Ok Raul thanks for replying. I think I understand why you feel the way you do now. Civilized people tend to have a lot of compassion for other people, especially if they see others suffering, and this is noble and understandable. I know this is a long post but please read it.
Honestly, I used to feel much the same way you do. When I was young, the schools I went to had mostly white kids in them (these days, it would be mostly Mexican more than likely), and the kids in my neighborhood that I played with as a young child were mostly white and some of them were Mexican. I saw some blacks at school, but I didn't really see the full "TNB", although I had glimpses of it.
Even as an adult with some knowledge of black behavior that I'd witnessed, I wanted to believe that stereotypes were only stereotypes, and that we should not use someone's race to pre-judge them or to guess how they would behave.
It took getting into the working world and college , doing my own shopping, etc. and actually witnessing how blacks behaved in packs and how blacks tended to show more of certain behaviors than other groups before I started to wake up.
One time, a friend of mine on Pal Talk who knew I liked Jews and Israel suggested that I join JTF. One of the first things I did was scroll down the page and click on the latest "Ask JTF" link, and listen. I heard Chaim talking about blacks in a disgusted tone of voice. I thought "This isn't the place for me, it's racist." I couldn't understand why a persecuted group like the Jews was having someone speak so harshly about another group that I felt had been persecuted.
Several things changed my mind. First, I saw how blacks behaved lazily in college, shoving their work off on other people, or if I was in a group with them, letting me do all the work. I didn't want to believe that it was because of their race. I tried to convince myself that they were just being bad individuals. I also saw blacks behaving very lewdly in ways that white people or even other nonwhite humans did not.
Two major things changed my mind completely: Hurricane Katrina and losing my promotion.
After Katrina, many very cruel, evil blacks came to my city Houston in Texas. They were VILE, nasty, criminal. They screamed racism at the slightest provocation. They used their race to get free stuff. They tried to steal donation cans, and they engaged in all types of horrible behavior at my jobs. One of them made me ten dollars short on my till by distracting me and grabbing a roll of quarters that I had gotten for my till. The Katrina evacuees killed people in Houston and criminals set up shop here. It was like a slap in the face after our city had opened our arms and hearts to them.
In the mean time, Houston blacks weren't that much better. I could tell you story after story of the crazy stuff they pulled. I trained some blacks and time after time, they were promoted over me. I saw how I was the one being discriminated against, for being white! They got everything handed to them. I was denied advancement because I didn't contribute to diversity.
After all this I became very aware of racial differences, and when my friend suggested again that I join JTF, I was ready this time.