or adults, asked "Who is your mother?" because it was considered normal and proper that a woman have any number of children by any number of men, most of the time unsure as to which man got them pregnant. 


Interesting.  Doesn't surprise me at all.  What are some sources for this information?
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 28, 2010, 07:18:43 AM
Are you seriously trying to defend homosexual civilizations, Ben?

Gee... does this have anything to do with why you thought my pictures were so gross?

No need to rub his face in it.  I'm sure Ben is still dealing with the shock of what he's learned in this thread.   A humbling experience like that is what can cause someone to reexamine baseless ideas they've adopted.  Adding insult and/or taunting will not speed that process and probably impedes it.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ben m on May 28, 2010, 07:25:00 AM
Are you seriously trying to defend homosexual civilizations, Ben?

Gee... does this have anything to do with why you thought my pictures were so gross?

No need to rub his face in it.  I'm sure Ben is still dealing with the shock of what he's learned in this thread.   A humbling experience like that is what can cause someone to reexamine baseless ideas they've adopted.  Adding insult and/or taunting will not speed that process and probably impedes it.
am no i think you didn't understand her.he think i tried to defend homosexuality in my original post.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 28, 2010, 07:27:11 AM
Kahane  was right,

You misinterpreted what I wrote, I said for them it was normative, not for us

Furthermore, when you say:
 "And don't give me this garbage about Orthodox community not teaching parents how to deal with these issues or "ignorance" in the orthodox community etc...   (I am referring to some comments here, not to hamantaschen).   Because no community teaches anyone how to deal with this issue and what exactly is there to teach?  Give me a break.     People react as they see fit.   The only difference there might be is that in secular society, now in the school systems we are brainwashed to "accept" gayness and think that it's ok, so now secular parents may be more inclined NOT to shun their gay kids as opposed to before.  However, it's still going to happen if they have strong feelings on the subject and it certainly does.   It's just now considered "bigoted" by the PC propaganda."

You need to not be so defensive and haughty in your comments here.  It isn't garbage, it's a fact for some described in the movie.  Orthodox Jews aren't perfect; no one is. 

Actually, you missed the point of what I said.   First off, I do not think Orthodox Jews are perfect nor did I ever suggest that.   I do think that with all the problems and issues in the Orthodox community, like any community has issues, to single this out as an "orthodox-specific" problem that damages the community in light of actually serious issues that exist, is Ridiculous.  Totally absurd.    Why?   For a very simple reason that I already stated in my post.   NO community is "taught how to deal with this issue."    My parents were never given classes about "what to do if your kid is gay."      I was never instructed by the JCC about how to interact with a gay family member.    Etc etc.    No "community" teaches any such thing.    Parents on an individual level react as they see fit and utilize counseling or other avenues of advice for how to deal with this problem once it arises, lo alenu.    The only difference MIGHT be that in secular society we have been brainwashed in recent years to think that "gay is ok."   So there may be less resistance among secular parents than there was in the past.   However, there are certainly secular parents who disown gay children like the orthodox scenario in this film.    That is not specific to Orthodoxy or Judaism.   And there are certainly secular parents who even while they "tolerate" their gay kid, they deep down are very hurt and resent the fact that they won't have grandchildren etc.    

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What kind of loving father refuses to see his son for over 20 years?

I don't know.   Are you saying that the Orthodox community has no loving fathers?   Or has a plethora of fathers who don't love?    Aside from making an incoherent point like that, what is the point of this question?

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 You think that's part of being a good Jew?  You don't help your children become moral people by abandoning them.  Lastly, don't rant at me because you don't like my opinion over facts depicted in the film  

Did I say that that was part of being a good Jew?   No.   Silly question.  I don't understand why "I" am brought into this.   I'm addressing the general issues.   I never gave personal stamp of approval to anything, nor did I even comment about specific people in the movie except the one guy who got shock therapy  ----  Did you read my comment about him and how I feel about people who rejected him as a person?


Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 28, 2010, 07:35:29 AM
During their time these philosophers were only esteemed by a minority. 

