KWRBT,
I am often intrigued at your opinions on many topics. Would I be asking too much if I asked you what minhag you follow, and what your family minhag has been? I am interested because it would explain to me why you have the opinions which you have.
Personally I am descended from Polish and Ukranian Jews. As a result I believe that I have the traits of both Chassidic and Litvik Jews. My family emigrated from Uman in the early 20th century and I believe they may have been involved with Breslov chassidus.
Thank you
Muman, we are not from the same places but close. My familiy descends from Lithuania, I am ashkenazi background with yiddish-speaking grandparents and great grandparents. We also descend from other places in Europe (ashkenazic). I am a baal teshuvah and there is no particular minhag for me to uphold considering I wasn't left anything except a bar mitzvah and a passover seder in all the dilution that took place. But of course my grandfather pronounces Hebrew like all ashkenazim, with a "sav," and there may be minor customs here and there that he can remember his parents doing or not doing. But I am not in anyway beholden to do what he did, if in a particular instance I can see that something was maintained merely due to error, or lack of correction (or because where they were from they couldn't say a certain sound). If I learn out the issue and see what to do correctly with the help of Rabbis, (and I'm able to pronounce the sound) I can just do that. And if they had known, they themselves would have corrected it earlier. But back then education wasn't so widespread, and you couldn't just look up Torah sources in a google search or a quick trip to the local yeshiva with stacked-to-the-brim beit midrash, with easy access by car. And no one could know, hey, there's Jews halfway across the world and they say Hebrew differently! And even if they did, it would take a great deal of searching to figure out who's right. Only the greatest of scholars like the Yaabetz, Saadiah Gaon, etc knew about these issues in a precise way.
And the fact that I even look at the Torah, is in itself a novel concept for those in my family still living. The fact that I am keeping Shabbat and mitzvot is itself "going against custom" because my family obviously stopped keeping halacha, first gradually, then entirely. There is nothing in halacha that says "if your grandpa did x, you must do x" otherwise Avraham would have been forced to be an idolator (chas veshalom) - and yes that's an extreme example but I'm just making a point of principle, that as Jews we do not just go by "custom" even though custom is important.