Ephraim is correct that we should not bash reform as often as we do, even though you think you are bashing the institution the person who belongs to the 'reform temple' looks at it as a personal bash against his 'version' of our faith. I completely understand what he was saying there.
That's interesting, but the problem is, Ephraim didn't say this. When I asked him for clarification he didn't offer any of what you just wrote. It seems to me like you are just putting your own words into what he said. Care to take a minute to reread his comments, and observe how your statements are NOT apparent in Ephraim's own words?
Are you saying these things in his name because he elaborated to you in private message? Because you read his mind? Or some other reason? I can't be expected to telepathically glean messages which aren't written in a forum post. And it was Ephraim's response to me that led me to explain away some confusion (which you took exception to). So if your words were not in his post, why do you take exception? Again, it's because you interpreted him as saying something (which is not even just a single interpretation out of many, it seems like it's not even a possible one!) and assumed no one else could have understood his comments differently so I therefore must be disagreeing with some fundamental concepts you raised. We are right back where we started.
As to your point stated in this post, I completely disagree. Are you really suggesting that we need to hide the truth in order to appeal to reform congregants and avoid hurting their feelings? I thought we are obligated to tell the truth. Especially about a movement which pretends to be Judaism but actually drives Jews away from God and Torah. There is not one Jewish rabbi in history who said like you imply, that we need to pretend Reform Movement is ok so as to not upset the sensibilities of its practitioners. Not one. If criticizing is "bashing," then bash we must.
By telling the truth about that evil movement, we may open some peoples' eyes. By telling them their so-called movement is ok or acceptable, we let them continue on their path without having a second thought or giving it any thought whatsoever.
When I found out that the founders of Reform movement sought to "christianize" Judaism with such things as an organ player, forbidding people to wear kippas, changing Jerusalem into Berlin, and discarding mitzvot wholecloth, that was a shocking event which instantly ended my life as a self-assured "Reform Jew" who goes to shul once or twice a year and considers "my Judaism" equal to anyone else's, (just that some take it more literally). That was actually what I believed and had no reason to question it or even think about it. But then I learned about the Reformers and that past life ended instantly (beginning what became a long journey).
My point in the last post you had a problem with points out that when rebuking the 'reform' movement we always mention it is the leaders of the 'reform' movement who are deserving the rebuke.
Are you saying we always do? Or that we always should? What you are saying is not clear.
If you are saying we always do, then what's the problem? I guess you are saying that we always *should make that distinction. Well ok.
The founders and leaders of reform movement want to see the Jewish people destroyed, they support our enemies, they are anti-Israel (founded as such, and still are with their oslo agenda even though they claim they have changed stripes to "pro-Israel"), they don't believe in God or the Torah, and they are traitors. That's pretty bad huh.