That's not true.  Their popular culture was built on the notions of these people.   And that was the appeal to Jews.   Why do you think there was an entire subpopulation of "Hellenized" Jews which threatened the entire foundation of Judaism and produced a plethora of Jewish traitors whom the Maccabees put into their place?   Hellenism was a popular movement.

To say that Greek philosophy was an underground unpopular curiosity does not fit with history.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Rubystars on May 28, 2010, 07:44:52 AM
This thread reminds me of a really hilarious video I saw a long time ago. This guy is NOT a Christian, he's a comedian trying to make fun of Christians. Still, his video made me laugh:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XW4Ym9IS7Ks
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: JTFenthusiast2 on May 28, 2010, 09:00:43 AM
Chaim,

I think you should have tried to watch the whole film.  The people in this film do not have the willpower to do what you are asking and there should be an answer for them besides the fact that they are going to hell.  Even the Chabad rabbi from 770 seemed to think that this answer was more complex. 

Muman,

Thank you for your clarification on that point.

Kahane was right.

I dont know why you are confused about why "you" are bing brought into this, when "you" attacked me and several other posters on this board in your initial comments
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: JTFenthusiast2 on May 28, 2010, 09:10:14 AM
Lastly, at least the gay Jews in this film are pro-Israel and not self-hating kikes who have forgone every aspect of their Jewish existence.  At least they struggle, some even with contemplation of suicide, to maintain  their Torah Judaism.  I would guess that most Jews in this situation fail this test--miserably. 
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on May 28, 2010, 09:19:41 AM
בס''ד

I watched a few minutes of this atrocious film and couldn't stand it any more. The purpose of this film is to condemn Torah Judaism for opposing the destructive homosexual lifestyle.

Any film on homosexuality should have only one objective: to help homosexuals overcome this very serious challenge that they have. If a film does not do that, the film is evil. And if a film actually encourages homosexuals to feel that they can continue to live a self-destructive existence, then such a film is a crime.

Hamantaschen, I love my fellow Jews and I love righteous Gentiles. If you truly love someone, you don't tell them it's acceptable to be a drug addict and then give them more drugs, or it's acceptable to be an alcoholic, or it's acceptable to rebel against the laws of G-d.

Active homosexuals will not have a place in the next world. They will lose eternal life. For what? For an insane lifestyle that only brings misery and death?

This film is a pack of lies. Only Torah Judaism represents the truth. Someday you will see that the Torah is completely true and that those who go against it will regret their dreadful mistake. It is my duty as a Jew to do my best to spread that message to my brothers and sisters whom I love with all my heart.
:clap: :clap: :clap: :clap:
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: MassuhDGoodName on May 28, 2010, 09:32:49 AM
It makes me terribly sad to say it, but National Geographic, once esteemed as a great American magazine, is the host of Hulu.com, and is today little more than a front serving to promote Marxist Internationalist propaganda and instill the gay agenda in young children and teenagers.

In other words ... a mainstream American media outlet.



Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: JTFenthusiast2 on May 28, 2010, 09:39:03 AM
It makes me terribly sad to say it, but National Geographic, once esteemed as a great American magazine, is the host of Hulu.com, and is today little more than a front serving to promote Marxist Internationalist propaganda and instill the gay agenda in young children and teenagers.

In other words ... a mainstream American media outlet.





Massa,


First of all your name cracks me up.  and secondly..your name cracks me up
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on May 28, 2010, 09:52:27 AM
no,but i think yu have a serious problems with undersatnding simple sentneces.show me one proof that i defended homosexuality.
You went on and on about how great Greco-Roman culture was, and you said that my pictures were gross.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ben m on May 28, 2010, 09:54:44 AM
no,but i think yu have a serious problems with undersatnding simple sentneces.show me one proof that i defended homosexuality.
You went on and on about how great Greco-Roman culture was, and you said that my pictures were gross.
yes but i said that i oppose homsexuality.and yes you pictures were gross and i don't think i had to be homosexual to think that.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on May 28, 2010, 09:57:56 AM
and yes you pictures were gross and i don't think i had to be homosexual to think that.
I should put them up to a poll and ask the male JTFers if they also found the pictures gross. What do you think they would say?
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: JTFenthusiast2 on May 28, 2010, 10:06:32 AM
For one of the first times, I agree with Ben here.   You can be homosexual and appreciate female beauty, even enjoy looking at beautiful women.  You can also be a misogynist gay turd.  

