I apologize for this thread. I would like to see a logical and clear-headed answer to my issues.
It is not a matter of ego. It is what I experienced and learned.
I have conceded that bad Jews do cause a bad perception of the Jewish people. This is a lesson in the Torah that the Jews should be a light upon nations, and when we are not, we are scorned and exiled.
People who know my approach to Judaism and life know that I work on stressing optimism for the Jewish people. Looking for the good in a Jew is an important trait, one which Abraham our father was famous for (his Chesed/Kindness) and he was also very Charitable in that he wanted to please his guests. I do not shut my eyes to the evil of some in the Jewish nation but I hold onto hope that the ENTIRE Jewish nation will one day re-unite (as I recently posted Hineh Ma Tov in the music thread) as the prophets foretold.
What is accomplished by creating division among the Jews? Should Jews always be fighting between each other for what they perceive to be the right way? Indeed there are issues worth fighting for, and I am prepared to fight those fights. I am no coward and believe that Israel must remain strong no matter how much the leftist Jews and the nations attempt to restrain Israel from responding to aggression. On those issues I stand strong but I will also not give up hope on those leftist Jews who still have a potential place in the World to Come if they truly repent, and change their ways.
As I have said in the past, push away with the left hand, pull close with the right hand... I think that this approach is the best. It is not being PC or supporting evil, but assisting those who have gone astray to get back on the path to Hashem. Rebuke is mandated by the Torah, strong rebuke for those who have transgressed a great deal. Even to the point of Makkot for transgression, upon two witnesses, I support the Torahs laws... But we must work toward that goal because Jews today are far from the mark.
This is my opinion, make of it what you will.