When I lived in NYC, you couldn't help but notice the many beautiful women, everywhere.  Different types: soft and feminine or athletic and still very feminine, older women, girls in their late teens who were just becoming women.  Where I live now, I don't notice that so much because men and women here all pretty much look the same, and there is not this Zeitgest for the maintenance of health or physical beauty in either men or women.  People here are more complacent about maintaining their physical selves.  I am in my 30s and I am always surprised at how many men my age allow themselves to get obese.  There seems to be a uniform kind of pot belly that guys allow themselves to get here that is unhealthy.  If these guys don't want to exercise, they should drink less beer and eat less.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: MassuhDGoodName on May 28, 2010, 10:07:35 AM
Why don't they quit complaining, and do like many of the greatest and most famous theatrical actors and actresses used to do?

It was an open secret that homosexual male actors would enter into public marriages with their counterpart lesbian female actresses, cohabit as man and wife, and sometimes even have children together.

They protected each other from the public's curiosity, and supported each other as best friends.

Each knew the other sought intimacy outside their "relationship" but their arrangement provided them both privacy, security, and acceptability by the public and fans.

Furthermore, it actually enabled both parties to procreate (which is a mitzvah) and pass on their genetic inheritance to the next generation.

Imperfect? -- Absolutely.

Living a "lie"? -- More or less true, but at least legally married, functioning in public as a married couple, and in my opinion that is better than a 100% full time homosexual lifestyle.

Many of the children from these marriages are as normal as anyone else, and feel that their parents were loving and wonderful to them  -- if Daddy or Mommy left alone for a day or two it wasn't suspect, because such a lifestyle is expected from professional show business people.

People who are afflicted with these attractions know that they're not normal, so why shouldn't they at the very least enter into marriage with a counterpart who understands them and put forth a "respectable" public image?

These Orthodox Jewish men would be no less a sinner in finding themselves a frum dyke with the same issues, marrying, bearing children, and living publicly like man and wife.  Their families would at least be able to face their communities and claim that their children were married with families.

Me? ... I'll leave the "burning in Hell' bit to be worked out between the homosexuals and Ha'Shem, and mind my own business when I see the lovely couple out together.

I remember my shock and disillusionment when being informed just two years ago, that a real "macho" actor, Gary Cooper, loved by America and considered a real tough guy, was one of Hollywood's most flaming fags off screen.

My point being made by mentioning this?  --  What I never knew was just fine just so long as I admired the man's work and screen persona and considered his private life none of my affair.

Did I hear someone mention the married couple Robert Preston and Mary Martin?

No?

Must have just been the wind.



  
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: JTFenthusiast2 on May 28, 2010, 10:16:29 AM
I didn't know Gary Cooper was gay.  Massa, can I call you Massa? LOL  :::D


Massa,
You may be right about this more respectable alternative, but the thing is if it worked, then why don't we hear of more people doing it?  I was always surprised at how some gay people would walk down the street hand in hand as if this was normal.  I personally never felt normal doing this and as a result never did.  I always assumed it was because I was never with the right person, but still you see these public displays of affection all the time and it never ceases to amaze me.  I had one lesbian friend whom I loved a great deal and who was prob 25 years my senior that she preferred to "hide her affliction."  And the sad thing is that she was such a fantastic person, that I felt sorry for her, but I do know in retrospect what she meant.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ben m on May 28, 2010, 10:44:52 AM
and yes you pictures were gross and i don't think i had to be homosexual to think that.
I should put them up to a poll and ask the male JTFers if they also found the pictures gross. What do you think they would say?
i think you should post this poll and lets see for ourselves.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: JTFenthusiast2 on May 28, 2010, 10:48:56 AM
Show us da money lol
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: MassuhDGoodName on May 28, 2010, 01:59:03 PM
JTFenthusiast2:  "if it worked, then why don't we hear of more people doing it? "

The reason it's no longer being done is because of the "Gay Rights Movement".

Because homosexuals recently decided to become militant and "demand" their "full equality" to do and act in any way they wanted, they soon began "outing" each other in attacks of personal revenge.   Then they began "outing" public figures whenever they could humiliate them, in the same sense that Negroes try to humiliate others of their race by calling them "Uncle Toms" or "House Negro".

As the Chinese once said, "Be careful what you wish for!"
Within this scenario we see the homosexuals have gotten all they wanted and more:
Now they put on public spectacles, and threaten and intimidate anyone who finds their actions offensive, all while claiming that they are "normal" like everyone else.  Of course, if such were true, then why would they be going to such extremes of exhibitionism to "prove" it?

There's another old saying:  "The more things change, the more they stay the same".

I have no doubts that eventually we will see them face the ugliness of reality and go back to the traditional "show marriage".

*Americans and others were literally horrified to learn that Rock Hudson, matinee idol, Mr. Tall Dark and Handsome, usually seen in the company of Elizabeth Taylor and other beautiful women, had all along been a homosexual living a double life.  His management and studios had long ago arranged a publicly heralded marriage with his attractive office secretary as a "show marriage".  The public accepted it and never questioned it.  Only show business intimates knew his secret.  AIDS was the only reason he was forced to "confess" before the public what is real private life had been all along.  With my parents' generation an oft heard quip made by women in joking about a man who acted like a real "ladies man" or "stud" was "Just who the hell does he think he is , anyway, Rock Hudson?

I believe it would be better for all concerned if everyone kept their own business and personal lives private.  We've become a sexually demented society today.  There's no sense of "public decency" anymore.  Torah states what is right and wrong.  It is not for me to be Ha'Shem and destroy the soul of another.  I recognize aberrant behavior when I see it, but if I don't see it then I don't know that it exists.  Simple.  Everybody should just get smart and get out of everyone else's face!

Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: muman613 on May 28, 2010, 02:03:58 PM
Here Here Massah..

Judaism gives great merit to those who are able to control their evil inclinations. It is also important to follow the sexual purity laws and to dress modestly. Judaism stands against flagrant exhibitionism and sexual perversions.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ulli on May 28, 2010, 02:22:50 PM
Here Here Massah..

Judaism gives great merit to those who are able to control their evil inclinations. It is also important to follow the sexual purity laws and to dress modestly. Judaism stands against flagrant exhibitionism and sexual perversions.


On your own this is nearly mission impossible. But if you pray to G-d and beg Him to help you, there is a way. Even for addicted people.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: JTFenthusiast2 on May 28, 2010, 02:39:45 PM
Massa,

I'm not sure Rock Hudson is a good example because he was married for all of three minutes and he got HIV.  Studies have shown that Gay men that are 'out' are less likely to get HIV than their closeted counterparts because they are more likely to use protection and less likely to have sex under ...clandestine situations.  Also I'm not sure living in a culture where you are the object of snickering without any recourse is good for one's mental health.  I don't really know what the answer is except taking one day at a time, one choice at a time.  I do feel sorry for the people in this video because they very clearly struggle trying to be good Jews and in most cases seem to be except this one.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: MassuhDGoodName on May 28, 2010, 03:51:20 PM
Re:  "self control"

muman613,
Could you possibly expound for us here on the forum on the merits -vs- demerits of a troubled man and woman who choose to live together as friends in a "marriage of convenience" in order to not upset society, even though it is an obvious deceit, as opposed to the same merits/demerits to be had in an individual of either sex who chooses a profligate lifestyle in their belief that "honesty is the best policy"?
Thanks!
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: muman613 on May 28, 2010, 03:59:14 PM
Re:  "self control"

muman613,
Could you possibly expound for us here on the forum on the merits -vs- demerits of a troubled man and woman who choose to live together as friends in a "marriage of convenience" in order to not upset society, even though it is an obvious deceit, as opposed to the same merits/demerits to be had in an individual of either sex who chooses a profligate lifestyle in their belief that "honesty is the best policy"?
Thanks!


I will have to look into this question after Shabbat... I am busy at work now, and wont really be able to deal with looking at this until Motzei Shabbat...
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 29, 2010, 07:49:47 PM


Kahane was right.

I dont know why you are confused about why "you" are bing brought into this, when "you" attacked me and several other posters on this board in your initial comments

Attacked you?  In what way?

When I objected to you bringing "me" into it, I did not refer to you responding to my comment.   I encourage response to my comments.   What I object to is your ascribing particular views to me that I never expressed! 
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on May 29, 2010, 07:56:39 PM


Kahane was right.

I dont know why you are confused about why "you" are bing brought into this, when "you" attacked me and several other posters on this board in your initial comments

Attacked you?  In what way?

When I objected to you bringing "me" into it, I did not refer to you responding to my comment.   I encourage response to my comments.   What I object to is your ascribing particular views to me that I never expressed! 
Look at what the trolls have accomplished--good JTF members are fighting with each other.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Kahane-Was-Right BT on May 29, 2010, 08:04:10 PM


Kahane was right.

I dont know why you are confused about why "you" are bing brought into this, when "you" attacked me and several other posters on this board in your initial comments

Attacked you?  In what way?   

When I objected to you bringing "me" into it, I did not refer to you responding to my comment.   I encourage response to my comments.   What I object to is your ascribing particular views to me that I never expressed! 
Look at what the trolls have accomplished--good JTF members are fighting with each other.

I don't believe I'm in a fight, at least I hope not.

It appears a discussion of this nature between me and JTFen would have come about in any case.   I'm still trying to figure out what he's saying though.


I think we need to clarify on this forum that objecting to a person's view or rejecting their logic/assumption(s) or calling their view baseless in light of known facts or evident truths is not a personal attack.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Lewinsky Stinks, Dr. Brennan Rocks on May 29, 2010, 08:10:37 PM
I'm sure that this person (or people) are laughing their tuchis off as we speak. The poster deliberately posted an extremely controversial video whose sole purpose is to attack the Bible when it comes to homosexuality. Other provocative posters then threw in their two cents--one of whom actually had the gall to defend Greco-Roman faggot civilization.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Zelhar on May 30, 2010, 02:17:56 AM
I come to think there are various types of gayness- Gary Cooper may be one type- I still don't believe he was one. But there are some people like Robert said before that are "perez hilton × 10", they can never be closeted. Take for example Liberace, who tried to stay in the closet back in the 1950s and 60s, and he even successfully sued someone for slander, for calling him what he was. Nevertheless he was way too gay to hide it.

In some cases this is really a mental/physical syndrome, not only affecting the sexual preference, but encompassing the demeanor, thought patterns, the speech.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Ben m on May 30, 2010, 08:12:16 AM
I'm sure that this person (or people) are laughing their tuchis off as we speak. The poster deliberately posted an extremely controversial video whose sole purpose is to attack the Bible when it comes to homosexuality. Other provocative posters then threw in their two cents--one of whom actually had the gall to defend Greco-Roman faggot civilization.
do you realy beleive in this little conspiracy theory of yours? and besides i can defend every culture i want innocently and the last think i need is you and your porn and profanity accuse me on every problem in the world.
Title: Re: Trembling Before G-d - a documentary about gay Jews
Post by: Hamantashen on May 30, 2010, 09:40:40 AM
I am saddened that an intelligent discussion of the dilemmas of gay "Orthodox" Jews which I understand to be an anathema to Torah Judaism has degenerated into a discussion of Greek pederasty.  Regardless of its content, I thought the film was a sensitive attempt to show several sides of the problem that Jews and Jewish families encounter when this sad state of affairs afflicts them.  Do you think it couldn't happen to yours?  Not one of you has outlined what he thinks he will do when his 16 year old son or daughter comes home and says, most emphatically, "Daddy/Mommy, I am gay.  I have tried to change and I can't.  It is not a phase.  Are you going to throw me out of the house?  I have nowhere to go."